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Do young girls play with older guys?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I ask as I'm 47 but often wonder Is there any point in messaging ladles in their 20s or 30s. It's rare that I get replies anyway, but never had anyone younger than 40 message me.

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By *TJxComboMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"I ask as I'm 47 but often wonder Is there any point in messaging ladles in their 20s or 30s. It's rare that I get replies anyway, but never had anyone younger than 40 message me."

Maybe they don't find you attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Referring to them as young girls is unlikely to win many female fans buddy.

KJ

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Ive seen profiles of younger ladies looking for men much older. (I'm too young at 49)

They're out there, but a small proportion of the already small (compared to male) number of women on the site.

And maybe in suspicious, but a lot of such profiles seem to be motivated by "$eeking $ugardaddy" etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ask as I'm 47 but often wonder Is there any point in messaging ladles in their 20s or 30s. It's rare that I get replies anyway, but never had anyone younger than 40 message me."

I met my fb on here and she is in her mid twenties, We exchanged messages for months before we met and now we meet once every 2-3 wks

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I wouldn't call someone in their early 30s a young girl!

Maybe alter your profile age preference as currently you are happy to meet people including those in their 90s.

If you are messaging people in your location in their 20s and 30s, does their profile state that they are looking for people in their 40s ? You need to meet their criteria. But saying you are looking for 'young girls" sounds really creepy to me.

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By *tticus Finch 76Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes they do but there's a wide variety of lovely ladies out there regardless of age

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I wouldn't call someone in their early 30s a young girl!

Maybe alter your profile age preference as currently you are happy to meet people including those in their 90s.

If you are messaging people in your location in their 20s and 30s, does their profile state that they are looking for people in their 40s ? You need to meet their criteria. But saying you are looking for 'young girls" sounds really creepy to me.

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow

yes and they marry them...

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I wouldn't call someone in their early 30s a young girl!

Maybe alter your profile age preference as currently you are happy to meet people including those in their 90s.

If you are messaging people in your location in their 20s and 30s, does their profile state that they are looking for people in their 40s ? You need to meet their criteria. But saying you are looking for 'young girls" sounds really creepy to me.

"

So when a bunch of women have a "girls night out"

Are you saying that it should be " women's night out" ?

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

Younger women often seem to find more mature couples an attractive proposition, as we're finding out.......or maybe it's the home in the sunshine that's the attraction?!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

And the irony.

The very next thread on this section is by. 27 year old woman refering to herself as a girl.

Personally I think people are took quick to get argumentative and defensive.

Everyone knows what the op means he obviously didn't mean " young girls"

People know that but feel the need to be judgemental.

I understand it's a sensitive subject but as there are no minors on this site I think people should chill a bit.

Obviously if a post is clearly wrong that's something that needs addressing but that's something for the mods and possibly authorities to deal with.

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge


"I ask as I'm 47 but often wonder Is there any point in messaging ladles in their 20s or 30s. It's rare that I get replies anyway, but never had anyone younger than 40 message me."

My dad always told me "any port in a storm"..

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I wouldn't call someone in their early 30s a young girl!

Maybe alter your profile age preference as currently you are happy to meet people including those in their 90s.

If you are messaging people in your location in their 20s and 30s, does their profile state that they are looking for people in their 40s ? You need to meet their criteria. But saying you are looking for 'young girls" sounds really creepy to me.

So when a bunch of women have a "girls night out"

Are you saying that it should be " women's night out" ?

"

It was the "young girls" wording that I reacted to. I have no objection to older guys hooking up with people younger than themselves.. but searching for "young girls" sounds predatory to me.

I am chilled and was trying to give the OP some food for thought about the wording and how it might come across.

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