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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello ladies...I am an Indian guy (Western Indian) living in the UK...I get a feeling that most girls here do not like Indian guys. For example, I was in the gym the other day for a group fitness class and we needed a partner to exercise with, so I was randomly paired up with one British girl...she did not even smile back at me and it seemed she didn't want to even look at me(just to clarify I am not ugly or smelly person). That's just one example, but in daily life too, me and my Indian friends have experienced that most British girls put on a very contemptuous and unfriendly expression when an Indian guy happens to make a casual eye contact (not leering) with them.

What is it about most Indian guys that girls hate? looks? accent? behaviour? cleanliness? manners? height? colour? culture? I would really like to know what repels most girls from Indian guys and maybe try to improve if its possible.

Thanks.

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By *witch mix vanillaCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

For me (the fem) I just do not fancy any asia or coloured guys, just my preference.

As for talking it all depends on your attitude.

And there has been lots of bad press recently about asian men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just ignorant. Don't let it get to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you want attention from such stupid divas anyway?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

O...k...

I'm black, fat and old. If I smile at someone and they don't smile back, I put it down to London life. I don't assume most white people hold any animosity towards me and think I'm smelly etc.

Some people have difficulty accepting they will never appeal to all and assume it's race, size, height etc.

We all have something to offer and feel as individuals we are nice people. Focus on the positive otherwise you're in danger of appearing to have a chip on your shoulder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly we absolutely deplore racism in all its forms however asian guys are getting a bad press this is there own making we know its not indians so to speak but it will help if you put this on your profile cos we re not meeting muslims at this time xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I find asian men very attractive, but there's not many round my neck of the woods. Shame.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for a nice advice dear...

Many of the non-Asians can't differentiate between Pakistan, India and Bangladesh..even though there are huge differences in our personalities, dressing, culture etc.

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By *ancsflyerCouple
over a year ago

nelson

people judge what some one looks like and not the person inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For each person that doesn't fancy you there will be many more that does. xx

As said before it could be the London bit.

I've moved up from Dorset where the bit i came from you smiled and said good morning to strangers

Where i live now i dont even make eye contact.

It's a sad world we live in xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's true...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly we absolutely deplore racism in all its forms however asian guys are getting a bad press this is there own making we know its not indians so to speak but it will help if you put this on your profile cos we re not meeting muslims at this time xx "
that offensive really offensive not all muslim harm people and if this is what u r implying i think maybe some education wouldn't go a miss

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Firstly we absolutely deplore racism in all its forms however asian guys are getting a bad press this is there own making we know its not indians so to speak but it will help if you put this on your profile cos we re not meeting muslims at this time xx that offensive really offensive not all muslim harm people and if this is what u r implying i think maybe some education wouldn't go a miss "

Indeed as the only Muslims I know personally are black (west African and Jamaicans)and white (Dorset).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Colour me confused (pun not intended).

OP, are you Indian as in from India or West Indian as in from the Caribbean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it is less about nationality and culture and more about colouring.

I am not attracted to darker skinned asians and I am not attracted to darker skinned black people.

However, I am VERY attracted to lighter skinned asians, lighter skinned black people, arabic, mixed race asian / caucasian and mixed race black / white people.

In fact I would go as far to say, more so than I am attracted to other caucasians.

I have no idea of why that is the case, it just is !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly we absolutely deplore racism in all its forms however asian guys are getting a bad press this is there own making we know its not indians so to speak but it will help if you put this on your profile cos we re not meeting muslims at this time xx "

How would you know a Muslim from a non-Muslim ?

They don't all wear big beards and hook hands ya know !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I am just not attracted to you simple as that. And yes she was rude but to be honest, you should try living in Gloucester, don't think the majority of Asians know what manners are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I am just not attracted to you simple as that. And yes she was rude but to be honest, you should try living in Gloucester, don't think the majority of Asians don't know what manners are "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never judge someone solely on their colour, however my experience so far with western asians ( i.e not chinese japanese etc) (men especially but occasionally women too) is that they have been arogant, self important and with a sense of entitlement to act however and do whatever they want..

which is not how i like people to be..

i am sure that this is a skewed view as there are probably many lovely western asian men and women but that is my experience not only in the swinging world but in the real world too ( working with them and out shopping etc etc)

I think this kind of behaviour from multiple people in a group/race of people can put alot of people off.

The same way that asian women don't tend to like white guys because they are d*unk football fans its not all white guys but its an image that is portrayed to those people.

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By *ogamuffinMan
over a year ago

slough


"For me (the fem) I just do not fancy any asia or coloured guys, just my preference.

As for talking it all depends on your attitude.

And there has been lots of bad press recently about asian men."

Bad press - All it takes is a few rotten apples to ruin the crop.....and the rest of crop get a bad name.

Hence the reason why decent, honest guys need to get out there and improve our reputations. We aren't all bad, not everyone is cut from the same cloth.

Sure I understand everyone has different tastes and appeals, and it shouldn't be taken personally, its just individual preference.

So if anyone is interested in hot n spicy Indian, then checkout my profile. I won't bite, unless you ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never judge someone solely on their colour, however my experience so far with western asians ( i.e not chinese japanese etc) (men especially but occasionally women too) is that they have been arogant, self important and with a sense of entitlement to act however and do whatever they want..

which is not how i like people to be..

i am sure that this is a skewed view as there are probably many lovely western asian men and women but that is my experience not only in the swinging world but in the real world too ( working with them and out shopping etc etc)

I think this kind of behaviour from multiple people in a group/race of people can put alot of people off.

The same way that asian women don't tend to like white guys because they are d*unk football fans its not all white guys but its an image that is portrayed to those people.

