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"do people really receive 100s and 100s of messages? always frustrates me when my messages unread and i make effort to read mine. but I hear sometimes that's they receive so many that they just delete. defeats the object of being on here doesn't it lol." Yes really. | |||
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"I don't get loads but if it's clear they haven't read profile I'll delete" agree this is thee main problem ![]() | |||
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"do people really receive 100s and 100s of messages? always frustrates me when my messages unread and i make effort to read mine. but I hear sometimes that's they receive so many that they just delete. defeats the object of being on here doesn't it lol." I'm currently stuck on 433 unread as soon as I'm online it goes up quicker than I can read and reply Sorry to anyone who's messaged and it's still unread ![]() | |||
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"I have a very manageable inbox " Maybe just me but that sounds naughty ![]() | |||
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"What's the best way to get replies folks?" Read profiles and send a decent message but only to people whose profile is a match. Still no guarantee though. | |||
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"What's the best way to get replies folks? Read profiles and send a decent message but only to people whose profile is a match. Still no guarantee though." Thanks, your not wrong there | |||
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"Yep, I get hundred of messages. I have hundreds unread." Not surprised you get hundreds tbh. Stunning | |||
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"I’ve deleted my whole inbox today. New year, new start. It feels great! I was never going to get to the bottom of it! " And so many NY hopes & dreams disappearing into the matrix of lost souls... ![]() | |||
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"I’ve deleted my whole inbox today. New year, new start. It feels great! I was never going to get to the bottom of it! And so many NY hopes & dreams disappearing into the matrix of lost souls... ![]() Hahaha ![]() | |||
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"do people really receive 100s and 100s of messages? always frustrates me when my messages unread and i make effort to read mine. but I hear sometimes that's they receive so many that they just delete. defeats the object of being on here doesn't it lol." You actually get replies? I'd say you're ahead of the curve if so! ![]() | |||
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"Yes some do and receive same amount cock pictures and silly messages like wuupt " Or "SC dickhead" ![]() | |||
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"I dont send many messages myself as normally after reading the profile (yep the profile guys) i find most the time i dont fit the bill so dont send a message. Is it that there are alot of horny chancers out there However i never get any messages but thats the nature of the beast i suppose ![]() 100% correct in every respect! ![]() | |||
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"What's the best way to get replies folks?" Try looking like Chris Hemsworth, sending beautifully-crafted messages that suggest you’re some sort of Cassanova/Shakespeare hybrid, be within a few miles of the person you’re messaging, have a full and open profile and try not to open with a cock picture unless it’s openly specified that you should do exactly that. Some of these things are simpler to achieve than others. | |||
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"What's the best way to get replies folks? Try looking like Chris Hemsworth, sending beautifully-crafted messages that suggest you’re some sort of Cassanova/Shakespeare hybrid, be within a few miles of the person you’re messaging, have a full and open profile and try not to open with a cock picture unless it’s openly specified that you should do exactly that. Some of these things are simpler to achieve than others." This guy gets it! Also I’d add to actual read their profile first. Quite often you’ll find that they have mentioned quite specifically what they are looking for, if you are not it, why waste everyone’s time messaging? If you only have cock photos, you are not likely to get a reply. Infact we don’t reply unless we can see your face and body too (I get not everyone wants to post those on their profiles but at least include them in your opening message). Talking of opening messages, make it clear that you have read their profile and think that you can offer what they are looking for (only if you actually have read their profile and genuinely can offer what they are looking for) and then talk about what you are looking for. | |||
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"do people really receive 100s and 100s of messages? always frustrates me when my messages unread and i make effort to read mine. but I hear sometimes that's they receive so many that they just delete. defeats the object of being on here doesn't it lol." I leave unread if I want the Mr to read it too, that could be days, weeks depending on life situations. | |||
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"What's the best way to get replies folks?" Timing also helps, if people are actually online at the time you send messages it can help, although obviously the message still needs to be half decent. Otherwise you just need to be somewhat psychic. What some people consider a polite opener will be deathly dull to someone ela. Some people like compliments in an opener, others do not. And having a visible face pic or at very least attaching one will help in a lot of cases but it stings a bit when you do and you get an instant delete or block. All part of the fun, though ![]() | |||
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"I also think it depends on your location... population in Scotland is less so i dont get many messages... or i am a scary munter" Yep scary, so scary wouldn't want to play xx | |||
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"I have tight filters so no I don’t have hundreds of emails . Women always complain about the quality or amount of emails they receive when that can easily be fixed by using filters but then again they wouldn’t be able to brag about getting hundred of emails a day if they did . Before I get jumped all over for my comments this statement does not apply to all women ![]() ![]() I have very tight filters but I do allow messages from guys because I like the forum chats and games. And I post photos/videos. But I enjoy both so much that I accept that the downside is the extra messages. | |||
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