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"We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple" ...and yet the vast majority (who have written a profile) say that they want quality over quantity, that they're not here to shag all of Fab, that they want to build connections Do you have a local social event you can get to? We go to ours and it looks like most there are regulars with each other. (Bry) | |||
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"We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple ...and yet the vast majority (who have written a profile) say that they want quality over quantity, that they're not here to shag all of Fab, that they want to build connections Do you have a local social event you can get to? We go to ours and it looks like most there are regulars with each other. (Bry)" No socials that we’re aware of or have seen. We’ll have to keep our eyes open and hopefully attend one as that may be the best way forward | |||
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"Our last long standing guy we met in a club Definitely difficult to find the right guys on here" Nice to hear. We met a couple of nice men on here but not long term types for us. So we going to va club soon and we probably won’t find a long termer but gonna have fun looking and trying before we buy | |||
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"We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple ...and yet the vast majority (who have written a profile) say that they want quality over quantity, that they're not here to shag all of Fab, that they want to build connections Do you have a local social event you can get to? We go to ours and it looks like most there are regulars with each other. (Bry) No socials that we’re aware of or have seen. We’ll have to keep our eyes open and hopefully attend one as that may be the best way forward " There was a big Croydon social earlier this month, check out the London Forum I think they are planning another one for March/April | |||
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"I don't think men do want regular here. Even if they say they do they rarely do I don't think it's just couple's struggle. Occasionally people think it's beneath then to see a swinger regularly X " This is so true, I’m on here as a single female and don’t like random hook ups and one offs. I’m here to try find regular meets but as said no one seems to want it and they lie saying they do then you never hear from them again | |||
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"I don't think men do want regular here. Even if they say they do they rarely do I don't think it's just couple's struggle. Occasionally people think it's beneath then to see a swinger regularly X This is so true, I’m on here as a single female and don’t like random hook ups and one offs. I’m here to try find regular meets but as said no one seems to want it and they lie saying they do then you never hear from them again " If I lived near you you'd have to throw me out! | |||
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"I don't think men do want regular here. Even if they say they do they rarely do I don't think it's just couple's struggle. Occasionally people think it's beneath then to see a swinger regularly X This is so true, I’m on here as a single female and don’t like random hook ups and one offs. I’m here to try find regular meets but as said no one seems to want it and they lie saying they do then you never hear from them again If I lived near you you'd have to throw me out! " Haha thanks | |||
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"Our last long standing guy we met in a club Definitely difficult to find the right guys on here Nice to hear. We met a couple of nice men on here but not long term types for us. So we going to va club soon and we probably won’t find a long termer but gonna have fun looking and trying before we buy" Very true it’s great fun trying before you buy or test riding lol | |||
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"Morning all We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?" Are you looking for a regular guy who exclusively meets only you amd nobody else? | |||
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"Are you looking for a regular guy who exclusively meets only you amd nobody else? " Nope. That’s an unreasonable thing to ask/expect. Just someone who wants to meet regularly with us (few times a month). Someone to actually have a friendship with with the added benefit of having sexual fun also | |||
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"Are you looking for a regular guy who exclusively meets only you amd nobody else? Nope. That’s an unreasonable thing to ask/expect. Just someone who wants to meet regularly with us (few times a month). Someone to actually have a friendship with with the added benefit of having sexual fun also" That sounds perfect, reading all the comments it's hard for both singles and couples.... Local enough to spend time and build that friendship and Trust | |||
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"Are you looking for a regular guy who exclusively meets only you amd nobody else? Nope. That’s an unreasonable thing to ask/expect. Just someone who wants to meet regularly with us (few times a month). Someone to actually have a friendship with with the added benefit of having sexual fun also" Ah OK, the way I read your op "they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple" I thought that's what you were after and thought it was unreasonable as well Hopefully you find someone who ticks all the boxes sooner rather than later! | |||
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"We have struggled to find a regular playmate for fun and most seem to just want one offs " Blocking the guys your looking for might not help lol | |||
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"I don't think men do want regular here. Even if they say they do they rarely do I don't think it's just couple's struggle. Occasionally people think it's beneath then to see a swinger regularly X " I don’t like one offs ? Must be weird ? As I think that you need to know and understand someone’s needs and desires to truly have the best time ? | |||
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"Why a regular could improve on the actual physical sex there is the risks of feelings and attachments growing. For some it's the newness of a partner that excites. It's all down to each individual." totally agree also having sex with someone who you know is already commited to someone else is a different dynamic when it comes to sex.... you know you will always be an outsider | |||
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"Morning all We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?" We're a cuckquean/reverse cuckold couple and we always aim for regular ladies to join in. We've had more regulars than one offs. Would love to meet a cuckold couple/hot wife for regular fun. | |||