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Think the women are overall the worst, just plain ignorant

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By *ayseanMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

As someone of both asian+caucasian heritage+proud of both by the way,i feel like i know more about both cultures then most having lived my whole life in each,and all i can say on this forum subject is without sounding big headed iv never had any trouble attracting ladies because of my heritage,and that you will find ignorant,smelly,handsome,well mannered or whatever other feature of life in all cultures,so i find it best not to judge a whole race of people on just a handful you may have come across in your lifetime,plus i believe the good out way the bad in this world,peace+love to everyone,lifes too short for hatred,enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly we absolutely deplore racism in all its forms however asian guys are getting a bad press this is there own making we know its not indians so to speak but it will help if you put this on your profile cos we re not meeting muslims at this time xx "

Hi, so you verify the rerligion of all your meets before-hand? Or do you just refer to Asian?

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"For me (the fem) I just do not fancy any asia or coloured guys, just my preference.

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Speaking personally, I do not fancy asian men. Asian women - now that's another matter entirely :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone of both asian+caucasian heritage+proud of both by the way,i feel like i know more about both cultures then most having lived my whole life in each,and all i can say on this forum subject is without sounding big headed iv never had any trouble attracting ladies because of my heritage,and that you will find ignorant,smelly,handsome,well mannered or whatever other feature of life in all cultures,so i find it best not to judge a whole race of people on just a handful you may have come across in your lifetime,plus i believe the good out way the bad in this world,peace+love to everyone,lifes too short for hatred,enjoy it "

Thanks, I was finding this thread a bit depressing until I saw this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are two kinds of people I can't stand in this world. People who are intolerant of other people's cultures, and the Dutch.

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By *otandpepperCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Thanks for a nice advice dear...

Many of the non-Asians can't differentiate between Pakistan, India and Bangladesh..even though there are huge differences in our personalities, dressing, culture etc.

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Do you mean that any of those people are better than other? Coz i believe that you have same problem with other backgrounds as the girls you met.

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By *ayseanMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Your welcome lovelyxxx

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Hello ladies...I am an Indian guy (Western Indian) living in the UK...I get a feeling that most girls here do not like Indian guys. For example, I was in the gym the other day for a group fitness class and we needed a partner to exercise with, so I was randomly paired up with one British girl...she did not even smile back at me and it seemed she didn't want to even look at me(just to clarify I am not ugly or smelly person). That's just one example, but in daily life too, me and my Indian friends have experienced that most British girls put on a very contemptuous and unfriendly expression when an Indian guy happens to make a casual eye contact (not leering) with them.

What is it about most Indian guys that girls hate? looks? accent? behaviour? cleanliness? manners? height? colour? culture? I would really like to know what repels most girls from Indian guys and maybe try to improve if its possible.

Thanks.

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How do you know that the response was down to your ethnicity? Maybe you were too tall/short, thin/fat, not smiling enough/too much, hair too long/ short, too sweaty etc etc. Maybe you just didn't match her preferences - which we all have (and are entitled too). I love redheads and can't stand bimbo's (would def turn down Victoria Beckham and co). There are many white couples that we, as a white couple, have declined a meet with, just because they didn't seem to be our type.

If you are hinting about racism here that is different to preferences as racism is about hatred and treating others differently on the basis of race.

Perhaps also be careful about defining people, which is what many white British are criticised for i.e 'British' being only white British, when there are many British people in this country who are of varying ethnic origin.

Hwever, if you are correct and they are turning you down on the basis of race, I would take the view that if that is there attitude, I would not want to be with them anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try being ginger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try being ginger!"

I wouldnt wish that on anyone

I have 4 beautiful daughters one od whom is a redhead and she suffers ridiculously from taunting and bullying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try being ginger!

I wouldnt wish that on anyone

I have 4 beautiful daughters one od whom is a redhead and she suffers ridiculously from taunting and bullying "

kids are tough and kids are mean

it will get better

she will have the last laugh

she will get her rewards later in life

redheads are very sexy, both men and women

(when i had hair) it was brown, but my sister is a RED head, not just red but RED

again she was picked on at school, but once she reached her mid to late teens she blossomed

i was the kid that got new friends cos he had a 'fit' older sister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree, all sorts of people have there own little prejudices, i done better than most of my mates for the ladies by the time I was 15.

i was just wanting the original poster to know that he is not alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try being ginger!"
I love gingers!

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By *rystal denisonWoman
over a year ago

trowbridge


"try being ginger! I love gingers!"

me too lol

as for indian guys i have found a sudden boom in good looking ones of late lol

but the thing that pisses me off is they all say this

well my mother will expect me to marry a indian girl one day

so makes me think well what am i for ? just a hump or someone to wind the mother up lol

swinging life i prefer white guys as i like sexually the bigger builds (gym look)

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over a year ago


"There are two kinds of people I can't stand in this world. People who are intolerant of other people's cultures, and the Dutch."

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

dont give a fxxxk love some ppl are just ignorants brits or not shin up always that girl must b an fxxxg cow lol well im brazil multi cultural country like we say there mixe the blood to make beautiful babies hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Colour me confused (pun not intended).

OP, are you Indian as in from India or West Indian as in from the Caribbean?"

I am Indian,,,not Caribbean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because I am just not attracted to you simple as that. And yes she was rude but to be honest, you should try living in Gloucester, don't think the majority of Asians know what manners are "

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I don't know about indian guys as a generalisation, however I have seen a number of situations where one asian (could be indian, could be pakistani, could be bengali,.. etc) guy or the other has behaved "awkwardly". Example:

1) People in a narrow corridor trying to adopt the "one-in-one-out" approach through the hallway,.. asian lad approaches the back of the queue and pushes past the 5 people ahead of him AND the 4 coming from the other way, seemingly not noticing anyone.

