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By *ilhay OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It usually takes me a while to relax into getting oral from anyone and it also takes me a while to climax too.

Sometimes people seem to get a bit bored of sucking cock after a while (even the ones who claim to love it "for hours" on their profile!) or can get a bit frustrated that I haven't cum already.

I also dont wanna cum too quick because if someone has taken the time to visit me, just to suck me off, I want to make it worth their effort and not just cum inside two min, right?

or is that what people expect?

So, what is the perfect amount of time that a blow job should last for?

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I would suggest 20 minutes max for one hit. After that your jaw and throat begins to ache.

It also depends on the guy receiving, if he's interacting and fucking your mouth it makes it more fun than if a guy is just laid there.

The other alternative is to have about 3 ten minute sessions and do something else in between.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Define perfect

I'd say it's more down to how mentally the connection between the two is which would depend upon how long anything would be because wouldn't last as long or it's just not happening to plan

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By *ilhay OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes, the "perfect" blow job amount of time is subjective so theres no doubt that its different for everyone, and also depends on the situation.

I do like the idea of breaking it up into 10 min segments though. that might work out well. i defo like the sound of that suggestion and will try it out next time I feeel like the situation calls for it.

;)

xx

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon


"

Sometimes people seem to get a bit bored of sucking cock after a while "

Who are these heathens?

(I just wanna talk)

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich


"

Sometimes people seem to get a bit bored of sucking cock after a while

Who are these heathens?

(I just wanna talk)"

We just tag team and share the workload

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Tag teeeeeam!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Until I really have to fuck her.

Anywhere from 10 to 20...seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me approximately 55 milliseconds

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I like to set a timer to a random, unspecified period of time, and see if she can finish me off before it rings.

A bit like ‘Beat the Clock’. Ladies love a challenge .

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"It usually takes me a while to relax into getting oral from anyone and it also takes me a while to climax too.

Sometimes people seem to get a bit bored of sucking cock after a while (even the ones who claim to love it "for hours" on their profile!) or can get a bit frustrated that I haven't cum already.

I also dont wanna cum too quick because if someone has taken the time to visit me, just to suck me off, I want to make it worth their effort and not just cum inside two min, right?

or is that what people expect?

So, what is the perfect amount of time that a blow job should last for?"

As long as both participants are enjoying it

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Jeez! The “perfect blowjob” would be soft cock, to hard cock, to climax. I don’t think there should be a time limit for the act itself, should there? Women are just pleased they made you cum aren’t they?

I definitely would love to experience this at least once more, before I die

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to set a timer to a random, unspecified period of time, and see if she can finish me off before it rings.

A bit like ‘Beat the Clock’. Ladies love a challenge .

"

No pressure

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

never timed it

every situation is different

mental connection is important,

mutual attraction is important,

tease levels are important,

sensuality is important,

the level of libido on the loose is important

so many factors involved in the lead up to it...

if boredom sets in something isn't right about it in my humble opinion.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

I love a blow job, I find it hard to cum from 1 but to me it don’t matter if the lady doesn’t make me cum while doing it

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I love a blow job, I find it hard to cum from 1 but to me it don’t matter if the lady doesn’t make me cum while doing it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We just tag team and share the workload "

Works for me every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it takes until he cums I'd say.

Mrs

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By *ilhay OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

Sometimes people seem to get a bit bored of sucking cock after a while

Who are these heathens?

(I just wanna talk)"

.

Not sure if they are heathens, or just amateurs !!!

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By *ilhay OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I like to set a timer to a random, unspecified period of time, and see if she can finish me off before it rings.

A bit like ‘Beat the Clock’. Ladies love a challenge .

"

,

THIS, sounds like a lot of fun !!!

May steal this idea.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I always finish what I’ve started, no matter how long it takes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until you cum....lol

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By *azorRay666Man
over a year ago

Esher


"Until you cum....lol"

Perfect response

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By *dd_soxMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Normally about 3 inches - only the head part is sensitive... taking the whole lot and licking my balls at the same time is just showing off

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By *fweonlymeettwiceMan
over a year ago

Madrid

I have never cum from a BJ i always end up having to wank my self and cum in Mrs mouth

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I think a few minutes of really strong full shaft length work, with a bit of ball & tip licking - into me riding him hard - back to the blowjob to finish up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally depends ive been so horny before ive done CIM in a few min of having a BJ, and other times i can last longer. Id say if your cocks being sucked for too long then something aint right lol. I never last that long with a bj, maybe average 5 minutes.

