FabSwingers.com forum: Where did you meet your partners

By *eterleelad12 OP Man
over a year ago

peterlee

I am wondering where’s the best place to meet single ladies that are into swinging. I really want to meet a girl that’s into this lifestyle. So far everyone I’ve been with hasn’t wanted to even try it and most have been disgusted at the suggestion.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We met at work

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

We met at Chams, married 18 months later

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

We met at clubf, married 7 months later, 4th anniversary in September

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I found Paul in a coffee shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say a swinging club OP as you know they'll share that interest. But tbh it could be anywhere, I've used several well known sites and app to meet strangers for sex and come across other swingers sometimes on the way xx

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By *oolkoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We met on here.

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We met at school

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I met one partner on here and one at a Swinging club. At least if you meet via Fab or a club, you know they'll be open minded and on a similar wavelength.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Met my ex husband at work and the partner after him was my ex husbands friend.

It's a long story and not as sordid as it sounds.

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By *ancs married coupleCouple
over a year ago

Silverdale

We met on plenty of fish! Neither of us were swingers & had never thought about it either! After about 5 years, mrs said she wanted to watch me with another female & try out her bi side in an ffm...and that was that

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Met my partner here ,6.5 years ago .

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I met my husband in a bar/club they had a band playing and I was dancing and chatting to another guy but my now husbands accent caught my attention

I was kind of going between the two, definitely getting on with the first kissing etc but it was my husband who got my number at the end of the night

It was kind of inevitable we'd end up somewhere like here when I was kissing another guy in front of him while also trying to chat him up

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Heathrow T3, a long, convoluted, exciting, romantic, erotic journey to bliss

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By *inkandBradCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

Brad was my nextdoor neighbour lol

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

We first met at Eureka and been together 7 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to school together and were best mates before we got together...well still are, just beat mates with amazing benefits lol been together almost 11 years and married almost 6 of those x

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

We met in Matlock x

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"We met at Chams, married 18 months later"

Wow ...fantastic

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

On Fab.

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Try a festival. One of the ones frequented by non-mainstream folk. I’ve met loads of pansexual/non monogamous types at the one I go to each year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At a cash point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met wife at work

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By *eterleelad12 OP Man
over a year ago

peterlee

"Try a festival. One of the ones frequented by non-mainstream folk. I’ve met loads of pansexual/non monogamous types at the one I go to each year."

Which one would that be?

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By *eterleelad12 OP Man
over a year ago

peterlee

For those that didn’t meet theirs on here or in a club how did you get to the subject of swapping/joining with oith other couples or having an open relationship without sounding sordid or ruining your relationship?

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By *inkandBradCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

"For those that didn’t meet theirs on here or in a club how did you get to the subject of swapping/joining with oith other couples or having an open relationship without sounding sordid or ruining your relationship? "

I was open with tink from the start and told her i done it before a little and wanted to try more. Gave her the info and let her decide. You can’t rush or force people in to it it won’t work

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've met long term partners on other sites/apps, in coffee shops, in bars, once in a supermarket, twice off a porn forum.

Some have been very open to non-monogamy, some have been much less so!

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Try a festival. One of the ones frequented by non-mainstream folk. I’ve met loads of pansexual/non monogamous types at the one I go to each year.

Which one would that be? "

The Barefoot Festival at Prestwold Hall. Other ones will do the job also.

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By *imkev76Couple
over a year ago

GOSPORT

We met through a friend and I dragged him kicking and screaming into the lifestyle! (Actually I sounded him out on the idea and we’ve never looked back).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

We met in adam and eves

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *intsizedpocketrocketsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

We met on the good old interwebs!

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

ing your relationship? "

We have been together 28 years and married for 18. We watched porn together and introduced role play involving me (Gemma) having sex with other men quite early on in our relationship. This then developed into us talking about me doing it for real while having sex which turned us both on. Then in 2012 we created our fab profile and then in the November of that year with trepidation we took the plunge and on a weekend away attended Xstasia. And so our journey began We have had a few

long term breaks due to various reasons but we always seem to find our way back

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By *nourdreamsCouple
over a year ago

Warwickshire

On here & still going strong 4 years later

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

We met on here, nearly 9 years ago. Celebrating our 7th wedding anniversary next month

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By *intsizedpocketrocketsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

"We met on here, nearly 9 years ago. Celebrating our 7th wedding anniversary next month"

Awww that's amazing!!

Happy anniversary in advance from us! X

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By *imandher123456Couple
over a year ago

gosport

We met on here 4 years ago , neither of us looking for anything apart from NSA and it just grew , married last october

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We met in a nightclub 30 years ago when her mate pushed her into me whilst I was standing at the bar saying "talk to him he looks lovely".