One person commented "Oh well, I guess we can't complain for fear of being branded discriminatory".

2) Another example: an asian gent when being asked if he was enjoying himself (he responded in the positive) and enquired if he had a partner he'd ever considered sharing "the life" with to which he responded "I could never bring her to a place like this, its just not culturally on" (yes, my jaw dropped to hear that also!).

Now I know those are only 2 isolated incidents, but it does make one wonder.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for a nice advice dear...

Many of the non-Asians can't differentiate between Pakistan, India and Bangladesh..even though there are huge differences in our personalities, dressing, culture etc.

Do you mean that any of those people are better than other? Coz i believe that you have same problem with other backgrounds as the girls you met."

NO. I did not meant to say that. I was just saying that there are differences however everyone is best in their own way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As someone of both asian+caucasian heritage+proud of both by the way,i feel like i know more about both cultures then most having lived my whole life in each,and all i can say on this forum subject is without sounding big headed iv never had any trouble attracting ladies because of my heritage,and that you will find ignorant,smelly,handsome,well mannered or whatever other feature of life in all cultures,so i find it best not to judge a whole race of people on just a handful you may have come across in your lifetime,plus i believe the good out way the bad in this world,peace+love to everyone,lifes too short for hatred,enjoy it "

Well said buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry OP how do u even know where she came from?....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know about indian guys as a generalisation, however I have seen a number of situations where one asian (could be indian, could be pakistani, could be bengali,.. etc) guy or the other has behaved "awkwardly". Example:

1) People in a narrow corridor trying to adopt the "one-in-one-out" approach through the hallway,.. asian lad approaches the back of the queue and pushes past the 5 people ahead of him AND the 4 coming from the other way, seemingly not noticing anyone.

One person commented "Oh well, I guess we can't complain for fear of being branded discriminatory".

2) Another example: an asian gent when being asked if he was enjoying himself (he responded in the positive) and enquired if he had a partner he'd ever considered sharing "the life" with to which he responded "I could never bring her to a place like this, its just not culturally on" (yes, my jaw dropped to hear that also!).

Now I know those are only 2 isolated incidents, but it does make one wonder."

I absolutely agree with you. There are many stupid Indians(and from every background)out here.I just find it harsh when people just rationalise the whole culture because of the few.

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By *ayseanMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Another thing id like to add,wouldnt it be a boring world if we all looked+acted the same! Variety is the spice of life,as someone who has travelled alot iv found it broadens the mind,and opens it to different cultures,and i count myself lucky to have had the opportunity to do so,as for small minded people,im just thankful im nothing like you,but all in all i do believe the majority of people are good decent folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I absolutely agree with you. There are many stupid Indians(and from every background)out here.I just find it harsh when people just rationalise the whole culture because of the few."

now ur opening post...u have to read that back, and look at the key theme, generalization, and see where ur post doesnt work.Sorry OP,cant help but debate one a few ppls actions that then turn into somewhat sweeping generalizations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a slightly related tangent, why do there seem to be so few Indian women here? Am I just looking in the wrong places or are they under-represented?

Either way it's a shame, I find Indian ladies extremely sexy...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On a slightly related tangent, why do there seem to be so few Indian women here? Am I just looking in the wrong places or are they under-represented?

Either way it's a shame, I find Indian ladies extremely sexy..."

I would say,, ,many of Indian girls are bit shy..

so they are afraid to represent themselves..but not all though...i wish you good luck..one day you will find some one you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me (the fem) I just do not fancy any asia or coloured guys, just my preference.

As for talking it all depends on your attitude.

And there has been lots of bad press recently about asian men."
what colour do you mean ? Red/yellow/green

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me (the fem) I just do not fancy any asia or coloured guys, just my preference.

As for talking it all depends on your attitude.

And there has been lots of bad press recently about asian men.what colour do you mean ? Red/yellow/green "

BTW White is also a colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never judge someone solely on their colour, however my experience so far with western asians ( i.e not chinese japanese etc) (men especially but occasionally women too) is that they have been arogant, self important and with a sense of entitlement to act however and do whatever they want..

which is not how i like people to be..

i am sure that this is a skewed view as there are probably many lovely western asian men and women but that is my experience not only in the swinging world but in the real world too ( working with them and out shopping etc etc)

I think this kind of behaviour from multiple people in a group/race of people can put alot of people off.

The same way that asian women don't tend to like white guys because they are d*unk football fans its not all white guys but its an image that is portrayed to those people.

Think the women are overall the worst, just plain ignorant "
ye your right you are ignorant and that is because you don't no any better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, let me say I'm Indian and have met some great ladies from this site.

Admittedly the bad press 'asians' are getting is of their own doing, and they are rightly getting prison sentences for their despicable crimes.

But those stories mirror some of the horror stories I heard, regarding Asian men's perception towards white women. its awful, but thankfully people also recognise that not all Asians are the same, and similar crimes happen in every race of life.

My advice would be, chat openly, chat freely, never conform, just confirm that you are a nice guy, but above all have a laugh and enjoy life. Don't get hung up on other peoples views about people who are nothing to do with you.

Probably not the answer to the OP's questions, but I thought I'd add my 2 rupees worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Born and raised here and have plenty of female friends and a few lovers.

Had a few knock backs over the years but so what..life goes on yaar!

