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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello, just looking for abit of advice, had this account for a while but only just recently using it properly, I notice a lot of people are looking for verified people, however if I haven’t been able to meet anyone how do am I able to be verified? Also any advice about what is better to have on profile and what pictures are best to use would be appreciated, thanks Ross

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Write something about yourself and what you have to offer.

Everybody is looking for casual fun.

So why should a lady choose you, over the fifty other single blokes who are nearby.

Photos. The one of your face is good, Maybe a full body shot, dressed or not.

Verifications. Try to find a social and see if someone is willing to confirm that you are the person in your profile.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice shall look into changing some things on my profile

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

If you have a spare half hour, try reading my profile.

I'm old and fat, but still manage to get women messaging me first, after reading my profile. Not many, but the right ones for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort in, rewards out OP.

Tbh no one is going to think you’re making a serious attempt to meet someone with a five word profile.

People on here can pick and choose. It’s up to you to try and persuade them to choose you.

Viv

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

This isn't a casual hookup site

Dont get me wrong lots use it for that, but casual sex and swinging are not the same thing so lots of people will take offence at you using the site as Instashag & likely just block you

Everyone will have different opinions on what makes a good profile a selection of photos, clothed, unclothed, I like a dock pic or two, others don't like them

Update your bio, sell yourself what are your sexual likes/dislikes kinks etc

As for getting verified try a club or a social event

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As you've been here a few years, consider what people will need, in order to know whether they find you attractive or not. Up to date photos, that let them assess your physique. People generally don't want many, or any, cock pics - 1 may be enough.

The text has to sell you. Less about what you want - instead, more about what you have to give.

There are lots of posts with lots of profile writing tips, have a read. It should reflect you, rather than the other forum posters personalities though.

Be upbeat and make realistic expectations here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all these tips appreciate them, I need to take time to put some effort into my profile shall have a look at other posts for tips and stuff as I’m not great at writing about myself haha!

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