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"Are you looking for a regular guy who exclusively meets only you amd nobody else? Nope. That’s an unreasonable thing to ask/expect. Just someone who wants to meet regularly with us (few times a month). Someone to actually have a friendship with with the added benefit of having sexual fun also" Your profile is hidden now! Because of all the offers now, no doubt Feel free to drop me a wink or message if you'd be interested. Sounds ideal to me! x | |||
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"Morning all We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?" I have been fortunate to meet two couples who wanted exactly this arrangement, on an exclusive basis, and it worked well for all concerned, so don’t give up hope OP. I am straight btw, there was no male-male interaction apart from dvp | |||
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"Morning all We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?" I have really enjoyed this question and the responses I have so far been able to read. I am looking for a cuckold couple for regular long term play and find myself changing my requirements as my experience change. For example, I like regular text contact but it doesn’t need to be everyday and for a relationship based on sex I have found that I don’t want to talk about sex all the time or fantasies in the middle of the work day. As I search I start to learn more about my wants etc so it is turning in something of a discovery of self. Thanks again for the question. | |||
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"Morning all We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?" I much prefer a regular couple scenario. You get to build trust push boundaries and explore knowing everyone involved in sa safe space. Much better than trying to learn a different couple's idea of fun each week. | |||
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"We find that guys contact us without really understanding the cuckold dynamic or even reading our profile " it's different for different couples will I saw codes like to be humiliated while others just enjoy watching some like to direct their action for me it's about having a conversation and finding out what the other expects to get out of it and then tailoring what I do in order to ensure they get maximum pleasure | |||
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"Morning all We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?" The dream for me would be find a couple who 1 I get in with and 2 all 3 of us find each attractive, but no such luck Not sure why but I've always thought it would be easier from the couples pof than the singles, but obviously from the replies everyone is struggling with this | |||
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"If you unblock single guys from your profile you’ll find that men like me want to meet a couple like you" They probably don't want to be inundated by messages from single men and want to search and message those who tickle their fancy | |||
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"Morning all We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?" Stay positive and Keep looking he’ll pop up soon!!! | |||
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"Yes agreed and that takes time to build that connection " Most definitely | |||
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"Morning all We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?" If only I lived a bit closer to you. For a time a woman I met on here but already knew from "normal" life would come over once a week. Her fella expected her home that night but the first time she was here she wanted to stay the night. That became a regular thing. He would ask for photos and she would decline. They were very much in love, but she seemed to enjoy keeping him hanging. He seemed to enjoy her control of the situation. I just wanted to please her, so we all had a great time, I think | |||
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"Morning all We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?" We’ve been searching too…..:: no such luck. We can’t, obviously, tell a guy they can’t meet anyone else, but we also don’t want the guy we meet to be meeting all and sundry, which creates a difficult situation. Selfishly, it would be great to just have the one guy, but, being realistic, never gonna happen. Most guys want their cake and to eat it. Who can blame them…..but as a couple who are we to dictate, and there is lots of choice on here. So, you’re unlikely to ever get a guy, just for you! X | |||
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"Morning all We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?" I would much rather find a regular couple to have fun with. | |||
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"We have struggled to find a regular playmate for fun and most seem to just want one offs " I beg to differ....what i really seek | |||
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"Morning all We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple " Hard to believe you struggle to find a guy for regular. It’s something I’d be very interested. Living a busy life with work and hobbies I would love to find something regular and stable. Message me if you are interested in a sorted guy | |||
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"I prefer regular only when it comes to cuckold dynamic. The key is to go with people where sexual chemistry goes hand in hand with social compatibility. I am straight and prefer that the cuck and I are able to chat/ have a drink every now and then. Whatever the level of involvement during sex, it is about 3 people and if you strike the balance, it gets better every time. I do find that there are couples here prefer no social connection and keep it fuck and go - just to keep the emotional side to themselves. I respect that, but those encounters don’t work for me. May be meet socially first with play off the table, if you get along well, you have a better change of finding a regular OP. Good luck and it does get better when it’s quality not quantity " Everything he said *Except the straight bit* | |||
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"We'd very much like to find a regular to join us... " If ever a proifle showed a loving couple its yours and what husband would not be proud of his wife taking a BBC | |||
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"When Mrs C is wanting to meet again then someone regular would be the preferred option " Yes please | |||
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"We'd very much like to find a regular to join us... If ever a proifle showed a loving couple its yours and what husband would not be proud of his wife taking a BBC " Thank you! That's incredibly accurate and kind of you to say xx | |||