Stay positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I've also been wondering the same thing. I think emphasis is on the "bad press." There has been disgusting stories of Pakistani Muslim men grooming young white girls for sex. To point to the obvious, not all black men are from Africa, oriental men from China or indeed Brown skinned men from Pakistan. I myself am British (Sikh) with Indian grandparents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The darker skinned Asians are Bengali from the hotter south of India. Sikhs will always wear 1 steel bangle on their wrist & many with turbans and a full beard. They like Hindus, drink, Go to pubs, hardly any dietary restrictions, and socially get on with anybody and everybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try being ginger! I love gingers!"

I had no problem being ginger haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From experience Indian and Asian guys have little dicks and small minds. "

We havent met yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From experience Indian and Asian guys have little dicks and small minds. "

Sometimes the shortest comments hit home to the truth the best.

OP: Firstly, we can start with your name "anacondaa4u" (checks profile of brown guy with small to average sized penis perhaps considered 'large' for a desi). But hey you know, it's not the size, it's what you do with it, so the 'dick size' thing is only part of the conundrum. But the fact you call it an "anaconda", is only asking to be challenged. - But that's you personally, as for the wider Asian community.

Let's look at it from a few different angles:

1. Racial attitudes. Whether we profess to live in an open-minded multi-cultural society etc. Most people are still going to have a preference for their own, especially when pound for pound an Orange has a choice between meeting another juicy Orange, or another juicy Apple. Where we see people in this scene actively exploring outside their race, is when there are other juicy alternatives. To guys this means pretty much any race of sexy woman. While to women this means a guy that is a stud, hung, athletic, seductive, non-creepy, a gentleman, experienced etc. - Now this is where a lot of Asian guys don't fare so well (or rather don't fare well enough), while a lot of Black guys fare very well. - Simply put, find a 6ft tall athletic desi guy who is WE to VWE (i.e. 7"+), and he won't have no problems (he'll probably even get away with his weird fetishes). These guys have no problems, they're just not the norm.

2. Asian (Racial) attitudes. We can racially rotate your subject heading and ask "Why Asians don't like Black guys?". I don't think Asian guys have a problem with Black women, but it's quite another thing letting a Black guy get his hands, or big dick inside their women. I don't admit to know the inner working behind this logic, whether it's racial, or a selfish thing (wanting to get something, without willing to give anything in return), or that their women are not into the swinging scene (in which case they shouldn't be swinging as a couple), or that they're simply YAFIP (Yet Another Fake Indian Profile - you know Indian guy makes an account, uploads some bollywood pics claiming it's his wife in the hope he can deceive a couple/woman into meeting with him alone). But one thing I can say is that negative actions are met with negative responses. Essentially Indians have bad karma in the sex scene.

The problem with this is that you may be one of the exceptions, but those who follow the rule have messed it up for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe the problem that Western women have with India, Pakistani and Asian guys is the way these guys treat their own women. If they treat their own women with such disdain how will they treat Western women. Let's be perfectly frank, swinging can be a dangerous game and what woman would want to take unnecessary chances.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Well I have had a lot of lovely asian guys. Seeing as I am unlikely to marry one I am happy just to play with them. Very fond memories of last Friday at Isis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From experience Indian and Asian guys have little dicks and small minds.

Sometimes the shortest comments hit home to the truth the best.

OP: Firstly, we can start with your name "anacondaa4u" (checks profile of brown guy with small to average sized penis perhaps considered 'large' for a desi). But hey you know, it's not the size, it's what you do with it, so the 'dick size' thing is only part of the conundrum. But the fact you call it an "anaconda", is only asking to be challenged. - But that's you personally, as for the wider Asian community.

Let's look at it from a few different angles:

1. Racial attitudes. Whether we profess to live in an open-minded multi-cultural society etc. Most people are still going to have a preference for their own, especially when pound for pound an Orange has a choice between meeting another juicy Orange, or another juicy Apple. Where we see people in this scene actively exploring outside their race, is when there are other juicy alternatives. To guys this means pretty much any race of sexy woman. While to women this means a guy that is a stud, hung, athletic, seductive, non-creepy, a gentleman, experienced etc. - Now this is where a lot of Asian guys don't fare so well (or rather don't fare well enough), while a lot of Black guys fare very well. - Simply put, find a 6ft tall athletic desi guy who is WE to VWE (i.e. 7"+), and he won't have no problems (he'll probably even get away with his weird fetishes). These guys have no problems, they're just not the norm.

2. Asian (Racial) attitudes. We can racially rotate your subject heading and ask "Why Asians don't like Black guys?". I don't think Asian guys have a problem with Black women, but it's quite another thing letting a Black guy get his hands, or big dick inside their women. I don't admit to know the inner working behind this logic, whether it's racial, or a selfish thing (wanting to get something, without willing to give anything in return), or that their women are not into the swinging scene (in which case they shouldn't be swinging as a couple), or that they're simply YAFIP (Yet Another Fake Indian Profile - you know Indian guy makes an account, uploads some bollywood pics claiming it's his wife in the hope he can deceive a couple/woman into meeting with him alone). But one thing I can say is that negative actions are met with negative responses. Essentially Indians have bad karma in the sex scene.

The problem with this is that you may be one of the exceptions, but those who follow the rule have messed it up for you."

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"From experience Indian and Asian guys have little dicks and small minds.

Sometimes the shortest comments hit home to the truth the best.

OP: Firstly, we can start with your name "anacondaa4u" (checks profile of brown guy with small to average sized penis perhaps considered 'large' for a desi). But hey you know, it's not the size, it's what you do with it, so the 'dick size' thing is only part of the conundrum. But the fact you call it an "anaconda", is only asking to be challenged. - But that's you personally, as for the wider Asian community.

