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"Why do i keep getting blocked or ignored by women who are in area its annoying " They are not interested in you. Accept it and move on. | |||
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"The whole site of women seem to be same" If you feel all the women are doing this then maybe it’s your approach. | |||
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"Why do i keep getting blocked or ignored by women who are in area its annoying " How are you approaching them? If it’s “fancy a fuck?” Then it’s probably the reason. If they’re not looking for a meet, then tgat could be it! | |||
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"No i dont put fancy a fuck " Imagine you’re messaging us, what would you write etc. | |||
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"Wouldnt know as been on here a year and not experienced enough " So you don’t want our help then? | |||
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"Why do i keep getting blocked or ignored by women who are in area its annoying " Dnt let it bother you. You just aren't for them im sure someone will come along that is | |||
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"Hope so but cant see it though" If you use the "+quote" button when replying in the forum, people can see what you're replying to and things might make a bit more sense. (Bry) | |||
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"Thats true not just me sick of the guys inboxing me and no women its annoying" You can set mail filters to block single men. (Bry) | |||
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"Hope so but cant see it though If you use the "+quote" button when replying in the forum, people can see what you're replying to and things might make a bit more sense. Ok thank you very much for the info (Bry)" | |||
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"How can u get a meet if you get blockes or ignored impposible " Find your local social meet(s) or a club and go to them. Get talking to real people who really swing, make friends and get verified that way. Cam verifications mean nothing, when the women you're messaging have the choice of another two hundred people who have proper meet verifications. (Bry) | |||
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"How can u get a meet if you get blockes or ignored impposible Find your local social meet(s) or a club and go to them. Get talking to real people who really swing, make friends and get verified that way. Cam verifications mean nothing, when the women you're messaging have the choice of another two hundred people who have proper meet verifications. (Bry)" Ok thanks and will do its not easy get a proper meet and will try look for a social | |||
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"You know how frustrating it is when you get messages from guys, who you’re not interested in? Do you reply to all of them? Do you explain in detail why you’re not interested in them? Or do you just delete the message/block them? That’s how it is for women. Constant messages from guys, and there simply isn’t time to reply to them all explaining. It’s much easier to just delete and ignore, if they don’t take the hint and message several times, they get blocked. A bit like I imagine you deal with guys….. " Yes it cant be easy for women but they have time to block though and not relly | |||
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"You know how frustrating it is when you get messages from guys, who you’re not interested in? Do you reply to all of them? Do you explain in detail why you’re not interested in them? Or do you just delete the message/block them? That’s how it is for women. Constant messages from guys, and there simply isn’t time to reply to them all explaining. It’s much easier to just delete and ignore, if they don’t take the hint and message several times, they get blocked. A bit like I imagine you deal with guys….. Yes it cant be easy for women but they have time to block though and not reply " | |||
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"Not my loss of they block me its there of some one genuine " But it IS your loss. Eventually every single woman on the site is going see you for what you are and block you and then you've lost out completely. Change your attitude, accept that this isn't dial-a-shag and no-one owes you sex, make some effort and maybe you'll do better. (Bry) | |||
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"Tried putting effort in and still no look and how is it my loss am a nice guy its them who are judging not me " But it's you who are missing out on potential meets. Not the women who are blocking you. Advice has been given. Follow it or don't. It's genuinely no loss to us. (Bry) | |||
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"Well i aint leaving " This reminds me of Wolf of Wall Street… I’m not fucking leaving. | |||
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"Not my loss of they block me its there of some one genuine " …. But you are the one complaining I love the word genuine because it’s one of the word’s people throw out there but it doesn’t actually mean anything! I am a believer in that you get one chance to make a great first impression… between this and the other thread I don’t think you are doing yourself any favours!! So let’s be blunt… hand on heart, knowing the shed load of profiles out there… would you answer your own profile? | |||
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"Just like every women complains about being stud up lol " ................................ No they don't. | |||
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"Well most comments ive read have been " ........................... Well they will be if you're only reading threads started by women who've been stood up, it isn't the case otherwise (ie in the vast majority of cases). | |||
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"Why do i keep getting blocked or ignored by women who are in area its annoying They are not interested in you. Accept it and move on. " This ^^ | |||
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"Why do i keep getting blocked or ignored by women who are in area its annoying " Your profile isn't bad although you could fluff out the bio a bit. Maybe you just aren't what you're looking for, maybe it's your first message. It's hard to say exactly without knowing what you say. Unless someone stands out they will have the message deleted. If they grab my attention and have read my profile they are half way there. | |||
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"The whole site of women seem to be same" Yes we are all stepford wives | |||
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"Well she would obvoulsy would go for looks over a bad looking guy" Absolutely missed my point. But good luck anyway | |||
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"You know how frustrating it is when you get messages from guys, who you’re not interested in? Do you reply to all of them? Do you explain in detail why you’re not interested in them? Or do you just delete the message/block them? That’s how it is for women. Constant messages from guys, and there simply isn’t time to reply to them all explaining. It’s much easier to just delete and ignore, if they don’t take the hint and message several times, they get blocked. A bit like I imagine you deal with guys….. Yes it cant be easy for women but they have time to block though and not relly " Why would you think we have more time? Your profile is your shop window, we need to be tempted in to maybe try something on... | |||
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"Thats true not just me sick of the guys inboxing me and no women its annoying" Why haven’t you blocked men from messaging you OP? Problem solved. | |||
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"So is ur ego but u dont here me complaining and been nice to women just to rejected whats the point even trying like my friend said this site is just to take the piss out of people maybe there right" In English please. | |||
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"So is ur ego but u dont here me complaining and been nice to women just to rejected whats the point even trying like my friend said this site is just to take the piss out of people maybe there right" Pal the site isn't but being patient without any expectations get involved with the forums calmly | |||