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"Regular would be the ideal Meeting a couple on a regular basis is as far am I’m concerned the best way to go .... quality over quantity anyday " Though as we all know it’s not as simple as it sounds... for some reason it’s difficult to find | |||
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"Are you looking for a regular guy who exclusively meets only you amd nobody else? Nope. That’s an unreasonable thing to ask/expect. Just someone who wants to meet regularly with us (few times a month). Someone to actually have a friendship with with the added benefit of having sexual fun also" A few times a month is a lot. I normally see my regular fab friends every few months. | |||
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"Are you looking for a regular guy who exclusively meets only you amd nobody else? Nope. That’s an unreasonable thing to ask/expect. Just someone who wants to meet regularly with us (few times a month). Someone to actually have a friendship with with the added benefit of having sexual fun also A few times a month is a lot. I normally see my regular fab friends every few months. " I would love a couple of times a month. | |||
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"Nope. That’s an unreasonable thing to ask/expect. Just someone who wants to meet regularly with us (few times a month). Someone to actually have a friendship with with the added benefit of having sexual fun also A few times a month is a lot. I normally see my regular fab friends every few months. " I had the pleasure of having a 'regular' playmate who I visited on-and-off for three years - her husband would get in touch as and when, to see if I was free the next day... ....over that time my afternoon visits to her varied anywhere from weekly to fortnightly to monthly - at one stage I was fucking her every week for a couple of months, at another it was only a couple of times during a few months... With two other couples, I was an occasional 'regular' who visited whenever my wife was away - with one of them, my trips to see them became an 'annual' thing, five times over five years; with the other, it was twice one year, and three times the next... | |||
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"It’s actually kinda refreshing to see that we aren’t the only ones who have really struggled with this. We’ve been looking for almost two years and would start a conversation with the potential lad regularly enough but terns out most either they don’t get the dynamic, are secretly attached and not regularly available, or are just using fab for fantasy wanks. In those two years, we had just one lad that we had a regular arrangement. Sadly it only lasted to months because he started a relationship (great for him obviously and we wished him well). So, back looking now and put a fresh status up every 2/3 days but realistically we are kinda deflated and feel it’s a bit of a fools errand. Hope you folks have some luck soon! Rhett and Scarlett xx" Just curious why it's a must that he be single? Surely if his married and his wife knows then it should be OK considering you're also married ? Genuine question, not intended to throw bad vibes in your direction | |||
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"It’s actually kinda refreshing to see that we aren’t the only ones who have really struggled with this. We’ve been looking for almost two years and would start a conversation with the potential lad regularly enough but terns out most either they don’t get the dynamic, are secretly attached and not regularly available, or are just using fab for fantasy wanks. In those two years, we had just one lad that we had a regular arrangement. Sadly it only lasted to months because he started a relationship (great for him obviously and we wished him well). So, back looking now and put a fresh status up every 2/3 days but realistically we are kinda deflated and feel it’s a bit of a fools errand. Hope you folks have some luck soon! Rhett and Scarlett xx Just curious why it's a must that he be single? Surely if his married and his wife knows then it should be OK considering you're also married ? Genuine question, not intended to throw bad vibes in your direction " In our experience, very few of the lads that claim they are playing with permission are. Also, even a genuine stag has domestic commitments which would naturally take priority and possibly limit availability. Really, it just reduces potential complications. | |||
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"It’s actually kinda refreshing to see that we aren’t the only ones who have really struggled with this. We’ve been looking for almost two years and would start a conversation with the potential lad regularly enough but terns out most either they don’t get the dynamic, are secretly attached and not regularly available, or are just using fab for fantasy wanks. In those two years, we had just one lad that we had a regular arrangement. Sadly it only lasted to months because he started a relationship (great for him obviously and we wished him well). So, back looking now and put a fresh status up every 2/3 days but realistically we are kinda deflated and feel it’s a bit of a fools errand. Hope you folks have some luck soon! Rhett and Scarlett xx Just curious why it's a must that he be single? Surely if his married and his wife knows then it should be OK considering you're also married ? Genuine question, not intended to throw bad vibes in your direction In our experience, very few of the lads that claim they are playing with permission are. Also, even a genuine stag has domestic commitments which would naturally take priority and possibly limit availability. Really, it just reduces potential complications." Ah ok | |||
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"We've never found bi comfortable black guys, but have a regular friend for me to play with." most of us at straight see it deh | |||
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"Morning all We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?" Hi, such a surprise to keep seeing that the couples are struggling to find suitable long term fellas.. I’m just outside London near high Wycombe if anyone fancies a chat.. | |||
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"Morning all We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?" Odd, I thought that was very much part of the cuckold dynamic - a regular playmate (bf) for the wife? I’d love to have a regular arrangement rather than one-offs… | |||
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"I don't think men do want regular here. Even if they say they do they rarely do I don't think it's just couple's struggle. Occasionally people think it's beneath then to see a swinger regularly X " I would prefer to have regular meets with a lady or couple, sex gets better as you get to know what they like | |||
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