Let's look at it from a few different angles:

1. Racial attitudes. Whether we profess to live in an open-minded multi-cultural society etc. Most people are still going to have a preference for their own, especially when pound for pound an Orange has a choice between meeting another juicy Orange, or another juicy Apple. Where we see people in this scene actively exploring outside their race, is when there are other juicy alternatives. To guys this means pretty much any race of sexy woman. While to women this means a guy that is a stud, hung, athletic, seductive, non-creepy, a gentleman, experienced etc. - Now this is where a lot of Asian guys don't fare so well (or rather don't fare well enough), while a lot of Black guys fare very well. - Simply put, find a 6ft tall athletic desi guy who is WE to VWE (i.e. 7"+), and he won't have no problems (he'll probably even get away with his weird fetishes). These guys have no problems, they're just not the norm.

2. Asian (Racial) attitudes. We can racially rotate your subject heading and ask "Why Asians don't like Black guys?". I don't think Asian guys have a problem with Black women, but it's quite another thing letting a Black guy get his hands, or big dick inside their women. I don't admit to know the inner working behind this logic, whether it's racial, or a selfish thing (wanting to get something, without willing to give anything in return), or that their women are not into the swinging scene (in which case they shouldn't be swinging as a couple), or that they're simply YAFIP (Yet Another Fake Indian Profile - you know Indian guy makes an account, uploads some bollywood pics claiming it's his wife in the hope he can deceive a couple/woman into meeting with him alone). But one thing I can say is that negative actions are met with negative responses. Essentially Indians have bad karma in the sex scene.

The problem with this is that you may be one of the exceptions, but those who follow the rule have messed it up for you."

Jay - probably the most honest and accurate summations of the 'situation' I have ever read. 10/10 mate

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By (user no longer on site)
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"From experience Indian and Asian guys have little dicks and small minds.

Sometimes the shortest comments hit home to the truth the best.

OP: Firstly, we can start with your name "anacondaa4u" (checks profile of brown guy with small to average sized penis perhaps considered 'large' for a desi). But hey you know, it's not the size, it's what you do with it, so the 'dick size' thing is only part of the conundrum. But the fact you call it an "anaconda", is only asking to be challenged. - But that's you personally, as for the wider Asian community.

Let's look at it from a few different angles:

1. Racial attitudes. Whether we profess to live in an open-minded multi-cultural society etc. Most people are still going to have a preference for their own, especially when pound for pound an Orange has a choice between meeting another juicy Orange, or another juicy Apple. Where we see people in this scene actively exploring outside their race, is when there are other juicy alternatives. To guys this means pretty much any race of sexy woman. While to women this means a guy that is a stud, hung, athletic, seductive, non-creepy, a gentleman, experienced etc. - Now this is where a lot of Asian guys don't fare so well (or rather don't fare well enough), while a lot of Black guys fare very well. - Simply put, find a 6ft tall athletic desi guy who is WE to VWE (i.e. 7"+), and he won't have no problems (he'll probably even get away with his weird fetishes). These guys have no problems, they're just not the norm.

2. Asian (Racial) attitudes. We can racially rotate your subject heading and ask "Why Asians don't like Black guys?". I don't think Asian guys have a problem with Black women, but it's quite another thing letting a Black guy get his hands, or big dick inside their women. I don't admit to know the inner working behind this logic, whether it's racial, or a selfish thing (wanting to get something, without willing to give anything in return), or that their women are not into the swinging scene (in which case they shouldn't be swinging as a couple), or that they're simply YAFIP (Yet Another Fake Indian Profile - you know Indian guy makes an account, uploads some bollywood pics claiming it's his wife in the hope he can deceive a couple/woman into meeting with him alone). But one thing I can say is that negative actions are met with negative responses. Essentially Indians have bad karma in the sex scene.

The problem with this is that you may be one of the exceptions, but those who follow the rule have messed it up for you.

Jay - probably the most honest and accurate summations of the 'situation' I have ever read. 10/10 mate

Pork"
read this thread with interested and a few giggles but then the forum often makes me giggle. i date and asian guy which is probably clear from pics and i am happy. get treated very well (he wouldn't dare otherwise )we also don't meet black guys but then maybe i break that tread of him not wanting his women touch(cue tarzan howl hehe) as for me its not just black guys its all guys as i am a raving lezza his term for it btw. i think unfortunely while guys (asian, black, white and maybe even purple ) come on and moan about why women choose not to meet or mail them there will always be a reason mainly its there choice who they meet and its upto each indiviudual guy, girl couple to make the best of what they have and actively seek what they want just my opnion xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
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"From experience Indian and Asian guys have little dicks and small minds.

Sometimes the shortest comments hit home to the truth the best.

OP: Firstly, we can start with your name "anacondaa4u" (checks profile of brown guy with small to average sized penis perhaps considered 'large' for a desi). But hey you know, it's not the size, it's what you do with it, so the 'dick size' thing is only part of the conundrum. But the fact you call it an "anaconda", is only asking to be challenged. - But that's you personally, as for the wider Asian community.

Let's look at it from a few different angles:

1. Racial attitudes. Whether we profess to live in an open-minded multi-cultural society etc. Most people are still going to have a preference for their own, especially when pound for pound an Orange has a choice between meeting another juicy Orange, or another juicy Apple. Where we see people in this scene actively exploring outside their race, is when there are other juicy alternatives. To guys this means pretty much any race of sexy woman. While to women this means a guy that is a stud, hung, athletic, seductive, non-creepy, a gentleman, experienced etc. - Now this is where a lot of Asian guys don't fare so well (or rather don't fare well enough), while a lot of Black guys fare very well. - Simply put, find a 6ft tall athletic desi guy who is WE to VWE (i.e. 7"+), and he won't have no problems (he'll probably even get away with his weird fetishes). These guys have no problems, they're just not the norm.

