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By *6traveller OP   Man
over a year ago

Tayside, Midlands and Chester

I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Because Fabguys does not like women actually. You cannot post pictures of them because they are considered “nasty” material. And you’re also not supposed to post on forums of Fabguys about bisexual threesomes with women. And quite a few of us cock lovers actively seek women…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

Just find another site then if you don't like it. Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

We're cool with LGBTQIA+ people here it's the intolerant people we don't understand

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?

We're cool with LGBTQIA+ people here it's the intolerant people we don't understand

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

I don't really understand why you'd be bothered? Just don't look at male profiles.

Where are the gay and bi women meant to go? I don't think Fabguys is for them, clue is in the name.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

Where do all the bisexual women go ?

Or is it just the TV’s, Gay and Bi Men you have a problem with ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabguys is as the name says and the clue is in the title

Years ago we were allowed a couples profile on fabguys and found it was the best way to meet bi guys, but we then got booted off as they now want no connection to females in any way on the site

When we questioned it we were advised that's why they have fabswingers

The issue we have now on this site is guys messaging saying they are bi but clearly show straight on their profile so it's a no win situation all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow just wow.

Judgmental. If you don’t like it then please feel free to leave. It’s the 21st century where people are allowed to express their sexual preferences, and, more importantly be accepting and tolerant of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea what half of the gender acronyms mean, nor do I particularly care. Whoever you are, however you identify, and whatever your tastes, I’ve always loved fab as there’s something for all with no judgements. So if you’re confused, maybe look inward not out.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

I would think this question

For fab to answer

As to weather they want to section

Heterosexuals on one site gay and bi on another so on and so forth

And for all therein to be happy. In their sperate spaces with like minded people .but as it is people who responded to you here seam happy with mix . the site is what it as people have said its 2022

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

Just say you’re homophobic and leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow really OP?

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"I have no idea what half of the gender acronyms mean, nor do I particularly care. Whoever you are, however you identify, and whatever your tastes, I’ve always loved fab as there’s something for all with no judgements. So if you’re confused, maybe look inward not out."
I agree, apart from the bit about 'no judgement ',there's a ton of judgemental folks here..and I'll probably be judged for saying that.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

What about all the bi women ?I'm guessing they're all fine to be here .

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

No it isn’t. Women can’t go on fabguys. Maybe be a little less judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also argue that singles shouldn’t be here as swingers are traditionally couples that swap. So why are you here OP?

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"What about all the bi women ?I'm guessing they're all fine to be here ."

Bi women have a free pass everywhere .

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

I genuinely don’t understand why anyone would care in this day and age, society has moved on and if you’re not interested in certain people say that and make it the case in your preferences.

No one should have to put up with small minded bigotry anymore.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

They have a site for gay men called fabguys. That is not really aimed at bi men as there is no women on that site.

Can you advise where in your ideal world the bi men and women or bi couples should go?

If you don't like that this is an inclusive site then leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

Actually Swingers are all bi so the sexuality tick box is irrelevant.

There should be a site for the married pensioners.

Get them off! Get them off!!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?

Actually Swingers are all bi so the sexuality tick box is irrelevant.

There should be a site for the married pensioners.

Get them off! Get them off!!"

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I don't understand why it matters to you, like how does it make a difference to your experience on the site?

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

...and a verification from a guy, who's 'straight'! That must have been awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Looks for anything remotely gay)

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

For men only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy the banter, beautiful people, and be happy OP things could always worse, and if that's your only gripe lucky man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

It’s a swingers site for goodness sake! All are welcome, none excluded.

Have you got any idea how your thread makes you come across?

Viv

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Have you got any idea how your thread makes you come across?

Viv"

Possibly knows now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jees. Welcome to 2022 OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes OP you can give a Bad impression of how men think

You nailed it sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site constantly makes me smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site constantly makes me smile.

If I’m honest sometimes makes me feel a little sick as well that people think the way they do or love to antagonise.

It’s amazing how many message after you comment on their post and I think why would I even open this after what you’ve been saying "

I know what you mean but - to me - when I see this it reminds me firstly how unusual it is now. Secondly I see people standing up to it. I’m nearly 50 I’ve seen the world change beyond anything I ever imagined when I first fell for a boy as a teenager. Threads like this remind me just how much the world has changed. And it makes me happy.

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

Because lots of us are BI couples and we are not homo or bi phobic abs because you can’t be a M/F bi couple in Fanguys. Pretty simple really . Next question ?

