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"Seems increasingly common want/ wish in clubs nowadays, & the wife finds it an instant moodkill during group play, understandably. Literally came straight home once, & have since blocked a regular FAB as he perhaps surreptitiously tried it on in a group setting. " Suspect you might want to chat to your potential playmates to get your likes and dislikes in the open air! | |||
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"What is the fascination with this & since when did this become a 'thing '? Been to clubs where wife has mood killed when presented with this. Don't quite understand this." I don't get this either Seems like a stomach ache waiting to happen | |||
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"What is the fascination with this & since when did this become a 'thing '? Been to clubs where wife has mood killed when presented with this. Don't quite understand this." Likewise I totally don't get it... Each to their own so won't judge just doesn't do anything for me personally | |||
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"I blame porn. A lot of guys see it in porn and then want to copy it. " Exactly this. Porn actresses have probably had an enema beforehand and get paid extra for doing it. Plus the film gets edited to make the cock appear to go straight from ass to mouth, whereas it's probably been cleaned in between. | |||
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"I blame porn. A lot of guys see it in porn and then want to copy it. Exactly this. Porn actresses have probably had an enema beforehand and get paid extra for doing it. Plus the film gets edited to make the cock appear to go straight from ass to mouth, whereas it's probably been cleaned in between." Of course The fantasy is very very different to the reality | |||
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"I blame porn. A lot of guys see it in porn and then want to copy it. Exactly this. Porn actresses have probably had an enema beforehand and get paid extra for doing it. Plus the film gets edited to make the cock appear to go straight from ass to mouth, whereas it's probably been cleaned in between." Ah! The editing. See most producers insist on the dick being in the shot never disappearing in that take to ensure viewers know it's 100% A2M. Anyway in my (his) experience in a past relationship this act and many more explicit acts was more to do with the mindset between two people who are pushing each others boundaries mentally. A power game of sorts when we were highly aroused which lead to an even higher state of arousal ultimately leading to us both blurring the lines of self control and acceptability but never to the detriment of each other, both our goals. Others may choose bdsm or tantra for example to get to their desired mindset others may use explicit sex acts as we did. A bit of a waffle (no pun intended) but might explain a little as to why folks do such things. | |||
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"As with everything else it's about power ..maybe that's why its distasteful to most " | |||
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"What is the fascination with this & since when did this become a 'thing '? Been to clubs where wife has mood killed when presented with this. Don't quite understand this. I don't get this either Seems like a stomach ache waiting to happen" like a lot of things that people want /try is watching porn | |||
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"What is the fascination with this & since when did this become a 'thing '? Been to clubs where wife has mood killed when presented with this. Don't quite understand this." It's not for anyone to judge. I don't get the attraction but not my place to judge or question others kinks | |||
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"I blame porn. A lot of guys see it in porn and then want to copy it. " I agree with the above. We don’t do bareback or anal on meets anyway so not really an issue. Quite grim though. | |||
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"What is the fascination with this & since when did this become a 'thing '? " I bet it's always been a thing. I don't think any sexual act is really new. | |||
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"Because porn." I think porn in general is a driving factor in our sexual habits. 60s porn hardly any anal, 70s a big increase in anal and the 80s dp comes along with Ginger Lynn a2m introduced also, now we have on regular basis in porn, a2m, dp, dvp dap, tap and everything else, you only have to look at fabs pic galleries to see these acts in our everyday life. No evidence to offer but would put money on it our sexual trends mirror the porn industry. | |||
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"Because porn. I think porn in general is a driving factor in our sexual habits. 60s porn hardly any anal, 70s a big increase in anal and the 80s dp comes along with Ginger Lynn a2m introduced also, now we have on regular basis in porn, a2m, dp, dvp dap, tap and everything else, you only have to look at fabs pic galleries to see these acts in our everyday life. No evidence to offer but would put money on it our sexual trends mirror the porn industry." 100%. I’m only 34 but even spitting all over cocks wasn’t a thing when I first became sexually active or if it was I’d never seen it until porn. | |||
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"Because porn. I think porn in general is a driving factor in our sexual habits. 60s porn hardly any anal, 70s a big increase in anal and the 80s dp comes along with Ginger Lynn a2m introduced also, now we have on regular basis in porn, a2m, dp, dvp dap, tap and everything else, you only have to look at fabs pic galleries to see these acts in our everyday life. No evidence to offer but would put money on it our sexual trends mirror the porn industry." You have encapsulated the issue almost perfectly; the porn industry sets the trend, rather than mirrors it, in the same way that fashion trends are set in train by the fashion gurus in Milan, Paris, London, etc. Swingers are being pushed towards expressing an overt interest in more extreme sexual preferences | |||
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"Because porn. I think porn in general is a driving factor in our sexual habits. 60s porn hardly any anal, 70s a big increase in anal and the 80s dp comes along with Ginger Lynn a2m introduced also, now we have on regular basis in porn, a2m, dp, dvp dap, tap and everything else, you only have to look at fabs pic galleries to see these acts in our everyday life. No evidence to offer but would put money on it our sexual trends mirror the porn industry. You have encapsulated the issue almost perfectly; the porn industry sets the trend, rather than mirrors it, in the same way that fashion trends are set in train by the fashion gurus in Milan, Paris, London, etc. Swingers are being pushed towards expressing an overt interest in more extreme sexual preferences" Exactly same way porn industry has created public hair phobia lol | |||
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"To be fair I never minded ATM when it comes to my own ass and my own mouth. I know exactly how long it took me to prepare for anal and know exactly how clean my ass is. I would absolutely never ever have someone's penis coming out of someone else's ass anywhere near my face though. Seeing it in a club would turn me right off too, but that said I would not be keen on being in the same room where group anal sex is happening all together- my nose and gag reflex are my enemies. Missus " Although I love anal with a regular partner it’s not something I would do at a club with strangers. | |||
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