2. Asian (Racial) attitudes. We can racially rotate your subject heading and ask "Why Asians don't like Black guys?". I don't think Asian guys have a problem with Black women, but it's quite another thing letting a Black guy get his hands, or big dick inside their women. I don't admit to know the inner working behind this logic, whether it's racial, or a selfish thing (wanting to get something, without willing to give anything in return), or that their women are not into the swinging scene (in which case they shouldn't be swinging as a couple), or that they're simply YAFIP (Yet Another Fake Indian Profile - you know Indian guy makes an account, uploads some bollywood pics claiming it's his wife in the hope he can deceive a couple/woman into meeting with him alone). But one thing I can say is that negative actions are met with negative responses. Essentially Indians have bad karma in the sex scene.

The problem with this is that you may be one of the exceptions, but those who follow the rule have messed it up for you."

Are you talking from personal experience or just making it up as you go along?

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over a year ago

@NawtyOreo: Firstly congratulations on your relationship situation (or I guess more congratulations to your male half :D - considering the nature of this topic - desi guys trying to get with white women).

Anyway, the OP didn't ask about choice, but the reasons behind the choice. i.e. "Why did the man cross the road?", answer: "To have sex with his neighbor's wife", not: "Ah because he has choice".

ps: Interesting profile (if it wasn't for you explaining the reasons behind no couples or guys. one would incorrectly assume it were because the male half has insecurities i.e. sexuality, or seeing another guy being intimate with his woman - which is another gripe some have with Indian couples - that many are not really that ready for this scene, i.e. soft-swing, FFM situations only. - Now don't get me wrong. It's perfectly fine to be at whatever level of swinging one is comfortable at. But it's just a trend I notice. On the other hand there are some Indian couples that are total freaks! - and I mean that in a good sexy way!)

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over a year ago

i see were u r coming from but to be fair i will explain purely in the interests of research .x firstly we met on here and yes i was still a ravinf lezza and will not sure how we happened but we did he didn't actively seek to meet me as he kind of had his hands full already . but i can honestly say profile is my responsiblity and we go to lots of socials and meet girls that i like lucky he has same taste as me and we go to clubs and enjoy the scene although i do realise for lots we are not swingers. i am comfortable with that and i honestly can see were you are coming from but i can also see that maybe you are talking as a few have about more traditional asian men were as not sure oreo counts as that. a crazy brown dude defintely xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girls smile at me all the time brown white black blue orange lol

Ive never had a problem

Guess im just lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But most asian guys have no idea how to treat women

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By *arry_UkMan
over a year ago

birmingham/

Nice that in 2012, people still generalise so much....

There are good and bad in each race, colour and creed.

I like to judge everyone on there own merits not skin colour.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"But most asian guys have no idea how to treat women "

There's a lot of peope who say that about black men.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"But most asian guys have no idea how to treat women "

You've met most Asian guys? Blimey you've been busy! I was married to an Asian guy and I agree that there were cultural differences, our attitudes to many things varied widely and it did cause our relationship to break down. However his attitude to women was no worse than some western men I have come across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man who knows how to treat a woman properly belongs to a race all of their own, regardless of colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But most asian guys have no idea how to treat women

You've met most Asian guys? Blimey you've been busy! I was married to an Asian guy and I agree that there were cultural differences, our attitudes to many things varied widely and it did cause our relationship to break down. However his attitude to women was no worse than some western men I have come across."

i have to agree with you i was married to asian guy for 18 years ended for the same thing .but never meet any bad asian guys all ive meet over the year never looked down at me .

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over a year ago


"But most asian guys have no idea how to treat women

There's a lot of peope who say that about black men. "
and white men too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But most asian guys have no idea how to treat women

There's a lot of peope who say that about black men. "

What what I have you know they ( women) can leave the kitchen anytime they want as long as it to go to the bedroom

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard their menstrual cycle attracts bears!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello ladies...I am an Indian guy (Western Indian) living in the UK...I get a feeling that most girls here do not like Indian guys. For example, I was in the gym the other day for a group fitness class and we needed a partner to exercise with, so I was randomly paired up with one British girl...she did not even smile back at me and it seemed she didn't want to even look at me(just to clarify I am not ugly or smelly person). That's just one example, but in daily life too, me and my Indian friends have experienced that most British girls put on a very contemptuous and unfriendly expression when an Indian guy happens to make a casual eye contact (not leering) with them.

What is it about most Indian guys that girls hate? looks? accent? behaviour? cleanliness? manners? height? colour? culture? I would really like to know what repels most girls from Indian guys and maybe try to improve if its possible.

Thanks.

"

Can i just say that where i live theres a big asian community just down the road from me, if you walk thro there and your not asian your made to feel as welcome as a fart in a jacizzi, the woman in the shop wont even serve you, i went in a while back and she just looked straight thro me like i wasnt even there, i asked for what i wanted and she totally ignored me, when someone else came in the shop who was asian she served them and acted like i wasnt even there

What your saying happens in all walks of life its not only white to asian people, you will get ignorant and nice people in any nationality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are two kinds of people I can't stand in this world. People who are intolerant of other people's cultures, and the Dutch."

Haha. Funnily enough I love the Dutch because the of their tolerance of different cultures and race. Never been happier since moving to the Netherlands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let it bother you. There are many people who are lovely.

I think the main problem is people cannot tell the difference between culture and race.

Racially I am latino. But if you flew me over to my grandparents country I wouldn't survive. Culturally, I am British.I love my tea, chips and Sunday roast. I even love how we queue. Try to form a queue in South America.

