FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi there. Can anyone tell me if my profile make you send a message or just run away ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very generic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi there. Can anyone tell me if my profile make you send a message or just run away ?"

Cannot accomodate with no genuine explanation will mean many assume your here to try and cheat. If you are then been upfront about that is the best policy.

Your profile is basically 1 sentence.

The rest is the bad joke Sydney / Facebook disclaimer that's means sweat fa. Some people will block you just for that because it proves you have not read the sites FAQs / terms which if you had will let you know its a kinda Chinese whispers joke gone wrong from years ago that just wastes unnecessary web space / bandwidth ...

Pictures are ok, decent cock picture erect but just the 1 which is good. Maybe some more pictures would be a plus.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

No I wouldn’t send you a message. There is nothing on it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has it been updated since you posted op? As it looks fine to me nothing that stands out but nothing bad either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah i update it.. what would stand out for you ?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Yeah i update it.. what would stand out for you ?"

It’s better. Why couldn’t you of done that in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I haven't spent that much time online and I didn't thought it matters so much

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"I haven't spent that much time online and I didn't thought it matters so much"

Well I hope you have been enlightened

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP.

How refreshing it is to see someone take notice of the advice they have sought.

Hopefully your effort will now reap some rewards. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oandliCouple
over a year ago

greater london

As a women when I’m looking through it’s not all about the naked body and stuff cock ! I love to see a man dressed nicely love a suit photo that catches my eye quicker than stuff cock ! Not saying the rest arnt nice. It profile pictures for me need variety to catch my eye x x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Two of your photos look identical

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Two of your photos look identical"

If that's why you ignore a guy them i might say you are some kind of superficial

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Two of your photos look identical

If that's why you ignore a guy them i might say you are some kind of superficial"

You are the one posting for advice

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Two of your photos look identical

If that's why you ignore a guy them i might say you are some kind of superficial"

Is an insult called for, because someone gave you a neutral statement as feedback?

2 of your pics are almost the same. I'd choose the best 1 and add others, showing alternative perspectives or parts of you. 1 cock pic is typically the max that most want, so you're fine there.

I think there's 1 typo in your profile text, which you may spot, if you re-read it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In what world that's a insult?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"In what world that's a insult?"

You think calling me superficial is a compliment ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's not an insult neither..

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Asking for feedback/advice and then getting argumentative is going to be as off-putting as anything that might have been wrong with your profile.

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By *itboy911Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Alright folks, had a read here and some points noted. Any advice on improving my profile / bio to be more appealing and less fake looking.. I know maybe to add a decently dressed photo

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"Alright folks, had a read here and some points noted. Any advice on improving my profile / bio to be more appealing and less fake looking.. I know maybe to add a decently dressed photo"

You should start your own thread or better still read the dozens of profile advice threads already here.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"Two of your photos look identical

If that's why you ignore a guy them i might say you are some kind of superficial"

And you were doing so well.......

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two of your photos look identical

If that's why you ignore a guy them i might say you are some kind of superficial

And you were doing so well.......

Winston"

To be fair he has got a point. Bypassing someone just because two of their pics are the same is a little pedantic. Although that's probably because all of mine are samey so I'd feel too hypocritical

OP the issue is not that two of your pics are the same, it's that it's two out of three pics. If you had like 10 other different pics up it probably wouldn't be such a huge deal.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Put some clothes on, sportswear, beach wear, suit (I did that and only got 1 fab), fancy dress and even work wear if it's suitable.

Women love clothes, ever seen one with an anorexic wardrobe? Nah me neither.

They also like to read between the lines and decode your personality from what you wear and how you wear it. It's proper profiling.

Eyes and smiles help.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Agh agh

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By *andy and DannyCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple

I sense another desperate guy looking for a reason to get viewings for his profile . Single boring self centered males are killing this site with constant whinging about the lack of interest in them , if you guys had anything to give you wouldn't be single .look in the mirror and stop being so limp ,go to whetherspoons and talk to people ,please for your own sakes . Not necessarily directed at op but to allthe self pittying single guys that ask for advice then go stoppy when advice is given . Sandy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok this thread got heated quick.. 1st of all I'm entitled to my own opinion, I'm sure lot of women didn't had the best experience with a guy even though the profile ticked all the boxes.

2nd of all don't just assume that i don't get any action outside of this site.

Thanks for all the advice

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