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By *azs OP   Woman
over a year ago

hoddesdon

Iv been wanting a gangbang for a while now and Iv been catching to a couple of really nice people on here who recommended going to a club were it would be easier and safer for me, but having never been to one before I need someone to come along with

Any other advice would be appreciated please x

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

A lot of women go to clubs on their own. It's only scary until the first time you walk through the door.

But. If you want a gangbang, it's a good idea to have someone that you trust to keep an eye on things. It's not absolutely necessary - I know a woman who has no trouble keeping a room full of men under control on her own. But that does take some confidence and experience.

I advise against going with a man that you don't know. If you're unlucky, it can go badly wrong.

If you're able to go to the same club regularly, you will meet some good people there. It shouldn't take long before you find a suitable gangbang guardian

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Iv been wanting a gangbang for a while now and Iv been catching to a couple of really nice people on here who recommended going to a club were it would be easier and safer for me, but having never been to one before I need someone to come along with

Any other advice would be appreciated please x"

Clubs are definitely far safer than trying to arrange a meet with multiple guys at a hotel. One thing arranging it privately is that several don't actually show up.

I would pop up a meet and post is as your status that you will be going to whichever club on the date and ask guys to contact you before hand, so you can chat before the evening so you know a bit about them.

Maybe meet one or two and ask them to accompany you to watch over proceedings.

Or go to a busy club or greedy girl event and decide who you want to invite to a certain play area. You could ask the club owner if they could suggest someone present who could oversee things for you.

It is in the clubs interest and the regulars interest for single ladies to be treated well and feel safe.

One possibility is to visit the club to check it all out prior to going ahead with your gang bang visit.

Have fun

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By *azs OP   Woman
over a year ago

hoddesdon

Yes that been the problem relying on other people to arrange a Hotel meeting

So Iv decided to go to a club and I think it would be safer

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

I think it's wise going to clubs, as there are others in similar situations, and will be plenty of fellow woman, couples around... and you can settle in and get social at the bar and go at your own pace. Guys generally will be respectful and not cross boundaries as there are strict rules in place. Also if if you get uncomfortable, the staff are there to ensure nothing get's out of hand.

Also you don't have to worry about raising suspicions at hotels if you indeed are looking for gangbang experiences.

You can advise guys you are going there (a club) but perhaps make it clear you are not obligated to do anything. If they are serious and genuine then will chaps should respect that. Chat to them in the bar and see what you feel.

VA and Penthouse are good places to start if you're north of London. There are some nice folks around there.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

There’s another thread running with some great feedback and advice about women going to clubs alone xx

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By *azs OP   Woman
over a year ago

hoddesdon


"I think it's wise going to clubs, as there are others in similar situations, and will be plenty of fellow woman, couples around... and you can settle in and get social at the bar and go at your own pace. Guys generally will be respectful and not cross boundaries as there are strict rules in place. Also if if you get uncomfortable, the staff are there to ensure nothing get's out of hand. Thank you yes I’m just outside north London

Also you don't have to worry about raising suspicions at hotels if you indeed are looking for gangbang experiences.

You can advise guys you are going there (a club) but perhaps make it clear you are not obligated to do anything. If they are serious and genuine then will chaps should respect that. Chat to them in the bar and see what you feel.

VA and Penthouse are good places to start if you're north of London. There are some nice folks around there. "

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By *azs OP   Woman
over a year ago

hoddesdon

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By *azs OP   Woman
over a year ago

hoddesdon


"There’s another thread running with some great feedback and advice about women going to clubs alone xx"
ok thank you I couldn’t find anything earlier

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I go on my own

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london


"I think it's wise going to clubs, as there are others in similar situations, and will be plenty of fellow woman, couples around... and you can settle in and get social at the bar and go at your own pace. Guys generally will be respectful and not cross boundaries as there are strict rules in place. Also if if you get uncomfortable, the staff are there to ensure nothing get's out of hand.

Also you don't have to worry about raising suspicions at hotels if you indeed are looking for gangbang experiences.

