FabSwingers.com forum: New to this lifestyle

By *heseeker73 OP Man
over a year ago

witney

Hiya folks can anyone please help or advise me, as to the best way of meeting people and fulfilling both theirs and mine, needs, fantasies and desires? Thankyou x

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Go to a swingers club without expectations

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Clubs, social events and use the forum to chat and get involved

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"Hiya folks can anyone please help or advise me, as to the best way of meeting people and fulfilling both theirs and mine, needs, fantasies and desires? Thankyou x"

A decent profile and photos are always the best way to start.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Hiya folks can anyone please help or advise me, as to the best way of meeting people and fulfilling both theirs and mine, needs, fantasies and desires? Thankyou x

A decent profile and photos are always the best way to start. "

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Not to many cock shots as not needed

Good,profile saying what you are looking for and be polite if you contact couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome

Try going to socials and swingers clubs - best way to meet people in the lifestyle

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"A decent profile and photos are always the best way to start. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As suggested, maybe work on your bio a bit and more variety of photos will help online but, in the real world, go get involved, see what's out there

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

There must be some self-help books out there on learning to speak to people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good luck op you'll need it as men vastly out number women ...

if you have to ask advice on how to sell yourself then thats not a very good start to be honest..advice will put you in the same space with all the others that asked its call boring same as profiles zillions of them on here ...be yourself show your different then sit back and wait .....and wait ...meanwhile 1000s more men join whiles your still waiting ...very very tuff on here for most guys

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

ONLY message someone whose profile you have completely read and understood.

Learn about what generally attracts women and men.

Expect nothing.

Understand what swinging is.

Know that women are not waiting for anybody with their knickers off and bent over.

Be the best version of you.

You will be blocked many times over, it's not personal.

Nobody owes you anything, not even a reply.

Good luck.

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