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Sometimes someone doesn't even need to message for us to block them.

(Bry)

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito


"Sometimes someone doesn't even need to message for us to block them.

(Bry)"

The forums are handy for that

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By *C79Man
over a year ago

Caterham

I have tried to think of a comprehensive way to respond & highlight just how bad your way of thinking is. I can't fully manage it in words.

For simplicity, I'll describe myself as 90% hetro, 10% bi-curious. Does that mean I should not be here or am I only allowed on 90% of the time?

Do you see how your definitions don't work? No? Probably not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Possibly knows now "

Good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

Is it 'full' of gay and bi folk?

Where do the gay and bi women go if they're not allowed on here?

And why does it bother you so much considering it have zero affect on you or your life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about all the bi women ?I'm guessing they're all fine to be here .

Bi women have a free pass everywhere ."

Not everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabguys is for men so where do you suggest gay/bi women go?

Swinging was originally for couples to swap with other couples so begs the question on why you should be welcome here OP.

Homophobia ain’t cool. Other peoples sexuality is non of your concern.

If you aren’t interested in gay/bi people then move onto the next profile like other people do. Sorted

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"What about all the bi women ?I'm guessing they're all fine to be here .

Bi women have a free pass everywhere .

Not everywhere"

Then I'll bow to your superior knowledge On the subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about all the bi women ?I'm guessing they're all fine to be here .

Bi women have a free pass everywhere .

Not everywhere

Then I'll bow to your superior knowledge On the subject "

Not sure what your need was to be rude?

It's not secret that both women experience biphobia, most oftenly from lesbians.

If you've never experienced it then goo for you but it is a thing

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

Genius idea, a site for heterosexuals. Fab need to pull their finger out before this idea spreads and the market becomes flooded. I don't understand why straight guys are on here...only reason is that theyve exhausted every app and your left wirh fab and the difficult decision over grindr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spelling mistakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the forums and chatting to individuals..didn't know due to my sexuality that impacts my ability to do that

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

OP are you saying people can only swing if they are straigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do I tell people I'm homophobic, without saying I'm homophobic?

Nice one, getting single male "friend" to leave a verification on your profile.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

What about those of us seeking bi people? Some couples have a bi member and seek another bi person. Some of us love mmf meets with 2 bi men. Where would we find them?

A straight site plus a gay men site plus a gay women site plus a bi site? All to accommodate a few people who can't cope with seeing bi profiles?

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"How do I tell people I'm homophobic, without saying I'm homophobic?

Nice one, getting single male "friend" to leave a verification on your profile.

"

Not just any verification, but one that states twice how straight his mate is

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"How do I tell people I'm homophobic, without saying I'm homophobic?

Nice one, getting single male "friend" to leave a verification on your profile.

"

Not necessary, itll be obvious. Or have a coming out of the racist closet on all social media, one hit

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

What makes me laugh is rhat members on this site feel like they have some ownership and control on bow the site can operate and will grant them every wish they have. Constantly asking snd the response.....silent. if you took away the forum there would be a ritual suicide and half members gone. Good time for single straight guys to slide into what was their top dog slot and gay/bi will be a minority, moaning on the forum asking for help with their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"
get ready mate I now what your saying definitely about time this site had more options like a looking for heterosexual.definitely if a straight woman posted this there wouldn't be as many slating you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow just wow.

Judgmental. If you don’t like it then please feel free to leave. It’s the 21st century where people are allowed to express their sexual preferences, and, more importantly be accepting and tolerant of others "

wow she says tolerant

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

This reeks of homophobia.

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"You could also argue that singles shouldn’t be here as swingers are traditionally couples that swap. So why are you here OP?

"

Exactly this!!!!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Fab is full of extremely diverse people, as is society. Do you complain in high street businesses that other customers are different to you? If you struggle with difference but just about manage in regular life, you can possibly manage here too. Life can be as hard or simple aa you want it to be. Most people are happy with the extra choices that intelligent use of this site supports. You don't have to fuck anyone that you're not fully driven to do so with here, or anywhere.

If you're prejudiced, deal with it and make the world a better place.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Oh, where do I fit then? Pansexual female.

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"You could also argue that singles shouldn’t be here as swingers are traditionally couples that swap. So why are you here OP?

Exactly this!!!!!"

I kinda agree. Really single males shouldn't be on here. It would be a better site without them. Ill obviously throw myself out first, as don't like to be pushed, ill go quietly without fuss my asking price is i leave my bi status and take back my straight one. Fair fucks

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Fab allows people to explore their sexuality and find people that they can meet up with for some adult fun.

