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By *ukey1985uk OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Hi all

So I have been on here for a while now. I have a lot

Of interest from other men about arranging mmf. I have messaged many women on here but about 95% of them ignore the message (yes I get it you ain’t interested snd that’s fine) but what is the best way to get more interest from this? I know there are a lot of women out there into mmf but need some help from those that have more experience and success in this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

So I have been on here for a while now. I have a lot

Of interest from other men about arranging mmf. I have messaged many women on here but about 95% of them ignore the message (yes I get it you ain’t interested snd that’s fine) but what is the best way to get more interest from this? I know there are a lot of women out there into mmf but need some help from those that have more experience and success in this "

I can only speak for myself but when it comes to mmf I want at least one of the men to be known to me, someone that I trust and who will look out for me. I wouldn't be interested in a threesome with two random men

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By *ukey1985uk OP   Man
over a year ago

london

That’s true! Thank you for that. What about potential social meet first and get to know us both like going to a public place for a drink ? Does that work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s true! Thank you for that. What about potential social meet first and get to know us both like going to a public place for a drink ? Does that work? "

It would have to be someone I've known for a while where a level of trust and understanding has been built up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid that I wouldn't meet two random men, for even a social, at least one of them I would have to know and trust. Why not go to a club and see if you can get any interest there

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I would suggest looking for couples who are looking for MMF

As as others have said most single women will not want to meet & play with two blokes that are unknown to her

I'd personally have to have built up trust over time with at least one of the guys before bringing in another & then you've got to find a guy that wants to play with you both

Have you tried clubs on a bi night, you'll meet couples there

Looking for 2 people is always awkward, it's why I don't meet couples even under my couples profile we prefer single guys/girls to couples as it's hard to find a 4 way attraction in the same way you are going to find it hard to find a 3 way attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want mmf, why not message more couples?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Hi all

So I have been on here for a while now. I have a lot

Of interest from other men about arranging mmf. I have messaged many women on here but about 95% of them ignore the message (yes I get it you ain’t interested snd that’s fine) but what is the best way to get more interest from this? I know there are a lot of women out there into mmf but need some help from those that have more experience and success in this

I can only speak for myself but when it comes to mmf I want at least one of the men to be known to me, someone that I trust and who will look out for me. I wouldn't be interested in a threesome with two random men"

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I completely echo what the other posters are saying.

I would never enter into a MMF outside a club with people I didn't know, despite having met either of them for quick social.

Look for couples or get yourself along to a club would be your best bet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples that want MMF only need one more M.

We’re not going to invite two guys that know each other round unless we know and trust you.

I’m confident that I can control one man in a pinch but if two of you have conspired then my partner could be in danger.

It’s a fools game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv had 3somes with my husband and another man its great still looking for more

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