FabSwingers.com forum: Performance issues

By *leasureseekrs007 OP Couple
over a year ago

London / romford

So difficult questions what to do when you are doing a full swap and male in other side cannot get a hard on

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

It happens. He can give you oral until he is able to perform. Though sometimes the nerves are just too much so hell never get hard no matter what.

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By *leasureseekrs007 OP Couple
over a year ago

London / romford

"It happens. He can give you oral until he is able to perform. Though sometimes the nerves are just too much so hell never get hard no matter what. "

We found it very awkward last night and instead of enjoy my other left frustrated

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Yeah frustrating for everyone but there's nothing much you can do about it really. If he can't get hard he can't get hard. It happens alot in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a breather, laugh it off, have a chat... Best thing to do is act like it's not a big deal (which it isn't really) and get everyone relaxed. Difficult not to be frustrated and disappointed but it just makes everything worse.

Stress/anxiety + additional external pressure is a recipe for disaster.

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By *emptd2Man
over a year ago

Brum for Xmas

If he has issues then maybe blue pills are required?

It's nothing to do with someone being unattractive its probably the stress of the situation.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

It happens a lot! Change it to a soft play (no pun intended

) meet or just call it a night. Give each other oral or break out some toys!

Getting frustrated because a guy can't get hard will just make things worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alot of guys know they have erection problems and hide it so they get some fun ie they lie

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Another myth that needs dispelling is that this only occurs in older men which is nonsense.

Even at my “tender” age I’ve had this problem on many occasion. Sometimes the stars have to align, the vibe and atmosphere needs to be in place for performance not to be an issue

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

"Take a breather, laugh it off, have a chat... Best thing to do is act like it's not a big deal (which it isn't really) and get everyone relaxed. Difficult not to be frustrated and disappointed but it just makes everything worse.

Stress/anxiety + additional external pressure is a recipe for disaster. "

I’ve got to agree stop have a drink and a chat try not to look or act annoyed this just makes things worse, as frustrating as it is some situations are pretty intimidating for guys even though they hide their feelings well, it happens a lot and as a women it’s hard to not blame ourselves but once a guy gets in his head it can cause problems where the body doesn’t match the head and that’s not based on our attractiveness. I would just say you better get that tongue to work and try to make light of the situation. x

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

"If he has issues then maybe blue pills are required?

It's nothing to do with someone being unattractive its probably the stress of the situation."

Exactly not sure why there’s still shame in taking a blue pill when your in for a long night. However I’ve known this to still not work if someone’s not in their correct headspace and in total panic mode.

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

Stress/anxiety + additional external pressure is a recipe for disaster.

In case of emergency (i.e no one prepared to wave white flag and admit defeat), break glass ....administer caviject, massage for 60 seconds then all engage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"alot of guys know they have erection problems and hide it so they get some fun ie they lie "

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

It happens it's life just lay back and relax

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By *omerset tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

Ive had meets where been home hard all night and the minute who get to the meet and it droops never to go hard again very frustrating but it happens sometimes even a blue pill cant make you hard lol

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By *uffolkClareClactonDaveCouple
over a year ago

Felixstowe/Clacton-on-Sea

It happens to most of us at some point. I struggle if I'm really tired, and being an insomniac means it can be an issue at times.

But last Friday at Jaydees I was fine and had a fantastic time with a lady I'd been wanting to play with for ages.

Move forward to the following evening though, by which time we and the other couple we were with had gone 38 hours without any real sleep, and myself and the male half of the other couple just couldn't do it any more.

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