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By *ig.daddyD OP   Man
over a year ago

the borders

So I’m a big guy both belly and I am equipped however my gf is tiny and sex is painful for her our sex life is a struggle

We’ve tried durex lube but it’s not much help is there a better option for lube I don’t mind dropping good cash if it’s worth if

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By *asepaul71Man
over a year ago

Buxton

KY is the best

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"So I’m a big guy both belly and I am equipped however my gf is tiny and sex is painful for her our sex life is a struggle

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Have you tried sex with her on top so you don't squash her ?

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Have you tried sex with her on top so you don't squash her ?"

I gather the issue is girth? Vaginas are remarkably flexible - something designed get a baby out should manage to get you in. But it will need some preparation. Lots of foreplay. Use your fingers, starting with one, then two, wiggle them, stretch them apart. Maybe that will help. Even if it doesn't, it can be a lot of fun in its own right.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Have you tried plenty of foreplay long before sex itself getting a female aroused is very important to the point of orgasm

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon

ID lube is great

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Make her orgasm b4 your cock gets anywhere near her pussy make her real relaxed she’s probable tense knowing it’s going to hurt just get her relaxed and she will enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silicone lube is superb stays slippery doesn’t dry out like water based lubes.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Have you tried sex with her on top so you don't squash her ?

I gather the issue is girth? Vaginas are remarkably flexible - something designed get a baby out should manage to get you in. But it will need some preparation. Lots of foreplay. Use your fingers, starting with one, then two, wiggle them, stretch them apart. Maybe that will help. Even if it doesn't, it can be a lot of fun in its own right."

A slight misunderstanding of female anatomy here. Babies come down a vagina, not up it, and a woman's muscles are designed to facilitate that.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Have you tried sex with her on top so you don't squash her ?

I gather the issue is girth? Vaginas are remarkably flexible - something designed get a baby out should manage to get you in. But it will need some preparation. Lots of foreplay. Use your fingers, starting with one, then two, wiggle them, stretch them apart. Maybe that will help. Even if it doesn't, it can be a lot of fun in its own right.

A slight misunderstanding of female anatomy here. Babies come down a vagina, not up it, and a woman's muscles are designed to facilitate that. "

I was going to let something similar. Bit removed it. I couldn't understand why he said that he assumed it was girth that was the problem and that vaginas can strech which obv wouldnt be an issue with girth but rather the length...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried sex with her on top so you don't squash her ?

I gather the issue is girth? Vaginas are remarkably flexible - something designed get a baby out should manage to get you in. But it will need some preparation. Lots of foreplay. Use your fingers, starting with one, then two, wiggle them, stretch them apart. Maybe that will help. Even if it doesn't, it can be a lot of fun in its own right.

A slight misunderstanding of female anatomy here. Babies come down a vagina, not up it, and a woman's muscles are designed to facilitate that.

I was going to let something similar. Bit removed it. I couldn't understand why he said that he assumed it was girth that was the problem and that vaginas can strech which obv wouldnt be an issue with girth but rather the length..."

There are cock pictures on his profile so I'm not 100% sure it's either

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By *omoxfordMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Have you tried sex with her on top so you don't squash her ?

I gather the issue is girth? Vaginas are remarkably flexible - something designed get a baby out should manage to get you in. But it will need some preparation. Lots of foreplay. Use your fingers, starting with one, then two, wiggle them, stretch them apart. Maybe that will help. Even if it doesn't, it can be a lot of fun in its own right.

A slight misunderstanding of female anatomy here. Babies come down a vagina, not up it, and a woman's muscles are designed to facilitate that.

I was going to let something similar. Bit removed it. I couldn't understand why he said that he assumed it was girth that was the problem and that vaginas can strech which obv wouldnt be an issue with girth but rather the length..."

Maybe start with toys small ones going up in size

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