FabSwingers.com forum: How does my profile look?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey everyone how does my profile look not getting any women asking about me on here don't know what's wrong with it or me?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

It tells me everything I need to know.

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By *aughtiness69Couple
over a year ago

Kinmel bay

From OUR perspective, never gone looking for single guys they have come to us, (as in messaging). Maybe you should put yourself out there more. Don't pester though, nothing puts us off, faster than a message of same guy every two mins because you didn't reply.

Read couples profiles. Get to know a bit about them, not just "wanna fuck"

If you are going to copy and paste a message make it seem personal, you can do it so it doesn't quite look like a generic copy and paste.

Also add more meat to your bio. For us it helps knowing the person we are going to meet is attempting to out effort in not just "looking for women or couples"

Again this is just us other couples might be completely different.

Best of luck Hun.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Your profile is lacking. Search the forum for all the advice given out on a daily basis on threads such as these. In my opinion your 2nd picture would be better as your profile pic.

Good luck, the effort you put in is the reward level you will get back.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If you don't already know know what's wrong with it then you are going to find it extremely tough on here.

Above advice about searching older posts on profile advice may help.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"If you don't already know know what's wrong with it then you are going to find it extremely tough on here.

Above advice about searching older posts on profile advice may help."

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By *cooby5555Man
over a year ago

galway

Maybe at least one cock pic mate also Maybe ass pic

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"Hey everyone how does my profile look not getting any women asking about me on here don't know what's wrong with it or me?"

It's not good Sam, not good at all in fact.

Do you think it is good??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey everyone how does my profile look not getting any women asking about me on here don't know what's wrong with it or me?"

Your choice of profile name is already stacking the odds against you.

As for a review of your profile, there's precious little to review.

Plenty of profile review threads for you to read through. The advice is out there if you can be bothered.

Winston

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"It tells me everything I need to know. "

I've seen that reply before and, once again, it made me chuckle!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Photos are a bit samey. A good physique shot would show your eares well. And a relaxed smiling pic would be very good.

With the text, think of it more as what you can give, rather than what others can give you.

Good luck!

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

"Hey everyone how does my profile look not getting any women asking about me on here don't know what's wrong with it or me?"

2 questions if ok, otherwise my advice will be useless to you.

When did you join fab?

Revised or tweaked profile at all since joining?

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

Get yourself photo verified too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is that a good thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do I do that?

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

Got to be honest, your experiences on here are going to get any better other than now you have found the forum it gives you something that you don't get from your profile....

responses and interaction. Recommended or just stumbled across fab.com my advice is delete profile, and deleting a profile is a real ballache . If not already fire up tinder,happn, gdff.com theres millions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep gotta agree just have a bit more about you on your profile bio gives us something to ask or chat about, also it will show each party has taken a bit of time to look.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Yet another guy who asks for advice and does nothing with it. Don't know why we bother commenting tbf

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

ABORT ABORT

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Hey everyone how does my profile look not getting any women asking about me on here don't know what's wrong with it or me?"

You're not going to get women asking about you. They don't need to as they have, literally, hundred of offers each day so they don't go searching. Same with couples, generally.

Your profile is pretty rubbish to be fair (nothing that we've not seen thousands of times) but you need to have realistic expectations and send good messages to the right people. Read their profile, only message if you are what they are looking for, tailor your message to them and ask open questions that can start a conversation (not "how's you?", "what you up to?", etc) and rekber that there are a lot more guys than women on here and most don't need that many new guys each month.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello everyone

. Can I get a profile review as well please?

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Hello everyone

. Can I get a profile review as well please? "

No. It's impolite to jump on someone else's thread asking for advice.

(Bry)

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

OP: your PM to us shows exactly why you're not getting any replies.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP: your PM to us shows exactly why you're not getting any replies.

(Bry)"

Oh dear.

Winston

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"Hello everyone

. Can I get a profile review as well please? "

We think it is average, but you have had a few meets so it must work.

Are you trying to get a bit more attention??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello everyone

. Can I get a profile review as well please?

We think it is average, but you have had a few meets so it must work.

Are you trying to get a bit more attention??"

Thank you

. No, not really. I'd just like to hear what other people think of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello everyone

. Can I get a profile review as well please?

No. It's impolite to jump on someone else's thread asking for advice.

(Bry)"

I apologise sir

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"OP: your PM to us shows exactly why you're not getting any replies.

(Bry)"

Hate it when this happens. People just can't reply in the forum they take your comment as a carte blanche to message

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By *MCMan
over a year ago

London/EA

A , or . Wouldn’t go amiss. Give the reader a chance to breath.

Someone previous has said, pictures are all very similar.. mix it up.. no I’m not saying add 69 pictures of your cock from different angles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try some punctuation and paragraphs. Also smile maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe at least one cock pic mate also Maybe ass pic"

Don't agree with that comment, arse pic maybe, cock pics are best left in friends pics. You have way too many

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Maybe at least one cock pic mate also Maybe ass pic

Don't agree with that comment, arse pic maybe, cock pics are best left in friends pics. You have way too many "

Can't please everyone. We like to see one tasteful cock pic just to see that it's not deformed or covered in sores!

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe at least one cock pic mate also Maybe ass pic

Don't agree with that comment, arse pic maybe, cock pics are best left in friends pics. You have way too many

Can't please everyone. We like to see one tasteful cock pic just to see that it's not deformed or covered in sores!

(Bry)"

I would rather they were sent when we message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello everyone

. Can I get a profile review as well please?

We think it is average, but you have had a few meets so it must work.

Are you trying to get a bit more attention??"

5 meets within a month of joining and nothing since, is that because you’ve stopped posting recent verifications or did you just happen to have a really good run directly after joining that came to an abrupt end?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello everyone

. Can I get a profile review as well please?

We think it is average, but you have had a few meets so it must work.

Are you trying to get a bit more attention??

All those verifications were from socials, events or parties which seem to be much easier to get into. I have never been successful at pulling a one to one meet.

Thanks for the reply by the way

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Yet another guy who asks for advice and does nothing with it. Don't know why we bother commenting tbf "

Because he may not agree with your advice

. Just because you offer advice doesn’t mean he has to take it ??!!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

You have a partner so why not a couples profile?

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Yet another guy who asks for advice and does nothing with it. Don't know why we bother commenting tbf

Because he may not agree with your advice

. Just because you offer advice doesn’t mean he has to take it ??!!"

Didn't say he did tbf

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