FabSwingers.com forum: Expectations and etiquette

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When setting up a meeting, is it fair to ask for pictures? Ones where you can actually see the people you intend to meet, not silhouettes in the distance...

Just been sent an abusive message from the male half of a couple accusing me of pic collecting, after asking if they could spend the night at mine...

How can people expect you to invite them into your home with the view of being intimate together without being prepared to share a few simple pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest i wont as a rule meet anyone without seeing them on cam first

i have no interest in cam sex but i do like to see who im meeting, even good pics can be 10 year old so if we see each other on cam we both know what we are getting

if they dont have a cam i ask for clear pics

if i dont fancy someone im not going to have sex with them so to me its best to know before you meet that theres at least a chance you will like each other

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

"to be honest i wont as a rule meet anyone without seeing them on cam first

i have no interest in cam sex but i do like to see who im meeting, even good pics can be 10 year old so if we see each other on cam we both know what we are getting

if they dont have a cam i ask for clear pics

if i dont fancy someone im not going to have sex with them so to me its best to know before you meet that theres at least a chance you will like each other "

this

We met a guy a couple of weeks back and he certainly looked a lot older than in the pic he sent us.

we normally cam but this wasn't right at the time,

its not un reasonable at all to ask for pics specially if you have agreed to meet on the principle that you are at least attracted to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a right to ask for face pics especially if they are asking to stay over.. it's your home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me its just a waste of time meeting someone when you dont know what they look like

im a working single mum, i dont have loads of spare time to meet so when i do i dont want to be playing pot luck

of course even if you see them theres a chance you may not get on but i like to narrow my chances of not like each other down to as little as possible

which is why i also like to make sure they have seen me because to be blunt if someone dont fancy me id sooner them tell me on here than after i have wasted time getting a sitter and ready to go out

it just makes sence all round to know what who your meeting looks like

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"When setting up a meeting, is it fair to ask for pictures? Ones where you can actually see the people you intend to meet, not silhouettes in the distance...

Just been sent an abusive message from the male half of a couple accusing me of pic collecting, after asking if they could spend the night at mine...

How can people expect you to invite them into your home with the view of being intimate together without being prepared to share a few simple pictures

I agree with you of course it's fair, you can't be expected to invite someone into your home under these circumstances without seeing what they look like. It's not blind date

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