OP do you walk out of a pub if it’s not all ‘straight’ people in it? I think this is another example of a thread that earns the OP more blocks.

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"Fab allows people to explore their sexuality and find people that they can meet up with for some adult fun.

OP do you walk out of a pub if it’s not all ‘straight’ people in it? I think this is another example of a thread that earns the OP more blocks. "

No no no. You dont block, you just ignore and dont respond ....much better will wind him up more.

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By *ussetdevilCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

I do agree to some degree though, seeing guys droopy asses on the updates every day asking to get filled gets a bit monotonous.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could also argue that singles shouldn’t be here as swingers are traditionally couples that swap. So why are you here OP?

Exactly this!!!!!

I kinda agree. Really single males shouldn't be on here. It would be a better site without them. Ill obviously throw myself out first, as don't like to be pushed, ill go quietly without fuss my asking price is i leave my bi status and take back my straight one. Fair fucks "

To clarify, we only look for single men. I was just using the OP’s own logic against him

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

The forums can be a great filter.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"The forums can be a great filter."

Very much this

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Nice to see homophones still alive and well in 2022, smh

*facepalm*

Feel free to leave OP.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I "love" this site....you post a genuine, inoccuous question and you get almost zero responses....somebody posts "why are there so many gay/bi people and they get 65 replies...*sigh* humans, eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I "love" this site....you post a genuine, inoccuous question and you get almost zero responses....somebody posts "why are there so many gay/bi people and they get 65 replies...*sigh* humans, eh? "

As a way of getting attention it’s not exactly a good one though

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I "love" this site....you post a genuine, inoccuous question and you get almost zero responses....somebody posts "why are there so many gay/bi people and they get 65 replies...*sigh* humans, eh?

As a way of getting attention it’s not exactly a good one though "

I guess some people are believers of the "bad publicity is better than no publicity". I often think though with some of these posts that they are a slap-bang obvious windup and the OP is just sitting back,laughing their arse off at the outrage caused...I mean look...has the OP defended his post yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I "love" this site....you post a genuine, inoccuous question and you get almost zero responses....somebody posts "why are there so many gay/bi people and they get 65 replies...*sigh* humans, eh?

As a way of getting attention it’s not exactly a good one though

I guess some people are believers of the "bad publicity is better than no publicity". I often think though with some of these posts that they are a slap-bang obvious windup and the OP is just sitting back,laughing their arse off at the outrage caused...I mean look...has the OP defended his post yet? "

The wind ups are usually obvious. I don’t think this was a wind up

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I "love" this site....you post a genuine, inoccuous question and you get almost zero responses....somebody posts "why are there so many gay/bi people and they get 65 replies...*sigh* humans, eh?

As a way of getting attention it’s not exactly a good one though

I guess some people are believers of the "bad publicity is better than no publicity". I often think though with some of these posts that they are a slap-bang obvious windup and the OP is just sitting back,laughing their arse off at the outrage caused...I mean look...has the OP defended his post yet?

The wind ups are usually obvious. I don’t think this was a wind up "

Wanna bet? Let's have a few weeks go by and I'll post a thread with the topic "why are all single women bitches in Fabs?" £100 bet that I'll all God's outrage raining down on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I "love" this site....you post a genuine, inoccuous question and you get almost zero responses....somebody posts "why are there so many gay/bi people and they get 65 replies...*sigh* humans, eh?

As a way of getting attention it’s not exactly a good one though

I guess some people are believers of the "bad publicity is better than no publicity". I often think though with some of these posts that they are a slap-bang obvious windup and the OP is just sitting back,laughing their arse off at the outrage caused...I mean look...has the OP defended his post yet?

The wind ups are usually obvious. I don’t think this was a wind up

Wanna bet? Let's have a few weeks go by and I'll post a thread with the topic "why are all single women bitches in Fabs?" £100 bet that I'll all God's outrage raining down on me

"

I’ll take that bet

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I "love" this site....you post a genuine, inoccuous question and you get almost zero responses....somebody posts "why are there so many gay/bi people and they get 65 replies...*sigh* humans, eh?

As a way of getting attention it’s not exactly a good one though

I guess some people are believers of the "bad publicity is better than no publicity". I often think though with some of these posts that they are a slap-bang obvious windup and the OP is just sitting back,laughing their arse off at the outrage caused...I mean look...has the OP defended his post yet?

