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By *dnlaw OP   Couple
over a year ago

buckhurst hill

What is the fascination with this & since when did this become a 'thing '?

Been to clubs where wife has mood killed when presented with this.

Don't quite understand this.

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By *exy wife and her CuckCouple
over a year ago

Angus

If it's not for you then move on

Plenty out there that's not for us but we just let whoever is into it get on with their fun times.

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's not for you then move on

Plenty out there that's not for us but we just let whoever is into it get on with their fun times.

D"

Agreed

Even though ‘everything once’ is my mantra, I’m sure there are things I’ve not even considered which I would just be perplexed by.

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By *dnlaw OP   Couple
over a year ago

buckhurst hill

Seems increasingly common want/ wish in clubs nowadays, & the wife finds it an instant moodkill during group play, understandably.

Literally came straight home once, & have since blocked a regular FAB as he perhaps surreptitiously tried it on in a group setting.

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"Seems increasingly common want/ wish in clubs nowadays, & the wife finds it an instant moodkill during group play, understandably.

Literally came straight home once, & have since blocked a regular FAB as he perhaps surreptitiously tried it on in a group setting. "

Suspect you might want to chat to your potential playmates to get your likes and dislikes in the open air!

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the fascination with this & since when did this become a 'thing '?

Been to clubs where wife has mood killed when presented with this.

Don't quite understand this."

I don't get this either

Seems like a stomach ache waiting to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the fascination with this & since when did this become a 'thing '?

Been to clubs where wife has mood killed when presented with this.

Don't quite understand this."

Likewise I totally don't get it... Each to their own so won't judge just doesn't do anything for me personally

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Highly erotic in the right circumstances; full douche beforehand as with DP is best advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a thing for me at all, but it doesn't bother me either xx

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By *inkyfilthymindMan
over a year ago

Heathrow / Berks

Keeping the sexual preference aside, it is alarming if it’s done out of the blue without being asked/discussed beforehand

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

I blame porn. A lot of guys see it in porn and then want to copy it.

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock


"I blame porn. A lot of guys see it in porn and then want to copy it. "

Exactly this.

Porn actresses have probably had an enema beforehand and get paid extra for doing it. Plus the film gets edited to make the cock appear to go straight from ass to mouth, whereas it's probably been cleaned in between.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I don’t see it being nice for the woman so wouldn’t exspect her to do it

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Yuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a solid “no thanks” from me.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

As with everything else it's about power ..maybe that's why its distasteful to most

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I blame porn. A lot of guys see it in porn and then want to copy it.

Exactly this.

Porn actresses have probably had an enema beforehand and get paid extra for doing it. Plus the film gets edited to make the cock appear to go straight from ass to mouth, whereas it's probably been cleaned in between."

Of course

The fantasy is very very different to the reality

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I blame porn. A lot of guys see it in porn and then want to copy it.

Exactly this.

Porn actresses have probably had an enema beforehand and get paid extra for doing it. Plus the film gets edited to make the cock appear to go straight from ass to mouth, whereas it's probably been cleaned in between."

Ah! The editing. See most producers insist on the dick being in the shot never disappearing in that take to ensure viewers know it's 100% A2M.

Anyway in my (his) experience in a past relationship this act and many more explicit acts was more to do with the mindset between two people who are pushing each others boundaries mentally. A power game of sorts when we were highly aroused which lead to an even higher state of arousal ultimately leading to us both blurring the lines of self control and acceptability but never to the detriment of each other, both our goals. Others may choose bdsm or tantra for example to get to their desired mindset others may use explicit sex acts as we did.

A bit of a waffle (no pun intended) but might explain a little as to why folks do such things.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"As with everything else it's about power ..maybe that's why its distasteful to most "

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By *aspsMan
over a year ago

dundee


"What is the fascination with this & since when did this become a 'thing '?

Been to clubs where wife has mood killed when presented with this.

Don't quite understand this.

I don't get this either

Seems like a stomach ache waiting to happen"

like a lot of things that people want /try is watching porn

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

To be fair I never minded ATM when it comes to my own ass and my own mouth.

I know exactly how long it took me to prepare for anal and know exactly how clean my ass is.

I would absolutely never ever have someone's penis coming out of someone else's ass anywhere near my face though.

Seeing it in a club would turn me right off too, but that said I would not be keen on being in the same room where group anal sex is happening all together- my nose and gag reflex are my enemies.

Missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I've done it its just been an in the moment thing. He's pulled it out and I've either had the urge to suck or he's wanted to go in my mouth. It's never been about copying porn or planning it.

Most people seem to enjoy rimming. There isn't much difference in my view. Of you think about it both ATM and rimming are kinda gross but it's fun at the time and really not that bad, for me at least xx

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"What is the fascination with this & since when did this become a 'thing '?

