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By *ngie1962 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

Hi simple question ... Would you let your female partner go to a Swingers Club alone. Yes or No (And why not)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes Sammi has been to a club on her own on 2 occassions!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think a healthy discussion between you both a decision made as to the why's and why nots.

I don't see 'letting', if either of you want to do something, you should discuss, agree/disagree and respect decision.

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By *ngie1962 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

Maybe "Let" is the wrong word "agree" might be better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi simple question ... Would you let your female partner go to a Swingers Club alone. Yes or No (And why not)"

Simple answer - yes.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Maybe "Let" is the wrong word "agree" might be better "

both have a blast x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you play seperatly, then yes. If no, then no, couse you not looking to go to swingerclub just to drink a coffe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have the confidence to go on my own.

I like my husband there just in case..

If i was to go with another couple or lady then it would be different

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By *ondering_yorkshiremanMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border

If UR worried bout the club visit it together so u know the layout and staff, and explain to the staff and UR partner of UR concerns etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't go alone.The fun is being with each other at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you play seperatly, then yes. If no, then no, couse you not looking to go to swingerclub just to drink a coffe."

Some of us do not go to clubs to play.. but to catch up with swinging friends..and maybe make new ones..

And to answer the OP... I know lots of ladies that go alone or with friends.. As to the rules for you being there.. ie playing or just having a good social time.. that is what you would have to work out.

Master sometimes lets me play.. sometimes tells me no... Either way I have a good time.. and even when I have permission to play I dont always.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole point of swinging for us is that we do it together. We take great pleasure from watching each other and playing together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes .. The ex would regularly attend clubs and party's alone if the mood took her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love it if she went with a lady friend and then told me all about it hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as on numerous occasions I have had to step in and in some cases have to get very aggressive with single men behaving inappropriately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The whole point of swinging for us is that we do it together. We take great pleasure from watching each other and playing together.

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Exactly the same for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes Sammi has been to a club on her own on 2 occassions!"

Whats good for the goose is good for the gander!

The secret to a successful relationship is the trust that emotional connections will not be formed, thus to swing together or alone, but to be back in the arms of your loved one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no really i rather play with the wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes Sammi has been to a club on her own on 2 occassions!

Whats good for the goose is good for the gander!

The secret to a successful relationship is the trust that emotional connections will not be formed, thus to swing together or alone, but to be back in the arms of your loved one."
Me Billy never been on my own and no desire to do so! Sammi and 1 have 100% trust and was a great turn on to hear what she did alone

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

We're still newish to swinging... However in a short time things have changed and moved on fast than we expected. So this Friday Frisky is going to a party without me but with a couple. Also a couple of single males whome we know are also going to keep an eye on her. Yes I wish I was going but it was a late notice thing and I'm working.

So I'll just make the most of it knowing she's having fun and will share all the juicy details with me later.

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By *ottscouple1Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

I dont like clubs so let my wife go with a good friend to look after her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i let my wife go with someone she met on her single profile, and he a nice fella, met him

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By *issMidsWoman
over a year ago

North Notts

When one of us isn't available we let the other head to a club. We have some excellent ones that we go to where we trust the regulars and the staff are amazing (we love you all!), so all is good

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By *exysCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

yes, s goes to a club regularly with her boyfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The whole point of swinging for us is that we do it together. We take great pleasure from watching each other and playing together.

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same here

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Kate hasn't but I'd be happy for her too if she wanted. I'm sure she knows that but it would be her that wouldn't want to go without me.

D

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