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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

Hello all you sexy fabbers.

I would love some helpful and constructive advice for my profile. Are my pics any good, is my bio well written or does it need work, maybe my username is a little childish. All advice is appreciated. Have a great day.

Thank you

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" maybe my username is a little childish. "

What does it refer to ?

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


" maybe my username is a little childish.

What does it refer to ?"

Is _jb773 not a good username?

What did you think of my profile?

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"I am on fab to find a women with a like-minded woman, an individual to have good times with"

That sounds like gibberish

'I am on fab to find (a women with) a like-minded woman, an individual to have good times with

Remove the words in brackets, it will flow better.

And sadly if you are a male who can't accommodate, it will be assumed you are not single, but cheating. So maybe explain the living situation, if you are sharing a flat, or living with your parents (housing market is insane, people will understand)

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I just wondered why you think your user name might be considered childish. In my opinion your profile text could be improved. What do you think when you read it ?

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


""I am on fab to find a women with a like-minded woman, an individual to have good times with"

That sounds like gibberish

'I am on fab to find (a women with) a like-minded woman, an individual to have good times with

Remove the words in brackets, it will flow better.

And sadly if you are a male who can't accommodate, it will be assumed you are not single, but cheating. So maybe explain the living situation, if you are sharing a flat, or living with your parents (housing market is insane, people will understand)"

Thanks for that, hadn't realised it sounded like gibberish

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

There is no need to say "I am 32 from Bishops Stortford" as we already know that

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


"There is no need to say "I am 32 from Bishops Stortford" as we already know that "

Is there anything else i should add?

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

Thanks for the advice, keep it coming

Are my pics any good? Are any improvements needing to be made?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've managed to get varified and had meets, not sure what your issue is. In comparison to a lot of blokes on here (including myself), you seem successful, like some sort of sexual god.

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


"You've managed to get varified and had meets, not sure what your issue is. In comparison to a lot of blokes on here (including myself), you seem successful, like some sort of sexual god."

Unfortunately it's only been with males, never had any female meets yet

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Thanks for the advice, keep it coming

Are my pics any good? Are any improvements needing to be made?"

Pics really aren't very inspiring and several are very similar...close ups of dicks and underpants really don't appeal to me and I'd be unlikely to look any further.

The profile text doesn't really capture my interest either.

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


"Thanks for the advice, keep it coming

Are my pics any good? Are any improvements needing to be made?

Pics really aren't very inspiring and several are very similar...close ups of dicks and underpants really don't appeal to me and I'd be unlikely to look any further.

The profile text doesn't really capture my interest either. "

What would i need to add into my profile text for me to capture your interest?

And how could i improve my pics?

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By *ad Bod 2023Man
over a year ago

Beverley

The reason why you can't accommodate, "living arrangements" could mean anything - live parents, shared house, married, etc. A bit if clarity might help.

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


"The reason why you can't accommodate, "living arrangements" could mean anything - live parents, shared house, married, etc. A bit if clarity might help. "

I've always worried that putting living with parents would turn woman off, makes me sound like a failure

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By *ad Bod 2023Man
over a year ago

Beverley


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I've always worried that putting living with parents would turn woman off, makes me sound like a failure "

With house prices now, I wouldn't say it makes you a failure.

You could always say you house share! it's not untrue!

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


"Thanks for the advice, keep it coming

Are my pics any good? Are any improvements needing to be made?

Pics really aren't very inspiring and several are very similar...close ups of dicks and underpants really don't appeal to me and I'd be unlikely to look any further.

The profile text doesn't really capture my interest either.

What would i need to add into my profile text for me to capture your interest?

And how could i improve my pics?"

I'll ask a male friend of mine to help me take some new pics

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

Please keep the advice coming, hopefully my profile will be alot better soon

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Thanks for the advice, keep it coming

Are my pics any good? Are any improvements needing to be made?

Pics really aren't very inspiring and several are very similar...close ups of dicks and underpants really don't appeal to me and I'd be unlikely to look any further.

The profile text doesn't really capture my interest either.

What would i need to add into my profile text for me to capture your interest?

And how could i improve my pics?"

Have a look at some other vell verified profiles for ideas for pics, generally something that leaves a little to the imagination is far more tempting than a full frontal.

As far as profile text goes , try to write something original that gives the reader an idea of who you are as a person. Try to incorporate your personality into your bio.