The wind ups are usually obvious. I don’t think this was a wind up

Wanna bet? Let's have a few weeks go by and I'll post a thread with the topic "why are all single women bitches in Fabs?" £100 bet that I'll all God's outrage raining down on me

I’ll take that bet "

Hi hi hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

So are bi guys not allowed to meet women or couples? And what about couples who only have one bi person? Are they allowed here? Or those who are curious and haven’t acted on it?

Would you meet two bi ladies? I bet you would and you wouldn’t think of it in the same way as your post has come across

Yes there is a site for men to meet men but I I do also think there should be a site just for women to meet women!

If you really don’t want bi/gay people on here then let’s get fab to start up

Fabbisexuals

Fabladies to go with

Fabguys and

Fabswingers

And maybe let’s take it further, a fab for trans or a fab for crossdressing?

But non of that is gonna happen so if you don’t want to see or meet someone who is bi or gay…then just block that person/ couple. Simples!!!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Simply the way I see it is this is a swingers site, simple. Swingers can be any sexuality and thus all sexualities are very welcome as far as I'm concerned. The whole beauty of this scene for me is seeing people be who they want to be and expressing them self without judgement. We don't need the sexuality police here.

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

OP shut the door behind you.

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By *6traveller OP   Man
over a year ago

Tayside, Midlands and Chester

Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers. "

You mean the same entitlement you are showing in thinking fab is only for you and your tastes?

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By *uffolkClareClactonDaveCouple
over a year ago

Felixstowe/Clacton-on-Sea


"I have no idea what half of the gender acronyms mean, nor do I particularly care. Whoever you are, however you identify, and whatever your tastes, I’ve always loved fab as there’s something for all with no judgements. So if you’re confused, maybe look inward not out."

This ^

Whenever anybody proposes separating people into different groups according to their sexual preferences I can't help but question their motives for doing so.

The OP also fails to take account of MF couples who are bi. They would most certainly not be welcome on FabGuys so would be left with nowhere to go.

Why can't folk just live and let live without making a huge fuss about nothing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a single female that enjoys bi men 3sums, where would I be able to find bi men as I am not allowed on fabguys.

Not all women want just one on one with straight men.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"I am a single female that enjoys bi men 3sums, where would I be able to find bi men as I am not allowed on fabguys.

Not all women want just one on one with straight men. "

I'm a straight guy and I want women

My wife's bi want wants them too

Ahh it's so wonderful when you and your spouse have a common goal.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"I am a single female that enjoys bi men 3sums, where would I be able to find bi men as I am not allowed on fabguys.

Not all women want just one on one with straight men.

I'm a straight guy and I want women

My wife's bi want wants them too

Ahh it's so wonderful when you and your spouse have a common goal. "

Char likes cock. I like cock. Char and I love to share a cock! It's wonderful

(Bry)

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

This is a swingers site and not directed pacifically at anyone so it's open to everyone to explore whatever they desire....

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By *6traveller OP   Man
over a year ago

Tayside, Midlands and Chester


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers.

You mean the same entitlement you are showing in thinking fab is only for you and your tastes?

"

I never said that! Clearly you cannot understand the written word. I said I don't understand and asked for equality if fab has, has it does, a gay and bi site, surely it should also have a heterosexual site too. Equality across the board is only fair is it not?

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers. "

I know, right! All those fucking right-ers...moaning...wouldn't it be so much better if we were all oppressive and self-oppressed? x

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers.

You mean the same entitlement you are showing in thinking fab is only for you and your tastes?

I never said that! Clearly you cannot understand the written word. I said I don't understand and asked for equality if fab has, has it does, a gay and bi site, surely it should also have a heterosexual site too. Equality across the board is only fair is it not?"

We only meet fully bisexual people. That’s bisexual males or bisexual females or bisexual couples . We find straight sex so blinking boring and limiting But that’s just us , You do what you like , we’ll do what we like , we just don’t feel the need to shout about it or worry about what anybody else does .

All I’d ask though is if myself and a bi girlfriend rocked up at your door and started feeling each other’s boobies , would you vomit at our bisexuality ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers.

You mean the same entitlement you are showing in thinking fab is only for you and your tastes?

I never said that! Clearly you cannot understand the written word. I said I don't understand and asked for equality if fab has, has it does, a gay and bi site, surely it should also have a heterosexual site too. Equality across the board is only fair is it not?"