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"So is ur ego but u dont here me complaining and been nice to women just to rejected whats the point even trying like my friend said this site is just to take the piss out of people maybe there right" I don't understand this comment, you think there's no point being nice to women as you won't get a shag out of it? I think the people who tend to be nice to people with no motive in general do much better on fab. | |||
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"Tried putting effort in and still no look and how is it my loss am a nice guy its them who are judging not me " Are you for real do you mean about most stuff or just here there is cheese in my fridge thats more mature than you seem to be. | |||
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"Why do i keep getting blocked or ignored by women who are in area its annoying " Maybe you're just not their type, just move on mate... | |||
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"You know how frustrating it is when you get messages from guys, who you’re not interested in? Do you reply to all of them? Do you explain in detail why you’re not interested in them? Or do you just delete the message/block them? That’s how it is for women. Constant messages from guys, and there simply isn’t time to reply to them all explaining. It’s much easier to just delete and ignore, if they don’t take the hint and message several times, they get blocked. A bit like I imagine you deal with guys….. " I think it's a little different as the OP states clearly in his profile he is straight and doesn't want to meet men, whereas I'm pretty sure the OP would be messaging women who say they want to meet men. I'm not saying women should reply to 3very message, just pointing out the comparison is way off the mark. | |||
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"OP, you didn't ask for profile advice so can't give any." Yes you can because it's relevant to the OP | |||
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"You know how frustrating it is when you get messages from guys, who you’re not interested in? Do you reply to all of them? Do you explain in detail why you’re not interested in them? Or do you just delete the message/block them? That’s how it is for women. Constant messages from guys, and there simply isn’t time to reply to them all explaining. It’s much easier to just delete and ignore, if they don’t take the hint and message several times, they get blocked. A bit like I imagine you deal with guys….. Yes it cant be easy for women but they have time to block though and not relly " It takes seconds to block though and much more effort to reply especially when people don't take no for an answer so you then get caught up in a back and forth. | |||
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"To be honest your attitude is ugly. I'd see this and think entitled, immature, little boy and be totally turned off. You're wingey, winey, moany, playing the victim, childish with your responses and don't stand out at all. Until you have a better attitude towards this I don't see you being successful or satisfied at all. " | |||
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"So is ur ego but u dont here me complaining and been nice to women just to rejected whats the point even trying like my friend said this site is just to take the piss out of people maybe there right" Maybe it’s not for you then | |||
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"So is ur ego but u dont here me complaining and been nice to women just to rejected whats the point even trying like my friend said this site is just to take the piss out of people maybe there right" Nobody owes you anything, do you answer every piece of junk mail that comes through your letter box? I don't think so. If you are being blocked and ignored consistently the problem is more than likely you. Not being interested in you is not taking the piss, you seem to have joined fab with expectations that you're going to get sex out of it, this isn't a sex site and people are free to so as they please,in this case that seems to be not engaging with you | |||
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"Maybe its the womens views on guys even be4 this post nobody was interested " Yes all women are the problem. They’re all cunts for not wanting to put your cock in their mouth. | |||
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"And change it how exsactly when tried that aswell" What did you try? | |||
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"Longer messages and going for some one who usually dont go for " Your profile might be off putting. Your status certainly is. You say you’re a nice guy on your profile but your words on the forum tell a different story. | |||
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"To be honest your attitude is ugly. I'd see this and think entitled, immature, little boy and be totally turned off. You're wingey, winey, moany, playing the victim, childish with your responses and don't stand out at all. Until you have a better attitude towards this I don't see you being successful or satisfied at all. " well said! | |||
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"May aswell be a blank profile then lol " This proves the point about your attitude. | |||
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"May aswell be a blank profile then lol " | |||
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"May aswell be a blank profile then lol " I don't think you will get replies with a profile that says "hi" and nothing else | |||
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"What else would i be able to put on it " A link to this thread would be good | |||
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"The whole site of women seem to be same" Ooh, can I have a go at answering your initial question now?! | |||
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"To be honest your attitude is ugly. I'd see this and think entitled, immature, little boy and be totally turned off. You're wingey, winey, moany, playing the victim, childish with your responses and don't stand out at all. Until you have a better attitude towards this I don't see you being successful or satisfied at all. " This | |||
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"So is ur ego but u dont here me complaining and been nice to women just to rejected whats the point even trying like my friend said this site is just to take the piss out of people maybe there right" So is your ego but YOU don't HEAR me complaining and BEING nice to women just to be rejected.. whats is the point in even trying? Like my friend said "this site is just to take the piss out of people" maybe THEY'RE right? | |||
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"So is ur ego but u dont here me complaining and been nice to women just to rejected whats the point even trying like my friend said this site is just to take the piss out of people maybe there right So is your ego but YOU don't HEAR me complaining and BEING nice to women just to be rejected.. whats is the point in even trying? Like my friend said "this site is just to take the piss out of people" maybe THEY'RE right? " Not cool | |||
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"Why do i keep getting blocked or ignored by women who are in area its annoying " I know the feeling fella but don't take it to heart. Sometimes it's best just to meet someone elsewhere say in a more of a social setting | |||
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"So is ur ego but u dont here me complaining and been nice to women just to rejected whats the point even trying like my friend said this site is just to take the piss out of people maybe there right So is your ego but YOU don't HEAR me complaining and BEING nice to women just to be rejected.. whats is the point in even trying? Like my friend said "this site is just to take the piss out of people" maybe THEY'RE right? " What's the point, or what is the point. | |||
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"What else would i be able to put on it " Imagine you're applying for a job. See your profile as your CV. Your message as a cover note. Your Picture gallery as your portfolio. Sell yourself. Oh and use the reply+quote so people know who you're responding to. | |||
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