FabSwingers.com forum: Identity

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

I'm hoping you can help me out with something I've been struggling to work out, my identity.

I'm straight as in I'm physically and emotionally attracted to women but I like playing with cocks and just cocks.

I have no other attraction to men, don't feel physically attracted,definitely not mentally and don't like kissing, hugging or full sex with men (but I do with females).

Just their cock, it's weird.

It's not something I'm struggling with as it's a pretty trivial thing but think I would feel happier with myself if I could put a name to describe how I am. I'm not convinced bisexual is how I can be described either.

I know I'm not the only one judging by other interactions I've had so was hoping you lovely people could help?

Apologies if this is the wrong place to post this by the way.

Matt x

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

You're bi. No big deal. No issues.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Bi playful

Mr Hayes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're bi. No big deal. No issues. "

I agree it's no big deal but am I really bi? I don't feel any physical attraction whatsoever to males?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bi playful

Mr Hayes "

Yes this exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bi playful

Mr Hayes "

After a quick Google this seems the closest so thank you so much for taking the time to reply. It's honestly a great help and for some silly reason makes me feel a lot better.

Hope you all have a great weekend.

Matt x

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

"Bi playful

Mr Hayes

After a quick Google this seems the closest so thank you so much for taking the time to reply. It's honestly a great help and for some silly reason makes me feel a lot better.

Hope you all have a great weekend.

Matt x"

Glad to be of service, just remember pigeon holes are for pigeons, labels are clothes and foodstuffs just stick to doing what feels good and enjoy life.

Mr Hayes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look up "hetero-flexible". Its a less well known term but is quite a good one!!

Fay

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Look up "hetero-flexible". Its a less well known term but is quite a good one!!

Fay"

Hi Fay...the description reads very similar to bi playful doesn't it? I think they both suit how I feel in a way but am really glad there are such nice people out there ready to help so thank you so much.

Matt x

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

I would say I am Hetro flexible Pansexual

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

You may wish consider why labelling yourself is necessary?

Or you could create your own label.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"You may wish consider why labelling yourself is necessary?

Or you could create your own label."

I consider it necessary & it’s one of the first things we’d look at on a bio. It’s just not something I’m in any way attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bisexual.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"You're bi. No big deal. No issues.

I agree it's no big deal but am I really bi? I don't feel any physical attraction whatsoever to males?"

Yes, you're bi.

Contrary to what some on Fab "think", straight people don't want to mess around sexually with people of the same sex.

As stated, it's not a big deal.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Being bi doesn't just come from finding the same sex attractive.it's any form of sexualitie act that you get satisfaction from, embrace it and accept.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"You may wish consider why labelling yourself is necessary?

Or you could create your own label.

I consider it necessary & it’s one of the first things we’d look at on a bio. It’s just not something I’m in any way attracted to.

Yeah, 'cos everyone tells the truth here.

How he labels himself is for him and it should not take into consideration the demands of others.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"You're bi. No big deal. No issues. "

I have to disagree with this...bi would mean that he has desires or like to have full sex with another man..and not mind the hugging amd kissing part..only being attracted to a cock does not make him bi...bi playful yes..my husband could have written this post himself..he is not attracted to men by any means..he likes sucking and wanking a cock.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"You're bi. No big deal. No issues.

I agree it's no big deal but am I really bi? I don't feel any physical attraction whatsoever to males?"

No we don't believe its does make fully bi...my husband could have written this post himself.

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By *eductiveEyesKillerThighsWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere & Everywhere

How about just Cock-Loving Straight guy?

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By *illingVicMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

To save time explaining myself, I normally tell folks who ask that I’m bisexual. The longer version is “pansexual, but not pan-romantic,” which generally opens up the whole conversation for ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't as straight forward as most people seem to think (and no pun intended either lol).

It can be really difficult as people do tend to see only black and white areas normally. For example, sexually I have changed massively as I've got older.. from non responsive (Asexual) to lesbian, to bisexual, to now Pansexual. But the level of sensual sexuality is a different switch a round.

I'd say you should go with what you feel identifies you the most. Even bi curious is a big thing with Straight people too. Labels should only be used to help yourself and not to satisfy everyone else. I'm way to wonderful to be labeled lol.

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