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By *bwadmirernorthwest OP   Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

Hi everyone,

Looking for advice I would like to get back into a relationship I do prefer to be with someone, I don't like being alone and prefer to spend time with a women.

Now my ex wife and myself did enjoy a couple of bisexual experiences with another female and although I enjoyed them am not sure if my ex did it to please me more at the time and this did cause issues.

Now moving forward with my life should I rule out swinging altogether and just be happy with having a normal relationship or can you actually find someone on this site that wants a full relationship was well as some fun from time to time?

Thanks phil

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Yes you can and there are at least two examples known to me and I would think many others know of relationships that started in swing world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there’s lots of people looking for that Holy Grail of a relationship with a fellow fabber!

For me it would be a huge trust exercise but it has been done.

Don’t rule it out but don’t search for only that OP

Pix x

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Fab probably isn't the most likely place to find a relationship but not impossible.

There are probably better suited platforms.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It can happen, we are proof of that. We met as singles here over 6 years ago and decided we wanted to swing together.

Be open and honest with people, I think many are open to more than fun on here nowadays, I know of several couples who met here, there's even going to be a wedding for one couple.

Good luck

Miss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years ago I met my last partner on here after swing together for a while. However, it soon became clear that we were just swinging buddies that moved in with each other. We stayed in the relationship for 4 years but only ever seemed to have sex when we were clubbing, at parties, dogging or with others. Rarely had any intimacy just between ourselves. There is no doubt it works for some but it didn't for me. In retrospect, he was not the type of guy I'd normally have gotten into a relationship with. I think we were both just swept up with the joy of finding someone to share swinging with and rushed into it. It's made me more wary now but not put me off should the possibility arise again. Finding out you're incompatible once the initial newness has faded can happen regardless of where you meet xx

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

There's one dating app I can think of that is specifically aimed at polyam/ethical non monogamist couples but otherwise most of the regular apps, users tend to play their cards quite close to their chests regarding being open to swinging or other forms of non-monogamy. In fact I often see people I recognise from here on other dating apps, but very rarely do any of them so much as hint at the fact they're open to this lifestyle. At the same time I suspect people are concerned they'll put potential 'vanilla' matches off if they do...

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Basically it's possible just like anywhere else on any site and are plenty on here whom found each other and are very happy married or just attached so don't give up.

Good luck

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset

We met on via a fetish sight and now have two kids and a house together and couldn’t be happier, so yes, it is possible. It was only supposed to be casual to be fair but one thing led to another and we fell in love.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I have found long lasting relationships from here.

It is what you want it to be.

V x

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

Probably don't go looking for a relationship, have some fun and see what develops, and if you getting a regular fwb, see where it goes..x

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