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By *miffy2020 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Hi I'm new to the swinging scene I'm open minded but very shy and quiet never had a meet inexperience mabe a issue where do I start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello and welcome

The best place would probably be a swingers club.

Go there like you would a night out and if anything happens it a bonus. If it doesn’t then you will have most likely had a good night anyway. You might get to know others and maybe make some friends…

I think they’re a good place to find what you are comfortable with, you’ll most likely see things you haven’t seen before and possibly do things you haven’t done before…

All the best

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

If your shy and find it difficult to interact with people I wouldn't recommend a club. I would recommend you stick around these forums chat build up your confidence, make some connections and try one of the many organised forum socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a very open minded lady me xx

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Time, chat here a while, try a club now and then but just relax there, don't expect sex. People will navigate towards you sometimes, say hi, smile back...

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

OP...try club if you can. Char and I visited Vanilla Alternative this afternoon and a guy said hello to us at the bar. Turns out this was his first visit to a club, his first swinging experience since getting divorced. He was very nervous, full of questions about what we did, how we do it, etc, but friendly and genuinely interested.

Char ended up fucking him

(Bry)

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Hi I'm new to the swinging scene I'm open minded but very shy and quiet never had a meet inexperience mabe a issue where do I start "

It’s been over a year since you posted exactly the same thread, have you learned nothing in that time OP?

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