FabSwingers.com forum: Looking for female advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been searching back through the forums and can't see much on the subject, but I Mrs would love to watch the Mr with another woman. Watching him sext another women take photos when they meet or call me so I can listen. if they became comfortable enough for me to be there to watch and join.

Is this something that people do? How do I fund women willing to be the other women with me knowing?

Mrs

xox

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It might be a bit niche... but I would put it on your couple profile and get him to set up a single profile explaining what he is looking for with a reference to the couple profile...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you, I think I do need to put some more effort in our profile. it is hard to find women who will reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been asked for this in the past. I think the actual elements of messaging your Mr and meeting etc are fine but I found the admin of it a lot. I’d then have the woman messaging me too to check in. It got a lot to manage and I felt a bit like a own being moved around in someone else’s fantasy! Wasn’t for me but defo are other women into the same thing out there x

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By *xploring123Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone

If it’s a genuine shared kink and interest then you shouldn’t have to pay. Be careful and stay safe, just got to find the right person/ couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is something that seems to be cropping more and more these days , the general term seems to be cuckquean but don’t let labels spoil the fun for you

I’m quite interested in joining this kind of dynamic but most of the time it seems to just be the chap who meets. For me, that’s just tue same as meeting a single guy, it’s definitely the aspect of having the wife/gf there too, either watching, joining in or whatever she felt comfortable with.

It’s such a powerful act of trust for woman to trust her man with another woman and by extension it’s trust in that other woman to keep to any boundaries set. It’s an amazing thing to part of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i belive the term is cuckqueen and the as with cuckolding the sliding scale is wide and veried

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Just to be nerdy, it’s refreshing to see people knowing the difference between ‘woman’ and ‘women’

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

(Except just once, on the original post

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Would suggest getting to organised socials or clubs and meeting others. You’ll find others with the same interests that way.

There are much less women on fab, compared to couples and single men so they can afford to be choosy and will go for the things they want.

You’ve you’ve only got a webcam veri. Most like to see meet verifications. You have to flip it and think what can you also offer her out of this? All the best! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a great situation of trust and respect

Put on your profile exactly what you're looking for xx

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"I've been searching back through the forums and can't see much on the subject, but I Mrs would love to watch the Mr with another woman. Watching him sext another women take photos when they meet or call me so I can listen. if they became comfortable enough for me to be there to watch and join.

Is this something that people do? How do I fund women willing to be the other women with me knowing?

Mrs

xox"

This is something we enjoy. My wife is very much into the whole Cuckqean thing.

It's not a common thing to meet willing ladies however and we've never met anyone through fab who's into it. Rather it's come from social events or through clubs.

It's not an easy thing to do either. A lot of single ladies are not interested in meeting married guys on here for their own reasons. Even ones who know you are OK with it.

So good luck.

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By *lmostInseparableCouple
over a year ago

Alfreton

I love the idea of watching my man with someone else. Shy x

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"If it’s a genuine shared kink and interest then you shouldn’t have to pay. Be careful and stay safe, just got to find the right person/ couple x"

I don't think she wants to pay. She just wrote 'how do I fund' instead of'how do I find'

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP why do you need four threads asking this ?

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

It's definitely possible, but it's a heck of a lot harder to find than the other way around, sadly for me

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

FOR ME

I’m not interested in being objectified by random strangers. I only fuck people who are into me, which means the approach has to come from the person doing the fucking. Everyone who approaches me with a “will you bang my man” is an instant no. My standards are not lower for couples meets than they are single men.

Also? There are people who are slim but chatting me (BBW) up for their partner, and that really doesn’t feel great. If he’s not into big girls, don’t do that.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I ended up having a meet that was the female watching rather than playing. I was a bit annoyed as that’s not what we had discussed. I wanted to play with her more than I wanted to play with her partner. I didn’t mind being watched and would do it again but not with that couple and only if they both played.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Also? There are people who are slim but chatting me (BBW) up for their partner, and that really doesn’t feel great. If he’s not into big girls, don’t do that. "

You mean because she is slim, you assume he has no attraction towards larger women?

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

I love watching hubby with another woman, unfortunately this seems to only happen at clubs. Wish he’d try more on his singles profile

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Also? There are people who are slim but chatting me (BBW) up for their partner, and that really doesn’t feel great. If he’s not into big girls, don’t do that.

You mean because she is slim, you assume he has no attraction towards larger women?"

I mean, I have come across women who have very specifically told me that they picked me out for their partner because I wasn’t his type so no competition. And yes, until told otherwise I assume that men with slim partners have preferences for slim partners (or no body type preference.)

It’s a minefield. So much easier to just let the person who’s playing do the talking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done this in the past, but we had already had history with the female. While we were making out, I said I would love to watch you and hubby have sex. They agreed, but started of slowly at first but really got into it after a bit.

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

I love to watch and be watched. I think there are an increasing number of women who would enjoy you watching

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Also? There are people who are slim but chatting me (BBW) up for their partner, and that really doesn’t feel great. If he’s not into big girls, don’t do that.

You mean because she is slim, you assume he has no attraction towards larger women?

It’s a minefield. So much easier to just let the person who’s playing do the talking. "

No doubt. But in this scenario, there is the innate suspicion most women being approached will have that the male partner is not being truthful, and also if it's the wife's fantasy to do the arranging, there's another element into the mix.

It's a very difficult thing to make happen satisfactorily for all parties, compared with anything else people might be on Fab for.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

The main problem, OP, is that we as a couple and Char as a single woman, get a lot of messages from guys who claim that this is how they play and that their partners are fully aware and looking forward to getting pics, etc.

But they are never able to show a pic of them and their partner, their partner is never available to message or anything. Most couples and single women have caught out enough to have trust issues.

I think a social or club might be a better start.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love this with me and A but so difficult to find a lovely lady who is happy with the arrangement and that we both feel comfy with

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