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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i can see where you might be hitting stumbling blocks with getting meets sorted with the profile your using now
one flaw is lack of verifications (which time will fix) but the main one is that you dont show public face pics
this will hold you back alot. not only does showing your face give the person your messaging confidence that your a bit more genuine (than someone not showing their face - assumptions are made - married/attached/possibly not a nice face) it also gives your messages alot more chance of being treated with slightly more respect and this is why
at the moment you have the classic mans profile which is probally only ideal for pulling men! you probs of noticed them messaging or viewing you haha!
all you have is a profile saying what you want out the site, 1 verification, and all you show is body shot and your cock, which to be fair they are decent pictures id be proud to show myself but its far from enough to create the female attraction to get the meets you hope for.
but for most lasses i know they will struggle to strike up some strong attraction for you (which is needed to get the messages going to sort a meet out) without seeing a face pic.
now i know you are going to say but i can send one over a private message, which is fine and dandy for a few people. but you havent got the verifications there to back your profile up to make people maybe read your message to check them photos out
see your profile looks just like many other mens in your situation and if you dont stand out from the crowd and show your different from the rest, then your resigned in most cases to be treated like the rest.
i'd imagine when you send a message the thought process for the woman/couple recieving is like this
ok i got lots of messages to read, they scan down the mail box, see your message with everyone elses
they will see the jist of your message as can see the first 10 words or so in the preview section - so chances are they know roughly what it says.
they will see you got a photo attached (probs your face pic), they will see your avatar, ok its another cock,
they may leave your message in the inbox and not look into you any further,
but if your lucky they will click your profile and see what it says, they will see a nice body and cock but nothing much else.
they dont know what you look like and most women arnt going to want to fuck someone they cant see their face - after all they going to get men who show their face as well as everything else message them too (think who your competing with)
so im guessing they will click on your profile, give it a quick scan and think yeah just like the rest, they will mooch your photos quickly and see you only got cock and body pics.
Now if i was the lass Id probs see that and think ah now i know what the photos are in your message, probs the same photos of your cock and body that are already on your profile
then you check your sent items and see the message been deleted or unread and wonder why.
now i know face pic aint neceassry to get meets but when you dont have much history on the site like verifications to make people give your message slightly more respect than they are getting now you are either probs going to have to get in with the slow start to your fab life, or show face pics on your profile and be a little more open and if your messages aint too pervy and you concentrate on making friends then i know you should do well, as i would get quite a lot of meets if i had your figure and already did quite well myself before i stopped meeting and im a bigger guy fitnesswise
but my profile i always made sure i showed myself off in the best light and made sure my personality and genuineness and that im a good guy shone through my profile text (without blowing my own trumpt) and by making sure everyones meets were as good as possible not only sexually but personally as well so i got the verifications i needed to confirm i was the guy i truely am
i do think showing your face pic and putting as an avater is going to get far more of your messages read and get you far more profile views, if not then your leaving things down to chance - but messages with a picture of a cock next to them arnt going to get much respect, you gotta realise how many profiles are like this and how often these sort of profiles message people - your really making yourself look like the rest of the guys on here
get a face pic put up, maybe some photos from normal life where your fully clothed but look great too, keep your cock and body shot up, should have at least one of each on your profile, just make sure you got like 2-3 face pics and other pics zoomed out of you looking good and attractive in normal life fully clothed - bit like you would post on your face book profile picture so people see you at your best!"
I'm part of a couple and disagree with the majority you have said. We take the time to read every message sent, and reply to all, even if its a polite no thanks. We don't expect to see anyone's face picture on their public gallery, and are not bothered if on public gallery or not, only bothered that they can send a face pic either as attachment to message or via email. We fully understand that due to some nature of employment, not everyone can show their face so publically |
