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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

would love some tips and advice on our profile as still get the odd one or two folk who are confused by it.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm exhausted reading all the dos and don'ts and it's quite a forceful/ahgressive use of wording.

I sense your frustrated with the lack of understanding and have tried to update your profile but its left it sounding offish.

There's barely any sentences so it reads as one whole big paragraph.

There is 1 picture and that looks like no effort was put in and it doesn't give anything away.

You also joined recently so not sure what you expect straight away with the lack of effort you've put in.

I would suggest re reading it and ask yourselves if you would message you?

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

I am totally confused by it , very off putting profile sorry

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Uninteresting profile with big blocks of text and lack of pictures.

Nothing to entice me to contact or reply to a message.

There's loads of forum posts with profile help attached to them btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

have updated this to be less wordy and get the point across a bit a better

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"have updated this to be less wordy and get the point across a bit a better"

I found it hard going and the one photo isn't inspiring.

I'm not sure if you're not good at expressing yourselves in text, or whether English isn't your first language.

Can I suggest writing it in Word, or something similar, so that the text is spelling and grammar checked. Then transfer the results to Fab?

You need more and better photos too. No need to be naked, or scantily clad, but people usually want an idea of your body type.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

English is out first language but we both struggle communicating via text and she prefers not to have many photos public so will see what we can do about that

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"English is out first language but we both struggle communicating via text and she prefers not to have many photos public so will see what we can do about that"

You might find that socials and clubs work better for you.

It's not easy finding a connection via Fab alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ye fab is just for arranging socials really and getting to know people in the scene already.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

Code word in profile is always annoying, you’ll know if people have read the profile!

No real information on who you both are individually and as a couple!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Probably best not to call your other half misuses

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I had to Google what a weeb is

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

few people, if any, will know what "weeby" or "Weeb" means, and irrelevant in the context of swinging???

Keep it simple, and do it well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP, to be honest I find your profile confusing.

When you say your wife doesn’t “do kissing or oral” and this includes her bi play, what WILL she do with another female?

As others have said, your profile is quite demanding and it’s potentially off putting.

More pictures are definitely needed. Your wife may well be shy but people need to have some visual attraction. They don’t need to be face ones, just some nice body shots.

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