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

I get bored receiving a BJ so there’s that.

Perfect time is a variable only really complete upon completion.

Unless you’re just trying to edge them. But then that takes a lot of experience.

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

I do love and enjoy giving a BJ but I do get the point that jaw ache does set in.... specially for a girthy guy. You can usually tell when a woman moves more from using her mouth to more hand action with less mouth/ is that just me lol

I would say if it's just a BJ... or you can cum again... just go with the flow and don't hold back from cumming.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"I think a few minutes of really strong full shaft length work, with a bit of ball & tip licking - into me riding him hard - back to the blowjob to finish up. "

Yes, I will have that, with a glass of Barolo, please.

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

Oooooo love sucking and licking on a nice tasty cock and pair of tight balls.. so as long as we are both enjoying it I'll continue..mmmmm...

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By *enuine_J87Man
over a year ago

Eastleigh

Unfortunately for me I have never cum from just a blowjob (or handjob) … yes I know loads of guys say that but I’m probably one of the only genuine ones that really can’t. It isn’t ‘a challenge’ to try and make a woman get my to finish, it’s not about skill. It just does not happen but god I wish I could.

So for someone like me, time is irrelevant but how they do it, what they do, how much they enjoy it themselves, the attention they show to different areas such as the balls… it all adds up.

I can’t have a perfect one but everyone is different and I’m happy just to be getting one and that someone wants to give me one in the first place. Besides if you are afraid of finishing in 2 minutes… maybe do some other stuff until you are ready to go again for longer?

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

No set time, just enjoy one of lifes pleasures

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By *eckycdTV/TS
over a year ago

northwest

Gave a guy a blow job for the first time a few weeks ago

Was turned on myself and took about 10minutes for him to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately for me I have never cum from just a blowjob (or handjob) … yes I know loads of guys say that but I’m probably one of the only genuine ones that really can’t. It isn’t ‘a challenge’ to try and make a woman get my to finish, it’s not about skill. It just does not happen but god I wish I could.

So for someone like me, time is irrelevant but how they do it, what they do, how much they enjoy it themselves, the attention they show to different areas such as the balls… it all adds up.

I can’t have a perfect one but everyone is different and I’m happy just to be getting one and that someone wants to give me one in the first place. Besides if you are afraid of finishing in 2 minutes… maybe do some other stuff until you are ready to go again for longer? "

I'll.give.it.a.go. made every guy cum so far haha

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

I (he) like them to last as long as possible but 10 minutes at least please. The longest I've had is 50 minutes, she wanted to see if she could go for an hour, loved every second of it, valiant effort from the lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an odd one this, I adore sucking cock (for the record I am Bi), for ages to completion and although I love my cock being sucked by male or female, I can never seem cum unless either my balls or nipples are being teased at the same time

Am I alone on this ?

J xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Unfortunately for me I have never cum from just a blowjob (or handjob) … yes I know loads of guys say that but I’m probably one of the only genuine ones that really can’t. It isn’t ‘a challenge’ to try and make a woman get my to finish, it’s not about skill. It just does not happen but god I wish I could.

So for someone like me, time is irrelevant but how they do it, what they do, how much they enjoy it themselves, the attention they show to different areas such as the balls… it all adds up.

I can’t have a perfect one but everyone is different and I’m happy just to be getting one and that someone wants to give me one in the first place. Besides if you are afraid of finishing in 2 minutes… maybe do some other stuff until you are ready to go again for longer? "

You’re not alone in this mate, don’t worry, you’re among friends here I think there’s more blokes who have a ‘hair trigger’, than women who have genuine talent for sucking cock……

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By *ulluSukaWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

For me, its when I feel my mouth fill up with a salty goo.

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By *ronmant16Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"For me, its when I feel my mouth fill up with a salty goo. "

If carlsberg did answers this one would be there's

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By *ronmant16Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Theirs, excuse my spelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So, what is the perfect amount of time that a blow job should last for?"

