FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive been here over a year on and off and have had many time wasters etc etc… with this meaning ive never got to meet with anyone so i have no verifications etc.

The next issue i have is many potential interested couples have said they would love to play but aren’t interested as i dont have verifications, i just dont get how i am expected to get verifications when no one will talk or meet you unless you are verified…. Its a vicious cycle that seems very difficult to break…. I am 100% genuine and can prove this is any way?

Someone please help!! Thanks in advance

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Go to a club. Easy

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By *nchantedRoseWoman
over a year ago

cardiff

"Ive been here over a year on and off and have had many time wasters etc etc… with this meaning ive never got to meet with anyone so i have no verifications etc.

Someone please help!! Thanks in advance "

I wouldn't meet someone with no verifications after being on here for a year. There's other ways to get verifications to prove you are real other than a play meet.

You could go on cam, attend a social or pop to a club. Those would get you some verifications

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Confused as you've said that they talk for a potential meet then no one talks get yourself to a club I'm sure have plenty of social events

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Any club will verify you if you attend and it's a good verification to have. We're confident clubs don't give fake veris. There are however a lot of profiles who give each other fake veris.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Agree with the above...get to a club...problem solved.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

There was a West london social event just last weekend & there's another one advertised in the London forum for next month

Get your name on the list, go and you'll end up with a dozen verifications as well as lots of local connections

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

Socials and clubs are the way to go if you want to get verified. Keep an eye out on your local forums for any upcoming events. I (male) attended my first social on my own as a single guy. But everyone was so welcoming and have been to quite a few since and met loads of great people.

For single guys, going to the socials opens up fab in a whole new way for you. Hiding behind the site won’t do you any favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no viscous cycle.

Go to a club, a social, or go on cam and get a cam verification…

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

We’ve all started from zero…

Seriously clubs meets, save yourself time a lot of emotional stress. It’s not worth it, it’s just an adult social media site at the end of the day.

Club meets for socials and/or to get seen by people. It really helps

Good luck ol’ chap.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I'll give you your dues here. Yes it can be a vicious circle. Especially for single guys. Personally, we wouldn't meet couples or ladies without any sort of verification and that is simply due to the amount of non verified time wasters. We tend to give people who are photo verified and new a chance but even many of those are fake or time-wasting.

That's just our reasons and probably the same as many others on here.

But none of that helps you.

Since your photo verified, there only so much you can do.

You could try turning on a webcam (assuming you have one) and hanging out out in your regional chat room. If you ask nicely, some one may be willing to webcam veri you.

You could also go to a club. This isn't a guaranteed method (no matter what anyone on here says) because if you sit on the sidelines you wont get anywhere but if you go to one and interact with people then sooner or later you'll get verified.

Your other option is to go to organised social events. This of course means you need an invite but attend one and away you go.

The thing here is that as a couple that has hosted social events in the past, we are wary about unverified single guys being on the invite list now. We've had so many no shows from single fellas of the "I'm new and need verifying" type we have kinda given up on inviting them. It's just a space or spaces best given to someone who is likely to show, especially at a private event.

Unfortunetly this is the nature of fab. So many time wasters and wanna bes flooded the site, it makes a lot of us more experienced users a bit wary.

But if you're serious, clubs or socials are the only way to go at this point.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Plenty of people meet non verified guys

Admittedly I prefer to meet verified guys but some of my best meets have been with non verified guys, but there has always been something in their profile that really sparked my interest, once it was dickpic where the dick was dressed as a hotdog it made me laugh so I replied to his message, we met a few hours later, another time a profile quoted one of my favourite songs

Do you think your profile stands out from the other 20+ or so messages whoever you are messaging receives each day?

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

We have only had one meet so far. Asked the guy to verify us but refused as the night didn’t go the way he had obviously planned ! So not just single guys finding it hard.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You'll not be compatible with most people you chat with. Sony will give a reason, many won't.

Most only interesedt in verified users only, won't chat with others about meeting. Having no veri may be an excuse.

Go to clubs or socials and meet friendly people who will verify you.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Verifications are easy, easier than the effort put in claiming about how not to get them.

If you are looking for fun and congruent about swinging, all the clues are in this thread

If you are playing or pretending, you will ignore the answers in this thread.

Big difference in doing and dreaming, well from our verified world.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Hopefully the OP will be back soon so we can see all his shiny new veris from the couples he has queueing up.

After popping along to a social obvs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou all very much for the help and guidance, i think I’ll definitely be attending a club or event as this seems to my best option

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I've met quite a few guys who were new and didn't have veris, as long as they approach politely, more than happy to have a social, see if we click.

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