You can advise guys you are going there (a club) but perhaps make it clear you are not obligated to do anything. If they are serious and genuine then will chaps should respect that. Chat to them in the bar and see what you feel.

VA and Penthouse are good places to start if you're north of London. There are some nice folks around there. "

Also there is OnlyPlaceForFun in North London N22, but I think it’s a smaller venues then the ones I mentioned before. Never been myself yet.

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By *azs OP   Woman
over a year ago

hoddesdon


"I go on my own"
did you go your first time on your own??

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I think it's wise going to clubs, as there are others in similar situations, and will be plenty of fellow woman, couples around... and you can settle in and get social at the bar and go at your own pace. Guys generally will be respectful and not cross boundaries as there are strict rules in place. Also if if you get uncomfortable, the staff are there to ensure nothing get's out of hand.

Also you don't have to worry about raising suspicions at hotels if you indeed are looking for gangbang experiences.

You can advise guys you are going there (a club) but perhaps make it clear you are not obligated to do anything. If they are serious and genuine then will chaps should respect that. Chat to them in the bar and see what you feel.

VA and Penthouse are good places to start if you're north of London. There are some nice folks around there.

Also there is OnlyPlaceForFun in North London N22, but I think it’s a smaller venues then the ones I mentioned before. Never been myself yet. "

I’ve been to our place 4 fun, was the first club I ever visited. A really nice little club would highly recommend it xx

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By *azs OP   Woman
over a year ago

hoddesdon

Thank you

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Iv been wanting a gangbang for a while now and Iv been catching to a couple of really nice people on here who recommended going to a club were it would be easier and safer for me, but having never been to one before I need someone to come along with

Any other advice would be appreciated please x"

You may just find the club that suits you.

Go a few times to settle in and fill comfortable.

Small steps and you'll enjoy the journey just as much as the gang bang.

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By *azs OP   Woman
over a year ago

hoddesdon

Thank you

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Any reputable club would watch over you , I personally would recommend club play in Blackpool, not only does it have a gangbang room, it hasfemale glory holes and you would not only be made very welcome, you would be kept safe and your rules upheld x

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I went to my 1st club night alone, I'd phoned up beforehand and Manager had told me what to expect. I had a FAB night. I've seen Gangbangs in clubs, most decent clubs would provide a person to oversee the shenanigans. Have fun OP x

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By *ingle w3t femaleWoman
over a year ago

yorkshire


"Iv been wanting a gangbang for a while now and Iv been catching to a couple of really nice people on here who recommended going to a club were it would be easier and safer for me, but having never been to one before I need someone to come along with

Any other advice would be appreciated please x"

I go on my own mostly, or try make a female playmate to go with you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m single male

The clubs are very rude and unfriendly towards single males

I do my own private parties that are much better and less rude

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I’m single male

The clubs are very rude and unfriendly towards single males

I do my own private parties that are much better and less rude

"

You must be going to the wrong clubs then

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"I’m single male

The clubs are very rude and unfriendly towards single males

I do my own private parties that are much better and less rude

You must be going to the wrong clubs then"

That's what I thought I go to clubs and have met some fantastic people,I've never once felt the club or the clientele were rude to single guys in anyway

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By *allum29Man
over a year ago

Banbury

I'd definitely agree with going to a club for it, having tried to arrange one in the past for a friend's birthday I know how unreliable men are.

I know Jaydees used to have a good room for gangbangs, Kestrels/AbFabs have had some good ones too between the pool and cinema. Reading the post it's great how some staff will help keep a watchful eye. Also greedy girl nights the ratio of single guys to couples / women will be higher so you'll have more to choose from.

One thing I would say is have a think if you want to go to the same club get to know some people and then arrange it or just go for it.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Chameleons in the west mids has a great social atmosphere , nice folk and great facilities for a gang bang. I've met a single lady there and after chatting and expressing an interest in a GB, chaperoned her.

The single guys are very respectful and generally good fun, the regulars anyway ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We attend Jaydees most weekends, mainly Saturdays and we see a lot of single ladies there,some nights there are more ladies than men!

They all comment on how safe they feel there.

Check the website for the next greedy girl night, they have a room just for group fun!

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