FabSwingers.com forum: People filming meets without permission

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all. I was just wondering if this was a common issue with people.

Firstly I'd like to say that I am more than ok to make naughty films etc but I've had it twice now where the couples have not mentioned it and then recorded secretly and the first time I knew about it was when the videos were posted on here or other sites.

To me that's not right and breaks people's trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s disgraceful, and shouldn’t be happening.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It doesn't just break trust, it breaks the law

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By *lim_funMan
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

Totally unacceptable and is actually a criminal offence. FAQ 'em different if you agree but wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WE wouldn't dream of doing something like that and would not put up with it if someone tried it. Perhaps meeting for a social and hosting yourself even if it is at a hotel would reduce the chance of it happening again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your responses, I was not sure where I stood but its happened twice now. If I were asked that would be different but I believe that discretion and trust is what makes this site possible

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Have you reported the vidoes posted on here to admin ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I have reported the ones that are public and I can see but one of the couples have alot of friends only videos and pictures so I'm concerned to whether there is more

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Yes I have reported the ones that are public and I can see but one of the couples have alot of friends only videos and pictures so I'm concerned to whether there is more "

It's a shame that they met you, had sex with you and filmed you without accepting you as a friend.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Regrettably, it happens a lot more often than people realize.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

How did you stumble upon them here or on other sites?

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By *moretwoCouple
over a year ago

Feltham

So wrong filming without permission. We have filmed a few meets and always make it very clear before meeting it's for our use only and would never be uploaded etc..

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Crafty couples and their secret surveillance set ups

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Happened to me with two couples now..

Only found out afterwards..

When some pics appeared in their profile and I recognised my cock ..

Second one the guy messaged me and asked if I wanted to watch myself fucking his wife.. weirdo

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's an horrendous thing to do to anyone. Perhaps they got off on the power trip, knowing that you didn't know. I've had it at least twice.

The material could affect jobs etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I met them on here a while ago and then I left the site but since come back and see the video on there profile

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

It certainly appears to be in the same mould of the guys who want to share wank pics and chat about the unsuspecting subjects of their footage

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland

I remember being in a room at a club.

And in the doorway was a guy just filming on his phone.

He quickly got thrown out but no idea what happened to the footage

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

Hi all. I was just wondering if this was a common issue with people.

To me that's not right and breaks people's trust"

It’s a criminal offence sign up to 2 years in jail!!!

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Years ago, amateur audio recordings of meets were commonplace; but the sophistication nowadays of products like Gopro and infrared cameras make professional quality recordings possible, surreptitiously.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yet you’ll get people on here,with other couples, men or women in their pictures and claiming they have permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been filmed having sex without my knowledge several times xx

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By *uysx2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Birmingham

Met a couple a few times and only about the third or fourth time of meeting them did they admit to recording all our meets. They had a Canary security device by their TV and it looks like a piece of equipment that goes with a home entertainment system so it didn't raise any suspicions but it was in fact recording everything in the room.

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By *teph BitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

Definite NO NO without consent

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

never happened to us a far as we know but we always ask before filming or photos Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should always be given the choice before hand.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

There are quite a few videos on here that make me wonder of they realise they have been filmed and put up for everyone to see, then there is the blatant ones where usually a woman will say...are you filming with the answer yes..then quickly hide her face by which time it's to late and the footage has been posted...its outright disgusting and just shouldn't ever happen without concent.

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I always ask permission at the messaging stage at the first and obviously crop the pics or take angles if asked to hide tattoos etc

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

It's a criminal offence to do that!

I have two guys who I meet who do take photos or film but they show me the results first and ask if they can post the results on Fab but if I say no they won't post it

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

We would never do it secretly. It's also agaisnt the law. We have regular trusted guys we like to vid cum shots with everyone up front about it. If tattoos or faces come on show then we delete or crop and edit until everyone is happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not good at all and illegal I believe

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Thats sly n fucked up!

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By *aptomischiefMan
over a year ago

Murdishaw

Pisses me off more than anything to be honest with you and it has a lasting impact on the person that didn't know. Trust in the community is usually well placed but when it happens more than once with different people filmings then you start to get very aware that there may be hidden cameras. SHame really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are the responses of admin here when this is reported? Do they remove the videos and ban the people concerned? It's not easy to report to police, as that means admitting to being on here, and some, like myself, with partners who don't know we're here could never take legal action. I know it says 'don't name and shame', but surely this is a case where others should be warned about the actions of some individuals and couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all. I was just wondering if this was a common issue with people.

To me that's not right and breaks people's trust"

That is disgraceful. They should be done for it.

I have heard about a couple who have lots of meets with both couples and singles. They always secretly film their meets and have boasted about it apparently. They have even said when the time is right they are going to post the videos on lots of different porn websites. As far as I am aware this couple is not on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regrettably, it happens a lot more often than people realize."

Sadly, I am sure it does.

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Hi all. I was just wondering if this was a common issue with people.

To me that's not right and breaks people's trust

It’s a criminal offence sign up to 2 years in jail!!!"

Report to admin and they will take action but if they still keep posting on different sites then report this to police. It’s a serious offence.

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By *aughty kittensCouple
over a year ago

In And Around The

We always talk quite intensely before anything happens and will respect if they ask for certain body parts not to be filmed, like faces, but would never think of breaking the law or someone’s trust.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

I heard of a man doing this in a well-known large club recently. Management were told. The man was not kicked out. The lady who witnessed this will not go to this club again as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure that's against the law

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often film my meets but with permission.

I do a lot of porn, and the rules now are very strict. Basically I need a legal model release form signed by each participant.

