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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everybody,

I'm Mike. I've been using the chat rooms and have chatted with some great people and made some friends.

But I was hoping people could give my advice on my profile please.

Had have 2 meets arranged and both have cried off. Dont know why and was wondering if my profile was putting people off?

Many thanks

Mike

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hi Mike

We can't see anything wrong with your profile. The only suggestion we'd make is get a mate to take a face picture for you.

I think you were probably unlucky with the two meets who let you down.

Best of luck

A and L

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi,

Thank you for taking the time to reply. I know what you're saying about the pics too.

Well hopefully it will be third time lucky lol.

Thanks again.

Mike x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello Mike,

I have to second the piece of advice regarding the face pic - take it off completely or get one that reflects you in a good light, not one that looks like it has come from Crimewatch UK!

Best of luck!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hello Mike,

I have to second the piece of advice regarding the face pic - take it off completely or get one that reflects you in a good light, not one that looks like it has come from Crimewatch UK!

Best of luck!"
agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pmsl thanks chaps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Changed it lol.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think most photos are better taken by someone else, preferably when the subject is not in pose mode - they're more natural and relaxed this way, which can make one seem more inviting.

The arranged meets that you had were possibly just bad luck - they'd already seen your profile, so the profile worked enough to get the meet agreed.

Overall the profile's pretty good, there's a selection of pics showing body, face etc, so others get a reasonable feel for you.

There was one minor typo I saw - 'but wil meetl people', but wouldn't put any reasonable person off (though this is Fab )

Hope this helps - good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Sophie. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like a nice pint of something - cheers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol. Estrella. Cheers back.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Much nicer picture

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Much nicer picture "

Agree. Don't forget the socks one m8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being picky a personal dislike is when a preference is expressed (in your case BBW), followed by a get out in case it puts off people that don't meet that preference. Don't be afraid to go after what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK, thanks for your comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Mike!

Welcome to the site! You profile looks fine to me but I have a small suggestion regarding your photo.

You will get a better image if the person taking the shot isn't angling the camera up at you. ie: sitting while you are standing. It can distort the perspective, making your head look smaller yet your waist bigger!

I shoot professionally so if you needs any tips let me know. Hope that helps

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

To be honest hun your missing a simple thing, you just may not appeal to people

Fun and joke aside a better quality picture of your face may do the trick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the comments guys and gals. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the comments guys and gals. X"

Only comment we have - apart from the photos one which a number of people have highlighted - is the number of 'interests' you have ticked. To "us", your list comes over as desperate.. it would look MUCH better if you really thought about it and cut it down to enough to fit on one line, two at the most, and they are things your are genuinely interested in AND which you talk about in your profile (so that would need a bit of padding too).

Other than that, if you've got two meets set up, good luck with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Porky and Perk,

I'll take your comments on board.

Had 2 meets set up last week. Had text and spoke on the phone to both for nearly a week.

Then both pulled out. 1 on Friday after we'd agree to book a hotel. Which I did. Told me she wasnt coming after I'd sat there two hours. Then her status the next day says about how good the shag was she had last night lol.

Hey ho. Lesson learned. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks Porky and Perk,

I'll take your comments on board.

Had 2 meets set up last week. Had text and spoke on the phone to both for nearly a week.

Then both pulled out. 1 on Friday after we'd agree to book a hotel. Which I did. Told me she wasnt coming after I'd sat there two hours. Then her status the next day says about how good the shag was she had last night lol.

Hey ho. Lesson learned. X"

When I was active as a single guy (on another site) I NEVER paid for a hotel up front on a 'blind meet'. If they won't meet for a drink, maybe (and that is 'maybe'..) something to eat, then anyone trying to get money out of you for a room... well, I'd be very wary....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah. I'll put it down to experience and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah. I'll put it down to experience and move on."

That's all you can do mate....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hopefully third time lucky lol.

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