FabSwingers.com forum: Best approach

By *ose and her beast OP Couple
over a year ago

Watford

We want to meet a black female as I have never been with one before (female) but wanted to ask what the best way to phrase it would be on here without causing offense I know it sounds a bit silly but just want to make sure we use the right language x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at your motives for wanting to do so… if its a tick box exercise ‘just to try a black lady’ then personally i’d be miffed about that. I’m a person not a fairground ride. If you see that person as another lady with the same body parts as yourself and a cracking personality to boot then i’d say, pass go and collect 200

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By *ose and her beast OP Couple
over a year ago

Watford

Definitely not a box tick but had so many lovely ladies that we haven't had the courage to ask them about it before x

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Why wouldn’t you approach them the same way as any other woman you are interested in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not a box tick but had so many lovely ladies that we haven't had the courage to ask them about it before x"

Bless youse why would you need courage. Drop the race bit. You see a lady you fancy then message them - hey loved your profile etc, would really be interested in getting to know you more. (All that never had a black lady stuff is cringe and i can only speak for myself, its a turn off. They see my colour not me).

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Definitely not a box tick but had so many lovely ladies that we haven't had the courage to ask them about it before x"

I don't understand. You have had "so many lovely ladies" but before meeting "haven't had the courage to ask them" what colour they are ?

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By *ose and her beast OP Couple
over a year ago

Watford

We don't mean on fab just seems a bit of a stigma that black women like other women sorry not wording it well :/

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Approach them like you would any other woman. Not many people appreciate being fetishized for their race/colour or being part of an experiment.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Approach them like you would any other woman. Not many people appreciate being fetishized for their race/colour or being part of an experiment. "

Well said

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"We want to meet a black female as I have never been with one before (female) but wanted to ask what the best way to phrase it would be on here without causing offense I know it sounds a bit silly but just want to make sure we use the right language x"

“You look amazing” is a great place to start with any female, regardless of ethnicity…..

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

You could always use the search option on Fab and just ask the lady for a meet

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Approach them like you would any other woman. Not many people appreciate being fetishized for their race/colour or being part of an experiment. "

Totally agree

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By *orny1-4uMan
over a year ago

newcastle

I know woman who say they are looking for black men but personally if I like the look of a woman in the pic I just message them without bringing colour into it there might be mutual attraction

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