What don’t you understand

Fab guys does not allow woman on it. The clue is in the name.

So what you want is multiple sites for people with different sexuality? What happens or where do you suggest you put people who are bisexual, they would have to be on multiple sites in your theory.

Honestly every dating site allows different sexuality as it does here!!

And then what about club nights? Do you suggest they’re split as well?

I really hope this is a wind up as you’ve just taken sexuality back 100 years

If you’re not happy go make a site for heterosexual people only and sit there with the other homophobics

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?

Just say you’re homophobic and leave "

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers. "

A man who is so sensitive about other people's sexuality that he feels entitled to a heterosexual only site, complains about entitled over sensitive people.

Oh the irony

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Fab Guys is about men finding men, not men finding men and women. That's why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

I think you protest too much OP, like a bit of man meat yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers. "

I'd love to know if you actually get any meets after your posts in this forum

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers.

You mean the same entitlement you are showing in thinking fab is only for you and your tastes?

I never said that! Clearly you cannot understand the written word. I said I don't understand and asked for equality if fab has, has it does, a gay and bi site, surely it should also have a heterosexual site too. Equality across the board is only fair is it not?"

How if equality across the board is only fair do you not understand that anyone of any gender or sexual orientation has a right to be on Fabswingers?

Also, your claim about the written word would mean that fabSWINGERS should only be for those that the phrase swinging originally was termed for.....couples.

With that being the case then anyone single shouldn't be on here either if your angle on correctness was followed.

I do believe you're showing something of yourself here OP and it's neither inclusiveness or acceptance, it's the opposite.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers.

You mean the same entitlement you are showing in thinking fab is only for you and your tastes?

I never said that! Clearly you cannot understand the written word. I said I don't understand and asked for equality if fab has, has it does, a gay and bi site, surely it should also have a heterosexual site too. Equality across the board is only fair is it not?"

How would you police this new site as a Gay/ Bi man, woman or TV/TS could sign up and claim they’re straight ?

Bisexual women are they allowed on the ‘hetro’ site or do they stay here ?

Couples in which one in the relationship is straight but the other is bi, can they sign up ?

If a guy or a woman only once had a same sex experience are they allowed to join ?

Honestly do you think it would realistically work or just turn into Fabswingers part 2 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And can't gay and bi men and women not be swingers then. I thought the site was called fab swingers. There was no gender in its title.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers.

You mean the same entitlement you are showing in thinking fab is only for you and your tastes?

I never said that! Clearly you cannot understand the written word. I said I don't understand and asked for equality if fab has, has it does, a gay and bi site, surely it should also have a heterosexual site too. Equality across the board is only fair is it not?"

................................

This is a business, not a public service. Besides which heterosexuals aren't discriminated against, so the equality issue is irrelevant anyway.

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

We love bi women give us a shout

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By *idnight_Express69Man
over a year ago

Rochdale


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

Mate, 1673 called. They asked if they could have their values back

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By *idnight_Express69Man
over a year ago

Rochdale


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?"

Just adjust your message filters so you don’t receive messages from single men or TV/TS.

Then go and have a word with yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP may have a point. I shared Ginge with a bi guy at a club recently and found myself thinking he had a very impressive cock.

I mean, I don't think I've caught full on gay, but you never know, it could be the start of a slippery slope.

Have you found yourself being impressed by cocks lately OP?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with ........., cancel culture, ................"

Oh the irony

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers. "

.................................

Ahh, the truth will always out!

Do you lament the passing of the days when women didn't have the vote, children were shoved up chimneys and the only immigrants were the Vikings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP may have a point. I shared Ginge with a bi guy at a club recently and found myself thinking he had a very impressive cock.

I mean, I don't think I've caught full on gay, but you never know, it could be the start of a slippery slope.

Have you found yourself being impressed by cocks lately OP?"

I mean his cock was rather impressive!! Although I think I might need to check again

Well fab need a fab girls so I can get my tongue and mouth around other things besides cock

Ginge xx

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By *6traveller OP   Man
over a year ago

Tayside, Midlands and Chester

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By *6traveller OP   Man
over a year ago

Tayside, Midlands and Chester


"I dont understand why this site if full of gay and bi folk when fab has a specific site for gays and bi sexual. Well fab is it not about time you had a site for heterosexuals seeing as you have a gay and bi site?

This reeks of homophobia. "

How? I love my house what is being a home owner got to do with it.

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By *6traveller OP   Man
over a year ago

Tayside, Midlands and Chester


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers.

