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Should i change my gender on here

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By *astpoet OP   Man
over a year ago

where the world takes me

So i have a question for the fabbers, i don't see myself as a cd or tv/ts but i do love dressing occasionally in sexy clothing that's associated to other genders.

I currently have my gender set as male, because that's how i identify, but i was wondering if people think i should change it to tv/ts because that would suit what people are looking for more closely, and i wouldn't give them a shock when i messaged.

I do say on my profile about my kinks and tastes so i hope i'm being open, but i'm thinking about the search.

What's your thoughts and thank you in advance

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

How do you want to met, as a male or dressed

If it's as male I'd keep it as a male, if you predominantly plan to meet dressed I'd change it

If you're open to both 50/50 I'd leave it as it is & do as you've said explain in your bio you enjoy dressing & cab meet either way

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By *astpoet OP   Man
over a year ago

where the world takes me


"How do you want to met, as a male or dressed

If it's as male I'd keep it as a male, if you predominantly plan to meet dressed I'd change it

If you're open to both 50/50 I'd leave it as it is & do as you've said explain in your bio you enjoy dressing & cab meet either way "

I would say it depends on the person i'm meeting, i love dressing up because it makes me feel naughty, but i don't have to dress up if it doesn't work for the other person or isn't what they're looking for.

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

i would say leave it as male, and aslong as you state that you like to dress up on your profile then thats enough

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

The guys or couples who contact me, are looking for someone who’ll dress and look as a much as a woman as possible. That’s shaving my full body including arm hair, armpits, legs etc…then have a wig and makeup applied.

You don’t necessarily have to do the same to ‘qualify’ to the TV/TS category, but I’d think the majority looking for a TV expects something similar.

Personally I’d leave it under a male profile but it’s totally up to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t worry about what other people expect. Go with what feels right to you. The way that the options are setup right now allow for so many variations that you would absolutely be okay okay using “tv/ts” if you wanted to but equally if you wanted to keep it “as is” with perhaps a little bit in your profile then fair play to that too.

Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your photos make it clear so you could try either way. Perhaps rotate it see what works better for you?

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Yeh leave it as male your profile and pictures says the rest...as you say your into kink kinda covers it!

Don't think too much about what other ppl think they aren't living your life you are....enjoy it to the max xx

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

The whole CD/TV/TS classification is a totally personal thing. Either way is fine, you do you and as long as you're comfortable it's all good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have a great profile. It clearly defines what your interests are with a good set of pics to accompany it.

I’d leave it as male.

Viv

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By *astpoet OP   Man
over a year ago

where the world takes me


"OP you have a great profile. It clearly defines what your interests are with a good set of pics to accompany it.

I’d leave it as male.

Viv"

Thank viv really appreciate the feedback

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