FabSwingers.com forum: Too nice , or straight to the point

By *opjonny OP Man
over a year ago

Braintree

I've just come on here looking for NSA discreet fun , FWB , Sometimes I think I'm being too nice and get no where , or should I be more direct , I'm 52 and just a normal bloke in a sexless marriage , more like brother and sister , I live near Braintree Essex , but will also travel a bit ,??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TBH, not sure you will have much luck, married men playing without permission is a hassle most will avoid.

Bee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TBH, not sure you will have much luck, married men playing without permission is a hassle most will avoid.

Bee"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

what do you mean by too nice?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

No such thing as ‘being too nice’.

Contact those who you think you are compatible with and ensure you read their profile.

Always be aware they’ll check yours out as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice men can also be straight to the point

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By *hloetTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

Always prefer a nice guy. X

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Very difficult to give you advice but I we knew what sort of msgs your sending that might help. And agree with the comment about being married. Most will avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TBH, not sure you will have much luck, married men playing without permission is a hassle most will avoid.

Bee"

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"Hi

How are you being too nice?

If you are doing this without your wife knowing, most people won't see it as nice.

No doubt you might find people who want to meet you.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Without seeing what you're writing we can't say, but I don't think people can be too nice.

Are you being honest in messages about being married? That could be a problem as not everyone is hapy to meet anyone cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too nice? Perhaps be a bit more harsh then and tell your wife you’ve given up on your marriage.

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Without seeing what you're writing we can't say, but I don't think people can be too nice.

Are you being honest in messages about being married? That could be a problem as not everyone is hapy to meet anyone cheating. "

This is definitely important. People should have a choice around whether they are pulled into your situation.

But remember, there are thousands of people here. Over the years, I've come across plenty of married women - here without permission, so there will certainly be those that are compatible with you.

Perhaps, look for the signals on profiles and be honest on yours.

Good luck!

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich (just for Sat)

"Hi

I'm cheating on my wife but I think I'm being too nice.....yeah OK. There are some funny people on here!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

You don’t mention a wife on your profile in fact not much on your profile at all

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