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By *edi123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

aberystwyth

Hi,

I tried to use a condom for the first time in years last night but as soon as it went on I went limp. Does anyone else have this problem or have advice on how to prevent it?

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By *ogloomMan
over a year ago

Levens

Practice

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By *rKC92Man
over a year ago

St Helens

More foreplay! Also try different ones. I had the same problem for ages and it did a number on me but after a while I managed to make it work for me and I've never had the problem since. It can be difficult if you let it get in your head too much.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Hi,

I tried to use a condom for the first time in years last night but as soon as it went on I went limp. Does anyone else have this problem or have advice on how to prevent it?"

Very difficult, just one reason we hate them. Try not to think about it, keep your eyes and mind on the beauty before you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

I tried to use a condom for the first time in years last night but as soon as it went on I went limp. Does anyone else have this problem or have advice on how to prevent it?"

100% practice. If you're not used to them, it feels jarring to stop and think sensible thoughts!

Find a brand you're happy with, and use them all the time. It'll just start working

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Make sure you get ones that fit. Too tight is horrid

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"Hi,

I tried to use a condom for the first time in years last night but as soon as it went on I went limp. Does anyone else have this problem or have advice on how to prevent it?"

Dietary and hydrate is the sensible and legal response, the opposite of that. Use caviject

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Practice, a few posh wanks should help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truthfully make sure you have the right size.

I hated them for years before I realised I was using ones that were strangling rather than covering!

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"Hi,

I tried to use a condom for the first time in years last night but as soon as it went on I went limp. Does anyone else have this problem or have advice on how to prevent it?"

Practice, practice, practice.

Not only will you become quicker and more efficient at slipping it on but your cock will get used to having a rubber band wrapped around it.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"Make sure you get ones that fit. Too tight is horrid"

I can see the reply now...

I buy the largest available but find them far too tight.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"Hi,

I tried to use a condom for the first time in years last night but as soon as it went on I went limp. Does anyone else have this problem or have advice on how to prevent it?"

If its at a club or party and not with your partner I , Liz not Paul, put it on for them licking and playing with the guy to keep them hard.

Dirty, filthy conversation while slipping it on also helps

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"Hi,

I tried to use a condom for the first time in years last night but as soon as it went on I went limp. Does anyone else have this problem or have advice on how to prevent it?"

Viagra

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

Its more psychological than anything else. Try not thinking of it as a chore andore of it as a benefit for getting laid.

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

All those on there own could work but if you want to be as close to 100% guaranteeing being rock hard nothing will beat caviject in that claim. Imagine viagra that works in 60 seconds but it will work and cut through anything chemically, mentaly, zero sexual arousal and work. There's an obvious issue which no doubt people will jump on, but viagra can be purchased over the counter now, how did people get hold of it before??? Not all via their doc

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By *ullofsurprises555Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Loovara from lovehoney do condoms with the size written on the side.

If your going limp after putting one on, its probably too small.

Right size condoms & practice should sort you out. X

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Hi,

I tried to use a condom for the first time in years last night but as soon as it went on I went limp. Does anyone else have this problem or have advice on how to prevent it?"
put one on and wank with it on. Its often however psychological. You need to learn to associate it with getting pleasure.

Also Try different ones, my favourite is skyns elite. Latex free and thin

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By *edi123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

aberystwyth

Thanks for the advice, I bought some larger ones and they do the job. I was t aware they came in different sizes

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"Make sure you get ones that fit. Too tight is horrid

I can see the reply now...

I buy the largest available but find them far too tight. "

Large doesn't always include girth

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By *-RealMan
over a year ago

South Lincs

Try a condom brand that is more sensitive, such as Skyns Elite condoms. They are non-latex therefore significantly thinner than traditional "durex" types, yet are just as strong.

You could also consider erectile meds such as Viagra or Cialis to give you a confidence booster, but naturally consult your doctor beforehand.

And try not to worry about it, we all have performance anxiety issues at times, sometimes the excitement gets a bit much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate condoms myself xx

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

They are a nuisance but the right fitting ones make so much difference but obviously would prefer without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are a nuisance but the right fitting ones make so much difference but obviously would prefer without"

Extra large for you hunni xx

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"They are a nuisance but the right fitting ones make so much difference but obviously would prefer without

Extra large for you hunni xx"

Something like that. But xl skyns are shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are a nuisance but the right fitting ones make so much difference but obviously would prefer without

Extra large for you hunni xx

Something like that. But xl skyns are shite"

Must have huge risk of splitting xx

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"They are a nuisance but the right fitting ones make so much difference but obviously would prefer without

Extra large for you hunni xx

Something like that. But xl skyns are shite

Must have huge risk of splitting xx"

Nah more like strangling my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are a nuisance but the right fitting ones make so much difference but obviously would prefer without

Extra large for you hunni xx

Something like that. But xl skyns are shite

Must have huge risk of splitting xx

Nah more like strangling my cock"

I would have to Release him and then slide him back inn xx

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Sounds like a plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a plan "

Only if you don’t pull out xx

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"Sounds like a plan

Only if you don’t pull out xx"

Fuck that every load will be pumped inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a plan

Only if you don’t pull out xx

Fuck that every load will be pumped inside "

Hope you not teasing me xx

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"Sounds like a plan

Only if you don’t pull out xx

Fuck that every load will be pumped inside

Hope you not teasing me xx "

Not at all

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By *ial5555Man
over a year ago

Kent

I used to go limp when putting a condom on.Thought they were all the same size and should stretch,however,that was not the case.I now use kingsize with no problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make putting it on part of the foreplay by asking your partner to put it on for you as they tease you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this issue then went for wider ones not longer and they worked great but agree can't beat the feel if natural but not ideal in every situation

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"All those on there own could work but if you want to be as close to 100% guaranteeing being rock hard nothing will beat caviject in that claim. Imagine viagra that works in 60 seconds but it will work and cut through anything chemically, mentaly, zero sexual arousal and work. There's an obvious issue which no doubt people will jump on, but viagra can be purchased over the counter now, how did people get hold of it before??? Not all via their doc"

Getting hold of it if you’ve not been diagnosed as having ED is one thing but injection straight in to the cock is the other one wow!!!

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge


"Hi,

I tried to use a condom for the first time in years last night but as soon as it went on I went limp. Does anyone else have this problem or have advice on how to prevent it? put one on and wank with it on. Its often however psychological. You need to learn to associate it with getting pleasure.

Also Try different ones, my favourite is skyns elite. Latex free and thin "

Was just going to put exactly this. Once used to it, you find a turn on actually donning it.

Use foreplay while wearing, hand job, flavoured bj. It is mostly in the mind..

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By *terobs6869Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

Make it part of your play by getting your partner to put it on you and stroking your cock with it on.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"I had this issue then went for wider ones not longer and they worked great but agree can't beat the feel if natural but not ideal in every situation "

Problem is there are no latex free ones.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham


"I had this issue then went for wider ones not longer and they worked great but agree can't beat the feel if natural but not ideal in every situation

Problem is there are no latex free ones. "

There are. Skyn do larger ones. There’s also a weird vinyl one in a red wrapper that looks like wrapping your dick in a shower cap, and female condoms, which have let every girthy condom-wilter I know have an orgasm, and are also latex free.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"I had this issue then went for wider ones not longer and they worked great but agree can't beat the feel if natural but not ideal in every situation

Problem is there are no latex free ones.

There are. Skyn do larger ones. There’s also a weird vinyl one in a red wrapper that looks like wrapping your dick in a shower cap, and female condoms, which have let every girthy condom-wilter I know have an orgasm, and are also latex free. "

Tried skyns. Too tight

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