Enough. *and that’s for all concerned.

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By *tripper9Man
over a year ago

Blackburn


"For me, its when I feel my mouth fill up with a salty goo. "

That would be cum o’clock then

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By *ave 42Man
over a year ago

pontefract


"I like to set a timer to a random, unspecified period of time, and see if she can finish me off before it rings.

A bit like ‘Beat the Clock’. Ladies love a challenge .

No pressure "

Think I’ve got an old egg timer somewhere

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By *myouraddiction18Man
over a year ago

wigan

I find it takes approximately 25 - 30 mins sometimes to make me cum. Whilst I’m getting a good bj I like to tease her pussy at the same time and get her to cum several times before me. I’m not a selfish guy

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By *amboozledByPaperClipsMan
over a year ago

hull

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By *amboozledByPaperClipsMan
over a year ago

hull


"I think a few minutes of really strong full shaft length work, with a bit of ball & tip licking - into me riding him hard - back to the blowjob to finish up. "

What a response !

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By *eckycdTV/TS
over a year ago

northwest


"I (he) like them to last as long as possible but 10 minutes at least please. The longest I've had is 50 minutes, she wanted to see if she could go for an hour, loved every second of it, valiant effort from the lady."

Nevaquit I’d cum in minutes if you gave me a blow job x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, I'm most sensitive around the tip, so the perfect length of blow job for me is around 1 or 2 inches.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I (he) like them to last as long as possible but 10 minutes at least please. The longest I've had is 50 minutes, she wanted to see if she could go for an hour, loved every second of it, valiant effort from the lady.

Nevaquit I’d cum in minutes if you gave me a blow job x"

I think you mean '_evaquits' (the Mrs). I'd be terrible, never given one and it would have to be under duress I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfect BJ is about 6-7inch long. Any longer and we need a third!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Can’t do it for ages as my jaw hurts but I like to do it again and again but need to rest my clicky jaw after a few minutes.

What was the answer?

Vx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an "how long is a piece of string" type of question. For me receiving or giving a blowjob is not about performing some scripted routine with a *tadaaa* at the end. *Take a bow* etc. It's about being in the moment and needing to feel your partner's warm, wet touch on you or in you. It has to be spontaneous and different each time or else it's just mechanical. X

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I like to set a timer to a random, unspecified period of time, and see if she can finish me off before it rings.

A bit like ‘Beat the Clock’. Ladies love a challenge .

No pressure Think I’ve got an old egg timer somewhere "

Has anyone asked Alexa yet?

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By *onnatvsussexTV/TS
over a year ago

littlehampton

i love giving a blow job but do like a guy to cum before starting to get jaw ache. Can be a problem with a girthy cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It usually takes me a while to relax into getting oral from anyone and it also takes me a while to climax too.

Sometimes people seem to get a bit bored of sucking cock after a while (even the ones who claim to love it "for hours" on their profile!) or can get a bit frustrated that I haven't cum already.

I also dont wanna cum too quick because if someone has taken the time to visit me, just to suck me off, I want to make it worth their effort and not just cum inside two min, right?

or is that what people expect?

So, what is the perfect amount of time that a blow job should last for?"

Am the same, takes a good while for me to come just through a blow job. Always feels wonderful though

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By *aulupforitMan
over a year ago

Corbridge


"I like to set a timer to a random, unspecified period of time, and see if she can finish me off before it rings.

A bit like ‘Beat the Clock’. Ladies love a challenge .

No pressure Think I’ve got an old egg timer somewhere

Has anyone asked Alexa yet? "

Fuck Alexa

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By *aulupforitMan
over a year ago

Corbridge


"It usually takes me a while to relax into getting oral from anyone and it also takes me a while to climax too.

Sometimes people seem to get a bit bored of sucking cock after a while (even the ones who claim to love it "for hours" on their profile!) or can get a bit frustrated that I haven't cum already.

I also dont wanna cum too quick because if someone has taken the time to visit me, just to suck me off, I want to make it worth their effort and not just cum inside two min, right?

or is that what people expect?

So, what is the perfect amount of time that a blow job should last for?"

Takes me a while as well so:eland you can suck each other as long as we want

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