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


"Thanks for the advice, keep it coming

Are my pics any good? Are any improvements needing to be made?

Pics really aren't very inspiring and several are very similar...close ups of dicks and underpants really don't appeal to me and I'd be unlikely to look any further.

The profile text doesn't really capture my interest either.

What would i need to add into my profile text for me to capture your interest?

And how could i improve my pics?

Have a look at some other vell verified profiles for ideas for pics, generally something that leaves a little to the imagination is far more tempting than a full frontal.

As far as profile text goes , try to write something original that gives the reader an idea of who you are as a person. Try to incorporate your personality into your bio. "

Is better to have a longer bio?

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

The thing with your bio is that it is supposed to represent YOU. Asking other people what to put on it is not going to work as its more a reflection of them, not you.

If you're happy with it, then your job is done.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

How does someone know if you're "like minded"?

All we know is that you're a man who is proud of his manhood and lives in a house share...

Show some personality and give potential meets an idea of what you can offer and what you're seeking.

But as the poster above says, we cannot write it for you, it must reflect you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing with your bio is that it is supposed to represent YOU. Asking other people what to put on it is not going to work as its more a reflection of them, not you.

If you're happy with it, then your job is done. "

I've had several accounts on here over the years, and everytime I put a lot of effort and details into writing my bio. Unfortunately, if you don't get the views, the blurb seems pointless, hence my new and improved approach quest for a successful account. My new profile is working a lot better than previous ones.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"The thing with your bio is that it is supposed to represent YOU. Asking other people what to put on it is not going to work as its more a reflection of them, not you.

If you're happy with it, then your job is done.

I've had several accounts on here over the years, and everytime I put a lot of effort and details into writing my bio. Unfortunately, if you don't get the views, the blurb seems pointless, hence my new and improved approach quest for a successful account. My new profile is working a lot better than previous ones. "

No idea why lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing with your bio is that it is supposed to represent YOU. Asking other people what to put on it is not going to work as its more a reflection of them, not you.

If you're happy with it, then your job is done.

I've had several accounts on here over the years, and everytime I put a lot of effort and details into writing my bio. Unfortunately, if you don't get the views, the blurb seems pointless, hence my new and improved approach quest for a successful account. My new profile is working a lot better than previous ones.

No idea why lol"

I know, it baffles me as well. Little effort, greater reward.

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


"The thing with your bio is that it is supposed to represent YOU. Asking other people what to put on it is not going to work as its more a reflection of them, not you.

If you're happy with it, then your job is done.

I've had several accounts on here over the years, and everytime I put a lot of effort and details into writing my bio. Unfortunately, if you don't get the views, the blurb seems pointless, hence my new and improved approach quest for a successful account. My new profile is working a lot better than previous ones.

No idea why lol

I know, it baffles me as well. Little effort, greater reward."

I have tried that approach, no luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing with your bio is that it is supposed to represent YOU. Asking other people what to put on it is not going to work as its more a reflection of them, not you.

If you're happy with it, then your job is done.

I've had several accounts on here over the years, and everytime I put a lot of effort and details into writing my bio. Unfortunately, if you don't get the views, the blurb seems pointless, hence my new and improved approach quest for a successful account. My new profile is working a lot better than previous ones.

No idea why lol

I know, it baffles me as well. Little effort, greater reward.

I have tried that approach, no luck though"

Less is more. Good luck

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

Update, i have added more to my bio, hopefully it reads much better now

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Looks much better now.

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Is that camera angle or you VWE, worth mentioning in profile, there's a lot of girls and guys in to big ding dongs

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


"Is that camera angle or you VWE, worth mentioning in profile, there's a lot of girls and guys in to big ding dongs"

Im about 8 and a half inches, i always thought that you sound arrogant if you put you size in your bio

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


"Looks much better now.

"

Pleased it looks better, is the bio ok now, or could i add more?

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Is that camera angle or you VWE, worth mentioning in profile, there's a lot of girls and guys in to big ding dongs

Im about 8 and a half inches, i always thought that you sound arrogant if you put you size in your bio"

Fairpoint, sure you can think of squeezing VWE somewhere without sounding arrogant

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It might be hard to squeeze in 8 and a half inches !

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


"It might be hard to squeeze in 8 and a half inches ! "

I'm sure it wouldn't be that "hard"

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