.................................

Ahh, the truth will always out!

Do you lament the passing of the days when women didn't have the vote, children were shoved up chimneys and the only immigrants were the Vikings? "

Yes, because then we would not have Wee Krankie and her ramblings dividing Scotland, Vikings were not illegal immigrants - mostly they left on decent boats without an RNLI taxi service, children up chimneys? I bet most of your clothes are made from India/china child labour and you still buy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real swingers get to know each other and it is as much of a drag for us bis getting harrassed by straights when we want bis. This isn't the best place to post this discussion as if you look further down the list of forums you'll find one for site improvements. Good luck.

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By *uperjackMan
over a year ago

Bristol

My mission from god was to find all those poor possessed young creatures who have been afflicted by lesbianism. He said I should go forth and wave my magic wand in front of them to show them how misguided and sinful they are. After I convert their sorry asses I should convert more of these despicable creatures.

My point being, I can’t really be arsed to go elsewhere. One site is enough.

Now bring on the lesbians. I’ll settle for a few “curious” ones too.

I hope that’s ok for you OP?

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"What about all the bi women ?I'm guessing they're all fine to be here .

Bi women have a free pass everywhere ."

Oh so bi women are ok as you both want to fuck them then eh

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers.

.................................

Ahh, the truth will always out!

Do you lament the passing of the days when women didn't have the vote, children were shoved up chimneys and the only immigrants were the Vikings?

Yes, because then we would not have Wee Krankie and her ramblings dividing Scotland, Vikings were not illegal immigrants - mostly they left on decent boats without an RNLI taxi service, children up chimneys? I bet most of your clothes are made from India/china child labour and you still buy them. "

.................................

***SIGH...and this is why the world remains morally bankrupt***

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By *6traveller OP   Man
over a year ago

Tayside, Midlands and Chester


"My mission from god was to find all those poor possessed young creatures who have been afflicted by lesbianism. He said I should go forth and wave my magic wand in front of them to show them how misguided and sinful they are. After I convert their sorry asses I should convert more of these despicable creatures.

My point being, I can’t really be arsed to go elsewhere. One site is enough.

Now bring on the lesbians. I’ll settle for a few “curious” ones too.

I hope that’s ok for you OP?"

Spot on.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

You can hear the block button being pressed all over fab. Good way to cock block yourself

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By *uperjackMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"My mission from god was to find all those poor possessed young creatures who have been afflicted by lesbianism. He said I should go forth and wave my magic wand in front of them to show them how misguided and sinful they are. After I convert their sorry asses I should convert more of these despicable creatures.

My point being, I can’t really be arsed to go elsewhere. One site is enough.

Now bring on the lesbians. I’ll settle for a few “curious” ones too.

I hope that’s ok for you OP?

Spot on. "

Fuck. When you have to explain a joke it’s not funny any more is it?

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Pmsl. Touched a nerve. The UK has gone mad with oversensitivity, cancel culture, nonsense identities, failure to accept basic biology, rights for this that and everything, the overwhelming belief in entitlement, the media portrayal of society, the nonsense apologising for our forefathers.

You mean the same entitlement you are showing in thinking fab is only for you and your tastes?

I never said that! Clearly you cannot understand the written word. I said I don't understand and asked for equality if fab has, has it does, a gay and bi site, surely it should also have a heterosexual site too. Equality across the board is only fair is it not?"

But fab does not have a site for bi people. They have 2 sites one for gay men and one for anyone who wants to join it regardless of labels. If you don't like the fact bi people are on here that's your problem.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

This is outstanding

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Wow just wow.

Judgmental. If you don’t like it then please feel free to leave. It’s the 21st century where people are allowed to express their sexual preferences, and, more importantly be accepting and tolerant of others "

Without judging judgment?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I am a single female that enjoys bi men 3sums, where would I be able to find bi men as I am not allowed on fabguys.

Not all women want just one on one with straight men. "

Start a woman’s rights campaign to join a male enclave.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"My mission from god was to find all those poor possessed young creatures who have been afflicted by lesbianism. He said I should go forth and wave my magic wand in front of them to show them how misguided and sinful they are. After I convert their sorry asses I should convert more of these despicable creatures.

My point being, I can’t really be arsed to go elsewhere. One site is enough.

Now bring on the lesbians. I’ll settle for a few “curious” ones too.

I hope that’s ok for you OP?

Spot on. "

Mate, are you totally winding people up? Or is it me seeing the good side in people?

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