I hate being judged from generalisations. This applies to all cultures and races. Including the British.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is all odd really because in London i havnt encountered problems ive met ppl from all nationalities and races. And have been with women from different races and nationalities great thing about London. Anyone complaining just need to try harder not every girl will like u

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over a year ago


"Hello ladies...I am an Indian guy (Western Indian) living in the UK...I get a feeling that most girls here do not like Indian guys. For example, I was in the gym the other day for a group fitness class and we needed a partner to exercise with, so I was randomly paired up with one British girl...she did not even smile back at me and it seemed she didn't want to even look at me(just to clarify I am not ugly or smelly person). That's just one example, but in daily life too, me and my Indian friends have experienced that most British girls put on a very contemptuous and unfriendly expression when an Indian guy happens to make a casual eye contact (not leering) with them.

What is it about most Indian guys that girls hate? looks? accent? behaviour? cleanliness? manners? height? colour? culture? I would really like to know what repels most girls from Indian guys and maybe try to improve if its possible.

Thanks.

"

Have you noticed these same women behave differently to people of other ethnicities? If not, how can you be so sure it has anything to do with the fact you are asian? The girl in the gym may have just been unhappy at being paired up with a male, and so may have been out of comfort zone which could have come across as rude unintentionally (or might have had her eye on someone she would have liked to have been paired up with).

In your daily life when women don't respond with a smile to eye contact..again it could be a comfort thing. If a woman is on her own somewhere some will put 'guards' up to prevent being approached when they may not want to be...by men and women of all ages and races. If I'm in Asda I'm shopping, not worrying about smiling at everyone I pass in the aisles. That may come across as rude, but the fact is I hate shopping so am just there to get it done and get home, not make friends!

An assumption that all British women hate all Indian men isn't going to help you as you'll be expecting the cold shoulder before you get it...and in a way it is very prejudiced too. I haven't met many Asian guys, but I haven't assumed it's because Asian men don't like fat birds...I've just enjoyed having fun with the men that do like bigger women, regardless of race

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By *ayseanMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I agree with earlier posts on this subject,i dont think being an asian guy is a problem for the majority,its all about showing people you are genuine,and good company to be around,you could be from mars+have purple skin,if your attractive to people,you just are,what's the saying about beauty coming from within? Just forget your ethnicity and have some fun! At the end of the day people are people,as a famous singer once said,it doesn't matter if your black or white,schmoe!! Or yellow or whatever other colour for that matter,peace+love to allxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish we could find some Indian girls!

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I manage 160 drivers. Black, Asian and White (male and female) and i can honestly say that they are all as much of a pain in the arse as the next person.

Dave

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If i like someone i like them if i dont i dont, doesnt matter where they come from or what colour they are. There either nice or not

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If i like someone i like them if i dont i dont, doesnt matter where they come from or what colour they are. There either nice or not

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, that's ridiculous. how would u know if some was a Muslim? they dont have to wear yellow armbands yet.

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"But most asian guys have no idea how to treat women "

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Is this an example of a strange form of arrogance or self loathing??

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I manage 160 drivers. Black, Asian and White (male and female) and i can honestly say that they are all as much of a pain in the arse as the next person.

Dave"

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Hello ladies...I am an Indian guy (Western Indian) living in the UK...I get a feeling that most girls here do not like Indian guys. For example, I was in the gym the other day for a group fitness class and we needed a partner to exercise with, so I was randomly paired up with one British girl...she did not even smile back at me and it seemed she didn't want to even look at me(just to clarify I am not ugly or smelly person). That's just one example, but in daily life too, me and my Indian friends have experienced that most British girls put on a very contemptuous and unfriendly expression when an Indian guy happens to make a casual eye contact (not leering) with them.

What is it about most Indian guys that girls hate? looks? accent? behaviour? cleanliness? manners? height? colour? culture? I would really like to know what repels most girls from Indian guys and maybe try to improve if its possible.

Thanks.

Can i just say that where i live theres a big asian community just down the road from me, if you walk thro there and your not asian your made to feel as welcome as a fart in a jacizzi, the woman in the shop wont even serve you, i went in a while back and she just looked straight thro me like i wasnt even there, i asked for what i wanted and she totally ignored me, when someone else came in the shop who was asian she served them and acted like i wasnt even there

What your saying happens in all walks of life its not only white to asian people, you will get ignorant and nice people in any nationality"

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You should be a black guy popping into the local pub in Chalfont St Giles!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol, that's ridiculous. how would u know if some was a Muslim? they dont have to wear yellow armbands yet.

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What a question from somebody who is clearly of Indian or Pakistani extraction ! But maybe you haven't actually spent much time travelling in India or Pakistan. I have, and just as I could look at a native of one of those countries (or just hear his name) and tell you with a good degree of accuracy whether he is for example from Bihar, or Tamil Nadu, or Gujerat, so I could also tell you whether he is a Moslem or a Hindu. (or for that matter a Parsee or a Jain, or of course a Sikh).

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over a year ago


"The darker skinned Asians are Bengali from the hotter south of India. Sikhs will always wear 1 steel bangle on their wrist & many with turbans and a full beard. They like Hindus, drink, Go to pubs, hardly any dietary restrictions, and socially get on with anybody and everybody."

Bengal is not in the south of India it is in the north east, and Bengalis are not especially dark. The people of Kerala and Tamil Nadu, which states are in the south are generally darker than northern Indians.

Sikhs are not supposed to drink,

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

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"lol, that's ridiculous. how would u know if some was a Muslim? they dont have to wear yellow armbands yet.

