FabSwingers.com forum: Hows my profile?

By *amspoons OP Man
over a year ago

North East

Hello. Looking for feedback on my profile if any couples and single females would be kind enough to give their take on how I come over on it.

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By *amspoons OP Man
over a year ago

North East

... I get a lot of "not my type, sorry" when I send face pics which is fair enough (if a little bruising). Competition on here is stiff (excuse the pun) and there are some serious gym bods with huge cocks and Hollywood looks.

But many more just straight deletions, or no response.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

Honestly? The very first paragraph on your profile put us off straight away. We're not all looking for that kind of guy and get fed up of guys blaming their lack of success on others shallowness (or personal preference). It comes over as a bit passive aggressive.

(Bry)

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

First paragraph is off putting, your married most will be put off and saying it’s a sex site. It’s actually a swinging site

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Hello. Looking for feedback on my profile if any couples and single females would be kind enough to give their take on how I come over on it.

Delete the first two paragraphs from your profile text, and the “good looking” from your profile header

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Hello. Looking for feedback on my profile if any couples and single females would be kind enough to give their take on how I come over on it.

Delete the first two paragraphs from your profile text, and the “good looking” from your profile header

Also just leave your arse pic on public display

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Lots of people on here take offence at cockpics which could be why your messages are getting deleted before they are even being read

Add a clothed pic head cropped

As for the bio this isn't a sex site, there's a difference between sex/hook up & swinging & this site is called FAB Swimgers, add to that you've said your not single which will put even more people off as they'll rightly or wrongly presume you are cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with what's already been said the 1st paragraph is off putting. Maybe add some more pics too, teasing ones, towel, shirt on etc.

Mrs

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By *amspoons OP Man
over a year ago

North East

Thanks. Taken that on board and yes I know its a swinging site not a hookup site but I am here.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It’s run of the mill on here

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I wouldn’t because you’re on here to cheat on your partner/wife. The end

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By *amspoons OP Man
over a year ago

North East

"It’s run of the mill on here

So what is exceptional?

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By *amspoons OP Man
over a year ago

North East

"I wouldn’t because you’re on here to cheat on your partner/wife. The end "

You do you, I'll do me.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Our opinion is you come across as a bit of a bellend to be honest.

If you don't have any respect for your own partner then you are hardly going to have any for randomers you hope to meet on here.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Thanks. Taken that on board and yes I know its a swinging site not a hookup site but I am here. "

That first paragraph needs to go mate, as you only repeat yourself in the last two

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

To delete the whole profile and just be happy you have a wife/girlfriend.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Profile feedback threads.

Members seeking advice on how to misrepresent themselves!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"I wouldn’t because you’re on here to cheat on your partner/wife. The end

You do you, I'll do me.

Ok hun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely perfect.

Leave it exactly as it is.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

You have no photos now

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By *amspoons OP Man
over a year ago

North East

"You have no photos now"

Yup. A lovely character has threatened to [had to remove the word as is a banned word apparently] me on the back of this thread for being a "cheating scumbag"

so took the pics down for now.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"You have no photos now

Yup. A lovely character has threatened to [had to remove the word as is a banned word apparently] me on the back of this thread for being a "cheating scumbag"

so took the pics down for now. "

I hope you've reported whoever threatened you

You might also want to ask admin/mods to take this thread down if you getting that kind of stuff directed at you - you can do that by hitting the report button on your first message on this thread & explaining why you'd like it removed

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By *amspoons OP Man
over a year ago

North East

"You have no photos now

Yup. A lovely character has threatened to [had to remove the word as is a banned word apparently] me on the back of this thread for being a "cheating scumbag"

so took the pics down for now.

I hope you've reported whoever threatened you

Nah. Not gonna bow to it. But thanks.

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By *amspoons OP Man
over a year ago

North East

"Absolutely perfect.

Leave it exactly as it is. "

Thanks

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By *amspoons OP Man
over a year ago

North East

"Thanks. Taken that on board and yes I know its a swinging site not a hookup site but I am here.

That first paragraph needs to go mate, as you only repeat yourself in the last two

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All i will say on this is, there has been some very good advice given to you OP.

But I would advise OP to look at how he is responding to some people on this tread, as it does not show you in a good light.

Written words can be taken very differently, compared to whe you are speaking face to face with someone. So be careful.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It’s run of the mill on here

In fairness, yours isnt enticing either. I guess thats just differences in taste. "

Did I ask for profile advice?

Am I looking to shag women am I?

Attack is usually the the best form of defence for wounded ego men

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

"You have no photos now

Yup. A lovely character has threatened to [had to remove the word as is a banned word apparently] me on the back of this thread for being a "cheating scumbag"

so took the pics down for now. "

Please report any profile that sends you abuse so Admin can have a look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s run of the mill on here

In fairness, yours isnt enticing either. I guess thats just differences in taste.

Did I ask for profile advice?

Am I looking to shag women am I?

Attack is usually the the best form of defence for wounded ego men

Hope you don't mind me saying but your profile is pretty damn good. Clear, concise and excellent pictures.

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Hope you don't mind me saying but your profile is pretty damn good. Clear, concise and excellent pictures.

Thank you

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"Our opinion is you come across as a bit of a bellend to be honest.

If you don't have any respect for your own partner then you are hardly going to have any for randomers you hope to meet on here."

Says it all.

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

'Bellend' not heard that in years. My word of the week, will be used daily. Was worth me reading another 'advice on profile please even though I know its good all under thinly veiled ego boost but destined to backfire' this is worse than the others even though its a good profile,. I've no idea if your a bellend or if your a scumbag, as I have no idea of your situation, and just because he's married doesn't necessarily mean shit also I consider the possibility he is in fact a decent human being and his wife is a bellend, or other way round or neither. Before you asked for advice people will have read your profile and I'd be amazed if they gave two shits if you were married really as people are not analysing profiles. But ask for advice in the forum it will get dissected word by word, things will get taken a million different ways and then they move onto you, and any response you make will be taken out of context and you could be labelled anything from ok, to bellend to cheater and your wife who doesn't feature anywhere really in this site most people have made her the victim when she could be neither and its all amicable.

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