To upload any footage that isn’t agreed is totally against the law, and huge fines can result.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We sometimes video some of the action and ask in advance .. the film is only for our pleasure to look at later .. most guys seem to like performing

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

Someone took a photo when we were in a glory home at a club once. Some people think they have so much entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secret filming is one reason why we book the hotel room and would never meet at someone’s house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although we would film / photograph with permission.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"Secret filming is one reason why we book the hotel room and would never meet at someone’s house. "

Gosh never heard of that before. This could explain why some people don't want to come to our house

I get the concern but good job everybody doesn't think like that or nobody would ever meet - "We'll book the hotel room", "No it's fine we will, please don't worry" "No I insist we will" "No really we don't mind and want to book it"

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By *olf and RedCouple
over a year ago

Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston

"I heard of a man doing this in a well-known large club recently. Management were told. The man was not kicked out. The lady who witnessed this will not go to this club again as a result. "

That’s really bad!

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

We like to film but we always ask beforehand. Must admit we have had a few guys agree in the pre meet chat just to get the foot in the door then change the goal posts when it comes to it. Can never force anyone to be filmed but for us no video or pics then no play. Just wish people could just be upfront as it makes so much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All these people saying it's a criminal offence. That may be the case but are you going to get the police involved ?? .. I bet the majority don't.. only way to counter this is host at your place only.. or in a hotel room.

Really pays to get to know better before getting naked. It's a shame that many on here don't value chat and messaging and socials ... I'm always trying to get chat off the ground to get a feel for trust etc but so many are just driven by gym boy pictures and false promises and then complain about no shows or catfish or ghosting or abuse when they get found out ... Meanwhile us genuine guys get no chat .. .. ..

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

That would be an absolutely disgraceful, literally criminal thing to do.

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By *eeds fun guyMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

Exactly why I would never meet at their place until I had met them a few times previously and trusted them !

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I have caught a few people trying to secretly film with me in London / Mancs. it ended violently for them and a removed recording device I took with me as evidence .

So many people have no concept of consent and how serious crime it is they are doing nowadays . Idiots

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Recording is unethical and voyeuristic, but where recording for the purpose of 'revenge porn' is concerned, prison sentences are very stiff.

This is a fundamental breach of a person's right to privacy.

Check Bailii (British and Irish legal information institute) for details of cases in jurisdictions: England and Wales; Scotland;

Northern Ireland, and Republic of Ireland.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are films of me on here from my days as a couple I did not give permission for however I have no idea if my partner at the time did? I wouldn’t know as he blocked me and the couple we played with carried on posting films of us from that meet. People still let me know to this day they are posted. I can’t do anything as I am blocked from the profiles so can’t report them. I know they are there though.

With my face on too

I had no idea I was even being filmed and would never have gone had I known

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By *ftereightMan
over a year ago

SouthEast

Without permission HUGE no no. We've even asked people to close laptops that were facing us in case the webcam was on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been filmed having sex without my knowledge several times xx"

How do you know?

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By *rossMan
over a year ago

Everywhere

"There are films of me on here from my days as a couple I did not give permission for however I have no idea if my partner at the time did? I wouldn’t know as he blocked me and the couple we played with carried on posting films of us from that meet. People still let me know to this day they are posted. I can’t do anything as I am blocked from the profiles so can’t report them. I know they are there though.

With my face on too

I had no idea I was even being filmed and would never have gone had I known "

I would 100% create a second profile so you can monitor and report them!

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

100% criminal. Offence under section 67 of the Sexual Offences Act 2003 in E&W; Section 9 of the Sexual Offences (Scotland) Act 2009.

Report to admins and police (obviously only if that’s what you want to do… )

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"I've been filmed having sex without my knowledge several times xx

How do you know?

Bit a crass and silly comment regarding a serious issue. I see the person who posted that had left. I hope this wasn't the reason.

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I've been filmed having sex without my knowledge several times xx

How do you know?

Bit a crass and silly comment regarding a serious issue. I see the person who posted that had left. I hope this wasn't the reason. "

Totally agree. Some people on this site show a casual regard for consent when it comes to things like that, public sex, and unsolicited nudes. It makes me wonder with which other matters of consent else they take this laissez faire approach.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I was filmed playing with a couple over 10 years ago.They asked in advance and I was OK with it.I would be pissed off if somebody did it surreptitiously!

Mike

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"I've been filmed having sex without my knowledge several times xx

How do you know?

Bit a crass and silly comment regarding a serious issue. I see the person who posted that had left. I hope this wasn't the reason. "

Seems an obvious question

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I've been filmed having sex without my knowledge several times xx

How do you know?

Bit a crass and silly comment regarding a serious issue. I see the person who posted that had left. I hope this wasn't the reason.

Seems an obvious question

One that doesn’t really need to be asked though, because it has an even more obvious answer.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"I've been filmed having sex without my knowledge several times xx

How do you know?

Bit a crass and silly comment regarding a serious issue. I see the person who posted that had left. I hope this wasn't the reason.

Seems an obvious question

One that doesn’t really need to be asked though, because it has an even more obvious answer."

If the obvious answer is that the videos appeared online it would still be strange if someone whose life was ruined by something like that would a) still be on fab risking it happening again and b) signing off the post with a jaunty xx ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not a new thing were on another sex site a few years back and had face pics up. the same face pics were on other sex sites but not by us. Lyn

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"I've been filmed having sex without my knowledge several times xx

How do you know?

Bit a crass and silly comment regarding a serious issue. I see the person who posted that had left. I hope this wasn't the reason.

Seems an obvious question

No it’s a fucking stupid question especially with laughing emojis after. Presumably discovered the video elsewhere later.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Charming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I realise the OP has left, but there were videos loaded last night from a security system and i wonder whether the female knew she was being filmed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I managed to get a video removed last week. I had no idea I was being filmed!

A friend reported it for me and said I had not given permission and it was removed but it’s like playing catch up

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