Been to clubs where wife has mood killed when presented with this.

Don't quite understand this."

It's not for anyone to judge. I don't get the attraction but not my place to judge or question others kinks

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Whenever I've done ATM in the past there has always been a condom used. You take the condom off after anal sex and before the blow job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once completed a sex quiz that had acronyms on it.... it was a 'have you ever' it said ATM and all I could think of was a cash machine - kinky folks there I guess lol

As for me (her) it's not for me but I can see it being about power, humiliation and degradation for some. For others it's just filthy. And for the other others.... they like poop!

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I was shocked when I was with a girl who did it.

Really not expecting it.

Looking back, I think was quite innocent back then (pre fab days)

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I blame porn. A lot of guys see it in porn and then want to copy it. "

I agree with the above. We don’t do bareback or anal on meets anyway so not really an issue. Quite grim though.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"What is the fascination with this & since when did this become a 'thing '?

"

I bet it's always been a thing. I don't think any sexual act is really new.

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By *dnlaw OP   Couple
over a year ago

buckhurst hill

Was this seen in say 60s, 70s porn? Genuine question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because porn.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Because porn."

I think porn in general is a driving factor in our sexual habits. 60s porn hardly any anal, 70s a big increase in anal and the 80s dp comes along with Ginger Lynn a2m introduced also, now we have on regular basis in porn, a2m, dp, dvp dap, tap and everything else, you only have to look at fabs pic galleries to see these acts in our everyday life. No evidence to offer but would put money on it our sexual trends mirror the porn industry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because porn.

I think porn in general is a driving factor in our sexual habits. 60s porn hardly any anal, 70s a big increase in anal and the 80s dp comes along with Ginger Lynn a2m introduced also, now we have on regular basis in porn, a2m, dp, dvp dap, tap and everything else, you only have to look at fabs pic galleries to see these acts in our everyday life. No evidence to offer but would put money on it our sexual trends mirror the porn industry."

100%. I’m only 34 but even spitting all over cocks wasn’t a thing when I first became sexually active or if it was I’d never seen it until porn.

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By *hantelle-La-SlutTV/TS
over a year ago

South Birmingham

From my ass to my mouth yes no problem at all as i make sure i am fully clean.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down


"Because porn.

I think porn in general is a driving factor in our sexual habits. 60s porn hardly any anal, 70s a big increase in anal and the 80s dp comes along with Ginger Lynn a2m introduced also, now we have on regular basis in porn, a2m, dp, dvp dap, tap and everything else, you only have to look at fabs pic galleries to see these acts in our everyday life. No evidence to offer but would put money on it our sexual trends mirror the porn industry."

You have encapsulated the issue almost perfectly; the porn industry sets the trend, rather than mirrors it, in the same way that fashion trends are set in train by the fashion gurus in Milan, Paris, London, etc. Swingers are being pushed towards expressing an overt interest in more extreme sexual preferences

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

It’s a turn on for me because it’s a bit of a no no . I like being a bit out of control . Plus a good douche helps

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm a bit of a germaphobe so it's a no from me, each to their own though. I think it's considered more nowadays due to porn becoming more hardcore x

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Did it repeatedly during my first ever BB session.

Firstly he pulled out and it felt natural to turn round and suck him for a while.

I was confident I was very clean and after the first time I'm sure he pulled out a couple of times just to have the experience again before finally cumming in my mouth instead of inside me like I'd asked him to. Bastard...

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London


"Because porn.

I think porn in general is a driving factor in our sexual habits. 60s porn hardly any anal, 70s a big increase in anal and the 80s dp comes along with Ginger Lynn a2m introduced also, now we have on regular basis in porn, a2m, dp, dvp dap, tap and everything else, you only have to look at fabs pic galleries to see these acts in our everyday life. No evidence to offer but would put money on it our sexual trends mirror the porn industry.

You have encapsulated the issue almost perfectly; the porn industry sets the trend, rather than mirrors it, in the same way that fashion trends are set in train by the fashion gurus in Milan, Paris, London, etc. Swingers are being pushed towards expressing an overt interest in more extreme sexual preferences"

Exactly same way porn industry has created public hair phobia lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair I never minded ATM when it comes to my own ass and my own mouth.

I know exactly how long it took me to prepare for anal and know exactly how clean my ass is.

I would absolutely never ever have someone's penis coming out of someone else's ass anywhere near my face though.

Seeing it in a club would turn me right off too, but that said I would not be keen on being in the same room where group anal sex is happening all together- my nose and gag reflex are my enemies.

Missus "

Although I love anal with a regular partner it’s not something I would do at a club with strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not?

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By *hong80321967Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Personal choice

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