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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a Genuine single male on Fab it can be hard to make friendships and connections with other Fabbers. I am looking to make 2022 a year which I connect and move forward within the lifestyle and would welcome any message if people would be kind enough to help me with this.

However on discussion point would be nice to hear from people what they like / dislike from Single Maie profiles

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

You're going to struggle with your current profile. Most women and couples don't need to proactively search out and message single men and they're certainly not going to do so to request pictures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for comments, I do certainly need to add images. I know alot of people say it but i'm someone who is not keen on public images.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Thank you for comments, I do certainly need to add images. I know alot of people say it but i'm someone who is not keen on public images."

Which will be a hurdle you may find becomes a blocker.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Lack of pictures will put most off. Your bio is lacking. Lots of talk of being discreet etc points towards being attached?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need pictures OP. You don't have to put face pictures on or even have ones with your cock out but us ladies need to see who we are talking to before we send a message in general xxxx

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"However on discussion point would be nice to hear from people what they like / dislike from Single Maie profiles"

In general people do not tend to make arrangements to meet with silhouettes. Yes, you can say you'll send pics with your first message etc, but in truth if there is no profile pic at all then most people won't even entertain the idea of messaging.

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

....is no one going say what they really think and give that advice. If anything you be saying something different as opposed to giving the same advice, which is good advice, said over a 1000 times on here so much so no single guy should need to so a post.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

The word genuine is so over used on fab. What even is genuine. Meet verified would be a start, proves who you are and that you actually meet. Also pictures, how can you expect others to want to connect with you, if they have no clue what you look like. Pictures are key, they don’t have to be face pictures or identifiable, like torso etc.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

It's not been mentioned above but some might consider your user name to be juvenile OP?

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Thank you for comments, I do certainly need to add images. I know alot of people say it but i'm someone who is not keen on public images."

It's incredibly tough for single guys on here but having no pictures will pretty much make it impossible. The fact that there's a filter to block pictures-less profiles says it all.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'll be blunt

It's boring

No pics

Username is offputting

You're new and have no veris (not always the be all and end all)

Do your research, make some effort

Effort in = results out

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

Look at the events posts for your local area. They often result in connections and verifications.

On an unrelated note I tend to agree re:the username though

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

The username isn't particularly masculine.

You need photos

You need to spell check your last sentence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for everyone who has taken the time to reply. I am going to work on getting some pictures uploaded along with profile text being a bt more exciting and detailed. I think you are spot on when it was mentioned more effort required.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Sadly without an images I'd be shocked if you have any success on this site

Or every single women/couple there are 100 + single guys, your profile is your shop window, you need to make yourself stand out, sell yourself, what can you offer that others can't

At the moment yours tells me nothing and feels like you'd be hard work, message me for photos, Guide me into the lifestyle, do you see what I mean?

No matter how good an opening message people will often check out a profile before replying & unfortunately there's just nothing on yours that grabs me (before now it's been something as simple as a guy in a hotdog costume that made me laugh - no face in picture)

Have you tried clubs or socials, if you don't want to share photos they may be your best option

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