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How do you find a partner or couple to swing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey I'm kinda a noob on this site how do you find people to swing with mainly with women. And how would you avoid time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure how you expect to meet someone when you can't travel or accommodate, and your profile really isn't doing much for you, people will look for pictures, verifications and a bit of personality. Best bet would be get to a club or organised social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find people whose profiles you feel you may match. Message them, and see where it goes.

I will warn that Fab is a tough place for the single/solo fella, so be prepared to manage your expectation levels of how ‘successful’ you might be.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Welcome to fab and the forums.

There's no sure fire way of getting meets but a good profile, respectful approach and lots of patience will help.

It often takes single men quite a long time to get their first meet.

Good luck

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I would massively swerve your profile. Sorry but its greatly lacking. Search the forum for plenty of threads giving advice. My suspicion is you won't get very far with it as it is unless you put some serious effort in.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Hey I'm kinda a noob on this site how do you find people to swing with mainly with women. And how would you avoid time wasters. "

Trust the people who are saying you have nothing to go by on your profile. You have a massive competition here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be really, really, really lucky?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I met my partner at a swinger's party. We both went first on our own.

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

Frankly it is pointless contacting couples or single women. They are bombarded by solo guys and just delete.

Sharpen up your profile as advised, chat on the forum and when they want what you offer they will seek you out.

Oh and remedy the 'can't accommodate - can't travel'.

aspect......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey I'm kinda a noob on this site how do you find people to swing with mainly with women. And how would you avoid time wasters. "

You won’t with your profile I’m sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like you would in the rest of the world, talk to people, put yourself out there and go meet people and be honest and yourself, don't pretend to be someone your not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the tip.

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