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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dose my colour of my skin put you off my profile

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Dose my colour of my skin put you off my profile"

No but your public photos certainly do, profile is otherwise we'll written

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How can I attract more couples

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"How can I attract more couples"

Go to a club, attend organised social events, lots of people won't meet unverified people, a verification offers some sense of reliability & that they will turn up as planned

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I ugly

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Am I ugly "

We can't see your face.

It might sound harsh, but asking question like that isn't exactly attractive.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Drawing attention to reasons you think people aren't interested in you will only turn more people away. They will be put off by constant negativity and attempts to pigeonhole their decisions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dose my colour of my skin put you off my profile"

Yes. It does to some. What you are going to do about it. Get over it and Stop complaining. Focus on those who can see pass your skin colour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know some incredibly successfully Single Asian guys on the swinging scene. They ooze positivity, charm and light up the room when they enter with their personalities. They are confident not arrogant and first and foremost always respectful and total gentlmen.

They have taken the time and effort to study and embrace the swinging scene and culture. They attend large scale social events (social nights where swingers meet not for sex but to get to know like minded peoole). They attended swinging clubs and respectfully engage fellow swingers. Over time they built up excellent reputations which leads to invites to exclusive parties.

These are average looking Asian guys (in their own words) with average size penises as well. They understand that negativity and poor me attitudes are absolutely NOT Sexy in the slightest.

These guys also have no problem meeting and dating new women outside the swinging scene i.e. at the pub, nightclubs, the workplace , a bus stop, vanilla dating sites and so on.

OP are you successful with meeting women in real life outside of the swinging scene??

If your not successful at meeting people and having sexual relationships in real life then your going to stuggle on fab where there's 100 guys to every 1 women / couple.

At least on Tinder its roughly a straight 50/50 split so 1 guy for every female user. The same in a nightclub you roughly have a similar amount of fellas to ladies.

Far to many men including many who are incel come to fab thinking it's an easy route to sex after failing in real life when the opposite is true.

Your race really doesn't factor in to the above tbh.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Nope but I don’t find your photos or profile interesting enough to want to get to know you and after reading all the forum posts you’ve started in the last hour it kinda puts me off even more.

Go on the cams chat or go to a group social or even a club and make an effort in person instead of complaining on here about it.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Am I ugly "

You might be. Hard to to tell with no pics!

But try not to sweat it, mate. Some people will fancy you, some won't!

You can't possibly find everyone you meet attractive, so it's the same in reverse?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

These are average looking Asian guys (in their own words) with average size penises as well. They understand that negativity and poor me attitudes are absolutely NOT Sexy in the slightest.

These guys also have no problem meeting and dating new women outside the swinging scene i.e. at the pub, nightclubs, the workplace , a bus stop, vanilla dating sites and so on.

OP are you successful with meeting women in real life outside of the swinging scene??

If your not successful at meeting people and having sexual relationships in real life then your going to stuggle on fab where there's 100 guys to every 1 women / couple.

At least on Tinder its roughly a straight 50/50 split so 1 guy for every female user. The same in a nightclub you roughly have a similar amount of fellas to ladies.

Far to many men including many who are incel come to fab thinking it's an easy route to sex after failing in real life when the opposite is true.

Your race really doesn't factor in to the above tbh.

Totally agree very well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can really see anything the pics aren't very good

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"Dose my colour of my skin put you off my profile

No but your public photos certainly do, profile is otherwise we'll written

Yes I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be more put off by the green arrow tbh.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Dose my colour of my skin put you off my profile"

What a bizarre Post. I couldnt tell your skin colour from your pics. T wasn't until I read the top half of your bio, how would anyone possibly be able to tell of your ugly when there is nothing to go buy. And as for attracting couples, we wouldn't go near you purely based on your pics. And now that fact that your looking for compliments or what ever you want to call it. Sorry for being so blunt but but as previously said...this isn't at all attractive.

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By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago

LHR

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Dose my colour of my skin put you off my profile"

The colour of a person has nothing to do with their personality.people look for a connection if they find the person attractive or handsome not everyone will be what they are looking for it's for you to accept this like everyone else does it's not one sided it's more about respect if people aren't interested or are nothing to cry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dose my colour of my skin put you off my profile"

No, but if we look back at any of your previous forum posts it seems you have a massive issue yourself.

Profile photos are poor and tbh the text is very demanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dose my colour of my skin put you off my profile"

No, it doesn't.

Judging by your previous posts you seem to be the one hung up on skin colour.

Winston

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"Am I ugly

We can't see your face.

It might sound harsh, but asking question like that isn't exactly attractive."

We see it as purely attention seeking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dose my colour of my skin put you off my profile

No, it doesn't.

Judging by your previous posts you seem to be the one hung up on skin colour.

Winston"

Wow. Green arrow. Very off putting

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Green arrow.

You've asked the same questions over and over again and had many, many answers, suggestions and advice.

What did you think would happen when you joined Fab?

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"Green arrow.

You've asked the same questions over and over again and had many, many answers, suggestions and advice.

What did you think would happen when you joined Fab?"

Probably lots of free sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Green arrow.

You've asked the same questions over and over again and had many, many answers, suggestions and advice.

What did you think would happen when you joined Fab?

Probably lots of free sex."

I'm getting loads of free sex.

Admittedly it's with Lady Astor. Still counts though, right?

Winston

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Time to close the tread

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

No it doesn't, and it won't for most I would like to think.

...what could it be though? No, I've not idea. I'll have think and next time you post same question I'll be of more help hopefully.

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"No it doesn't, and it won't for most I would like to think.

...what could it be though? No, I've not idea. I'll have think and next time you post same question I'll be of more help hopefully. "

The guy has asked so many times about this...

Maybe the only person who sees a problem with the colour of his skin is himself.

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