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

I met Mr many years ago at a quiz he ran. At the time he had a long term partner. We stayed in touch over the years casually. Then started talking more and more. Actually got together in lockdown.

He was on here as a single man and told me about it. I had no idea at all. I was really shocked. After a few days I accepted it and then we set up couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We met in a nightclub 30 years ago when her mate pushed her into me whilst I was standing at the bar saying "talk to him he looks lovely"."

Very similar to me and my ex wife only 20years ago ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on Match but my girls a horny little fucker and we’ve been having fun ever since.

Luck of the draw I suppose.

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We met at work. She was living with a guy at the time. I fucked her for the first time in their bed when he was at work.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

First time we met was in an MMF so we never really had 'that' conversation. We have had numerous talks about boundaries and I think the only hard limit that has never changed is that we only play as a couple.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"We met on here.

So did we!

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We met on the bee dating site, can't mention its proper name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met at a wedding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on plenty of fish. Took a fewyears to start swinging but it's our 7th anniversary in a few weeks time! Mr

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Bumble for us..

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

"We met on the bee dating site, can't mention its proper name! "

Why not?

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By *mateur100Man
over a year ago

nr faversham

Met both my wives in pubs

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

A long time ago at college. She absolutely intrigued me the second I saw her, to think we've done all we have together over the years blows my mind.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"Met both my wives in pubs "

They must have been furious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby and I have been together nearly 20years and he was My boyfriends best friend

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I met L in a strip club in Essex, the moment I saw her I was blown away. We exchanged numbers, got married a year later. No here we are

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By *iss ImperfectWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Still looking for my partner in crime

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes

Hubby and I actually met on another site 12 years ago xx

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We met on here too & also married

J x

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By *J and CBCouple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

We met on a blind date 35 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met at Cupid's....

We'd been chatting a few weeks and had crazy intense connection, he was there with someone else (but open) we had a knee trembling kiss as I was leaving....

The rest, as they say, is history

Kat

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

We met through work

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By *exywoman77Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

While in a cafe in Russia,

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I am wondering where’s the best place to meet single ladies that are into swinging. I really want to meet a girl that’s into this lifestyle. So far everyone I’ve been with hasn’t wanted to even try it and most have been disgusted at the suggestion. "

Sounds like your meeting people with a very different attitude to yours ? I would ask yourself are you living an authentic life ?

Most people I’ve met in real life amd apps are very open to it when I mention it and have visited clubs with me.

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By *nicorn69coupleCouple
over a year ago

colchesterish Essex

We met as singles on here and the rest is history. Not planned but here we are!

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Wow! So many who met via Fab.. We met via Bumble, Y's open communication about (then) being bicurious led to my confession of previously swinging, one thing led to another, and then another, and then...

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

We meet on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At a wedding, typical.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Char and I knew each other through a car club. I ended up divorced, she ended up separated and we both ended up on hospital chatting over Messenger. One thing led to another and almost three years later here we are, married.

(Bry)

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

We met in a kik group

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Hot tub in Quest

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

We met at a sex party 9 years ago and have been together since then

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We met at a meetup social and gitbon straight away

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Met at work 34 years ago x

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By *issA_MrMMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

We met on here. A x

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

We met as teenagers at a disco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on a night out, in a pub, the old fashioned way when people actually talk to each other and chat each other up face to face . We clicked instantly, moved in together after 8 months, have now been together for over 18 years and married for over 16 years. It just keeps getting better and better

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By *uffolkClareClactonDaveCouple
over a year ago

Felixstowe/Clacton-on-Sea

I met Clare on Fab. She'd put in her status that she'd been let down for a meet. Thank you that man because I messaged her offering to step in and she accepted.

That meet was exactly a year ago today, and we now have a fantastic swinging relationship.

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By *TMA that man againMan
over a year ago

worester

Currently single...but with a "lady friend" I met on here....though she isn't any more but knows I am and keep things seperate. My housemate I met through fab too.

Last partner before that in a pub...very vanilla. Prior to that on POF and introduced her to Fab. And before that found her d*unk and soaking wet outside my flat at 11.00pm. Told her next morning that I was a swinger....had a few great threesomes with her best mate.

Lots of places OP....just take things as they come!

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast

We met on here 13 years ago.....

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Met through POF.

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By *MrandMrsRedxCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

On here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a swinging site

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham

Tinder for us in 2017, she was only supposed to be an FWB but she did some witchcraft and ensnared me. We got married in December last year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picked her up in a pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwww love this

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By *l1pp3ryCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

At work

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By *unbicoastCouple
over a year ago

East yorkshire

We met in school and have been inseparable ever since

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