What a question from somebody who is clearly of Indian or Pakistani extraction ! But maybe you haven't actually spent much time travelling in India or Pakistan. I have, and just as I could look at a native of one of those countries (or just hear his name) and tell you with a good degree of accuracy whether he is for example from Bihar, or Tamil Nadu, or Gujerat, so I could also tell you whether he is a Moslem or a Hindu. (or for that matter a Parsee or a Jain, or of course a Sikh).

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How about Muslims in this country, who can be all the colours of the rainbow?!

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By *acandJulesCouple
over a year ago

Stockton on Tees


"try being ginger!"

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By *acandJulesCouple
over a year ago

Stockton on Tees

We cannot get to meet any Indian or Asian women!!!

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"Why British/European girls don't like Indian boys?"

"Why Indian girls don't like British/ European people"

Both questions above puzzle me & John who are not racist, we were told by Indian friends that Indian girls are not allowed to play with white people.

We were also told some Indian guys think of British women as easy unlike their women who are not allowed to do this.

Stigma's are on both sides & its about time attitudes change.

Kim & John x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I reckon , in Britain be British, less your on hols,

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


""Why British/European girls don't like Indian boys?"

"Why Indian girls don't like British/ European people"

Both questions above puzzle me & John who are not racist, we were told by Indian friends that Indian girls are not allowed to play with white people.

It has never stopped me playing with white guys.

We were also told some Indian guys think of British women as easy unlike their women who are not allowed to do this.

Stigma's are on both sides & its about time attitudes change.

Kim & John x"

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Some people are just ignorant. Don't let it get to you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv had an arab guy offer hubby a good few camels..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs isnt attracted to asia men full stop or Black men, though Mr is attracted to asian and black females

it hasnt anything to do with colour in a racist way she doesnt fancy dark skinned guys,

We have met smelly and ignorant men of all colour, but have found alot of the enthnic men to be abit rude in clubs believe we was their for their pleasure only and have even heard them talk about white slags and white trash. We know its not all asian men/black men, but you have to be honest their is that mentality about females in their cultures which enhances this reputation.

We have found and spoken and become friends with with some brilliant Asian/Black men just dont find them attractive.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

R had a great time in Chams with a Sikh guy once, and we had a 4some with an Indian couple there. The problem is there are some Indian sub-continent men (don't want to name names but you can work it out) who have a very sexist attitude towards women. One of these guys at work upset the women there by saying white women were easy and he used them for sex but wouldn't expect women of his own culture to act like those slags. That sort of thing really puts us off these types.

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By *ndianguy9Man
over a year ago

newport

Think it's just what people prefer and their experiances ....I have an Indian female (friend) who goes to sex clubs with me and who only prefers white older guys.. even I have not played with her. But just don't take things personally... live life to the full and have fun with people who enjoy ones company xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another pile o pish racistish forum .

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over a year ago


"Hello ladies...I am an Indian guy (Western Indian) living in the UK...I get a feeling that most girls here do not like Indian guys. For example, I was in the gym the other day for a group fitness class and we needed a partner to exercise with, so I was randomly paired up with one British girl...she did not even smile back at me and it seemed she didn't want to even look at me(just to clarify I am not ugly or smelly person). That's just one example, but in daily life too, me and my Indian friends have experienced that most British girls put on a very contemptuous and unfriendly expression when an Indian guy happens to make a casual eye contact (not leering) with them.

What is it about most Indian guys that girls hate? looks? accent? behaviour? cleanliness? manners? height? colour? culture? I would really like to know what repels most girls from Indian guys and maybe try to improve if its possible.

Thanks.

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thats because indian men dont have respect for women thats why we dont meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But most asian guys have no idea how to treat women

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Is this an example of a strange form of arrogance or self loathing??"
yep you are right there baby i just said that i met up with one a long time ago wasnt very nice to me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I am just not attracted to you simple as that. And yes she was rude but to be honest, you should try living in Gloucester, don't think the majority of Asians know what manners are "
dont make us laugh

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over a year ago

Ive typed and deleted about 6 posts that I wanted to put on this thread after ive read some of the responses

I give up now and will just put this on instead..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive typed and deleted about 6 posts that I wanted to put on this thread after ive read some of the responses

I give up now and will just put this on instead.......... "

I'd echo that. I'm trying to stay away from this thread to avoid getting dragged in (and inevitably getting an enforced forum holiday) but this thread is wrong on so many levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met quite a few asian men, one is a regular meet of mine. However, I have found, many have an arrogance about them, which makes me less likely to meet. Whether, its a description of themselves, that even their own mother would disagree, or messages such as 'send me a pic, if I think you look good enough, I'll let you suck my cock'. I treat each new contact as an individual, but it is a prevalent theme I have personally come across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello ladies...I am an Indian guy (Western Indian) living in the UK...I get a feeling that most girls here do not like Indian guys. For example, I was in the gym the other day for a group fitness class and we needed a partner to exercise with, so I was randomly paired up with one British girl...she did not even smile back at me and it seemed she didn't want to even look at me(just to clarify I am not ugly or smelly person). That's just one example, but in daily life too, me and my Indian friends have experienced that most British girls put on a very contemptuous and unfriendly expression when an Indian guy happens to make a casual eye contact (not leering) with them.

What is it about most Indian guys that girls hate? looks? accent? behaviour? cleanliness? manners? height? colour? culture? I would really like to know what repels most girls from Indian guys and maybe try to improve if its possible.

Thanks.

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

Just personal preference

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Ive typed and deleted about 6 posts that I wanted to put on this thread after ive read some of the responses

I give up now and will just put this on instead.......... "

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Reading this again to get my head around some of the responses which clearly have racist tones im going to close it before it dengenerates any further

Any problems with this decision then feel free to use the contact button for admin or report my post

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