FabSwingers.com forum: How do I start?!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guys I need some advice on how to navigate this site, I’m respectful with my messages never rude I always send face pics but just don’t get no we’re, any advice people just so I know we’re I’m going wrong! Thanks guys !!!

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

You have no pictures on your profile, not even a profile pic. You shouldn't need someone to point that out to you. Single guys probably out number women by 100-1 on here so you've really got to stand out and having no pictures isn't doing you any favours.

It's also to important to understand that there are no guarantees in the Swinging world.

We'd say the best things for single guys is to try a social event or club to try and understand of what swinging is all about.

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pictures and you bio is boring

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Guys I need some advice on how to navigate this site, I’m respectful with my messages never rude I always send face pics but just don’t get no we’re, any advice people just so I know we’re I’m going wrong! Thanks guys !!!

Start by searching previous forums where others have asked for help their is plenty of helpful advice to assist you

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn't reply to a message with no profile pic. It doesn't have to be a face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask yourself why are you here, what you want from the site/expectations.

Then have a load of patients....

It's hard work for those who've been here ages and dabbled in the swinging world (clubs, parties etc)

All the best sweet

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By *edandLouCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

You have been on here for 3 weeks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evening, different people like different things, some don’t want to see cocks on profiles other can’t wait to view, some want a long profile with loads of details others just want a quick hello this is me.

The issue is and will always be, that you are a single man, unless you are Hugh jackman or Jason statham you will inevitably struggle.

I’m by no means a seasoned swinger, I’m just a single guy that enjoys sex, hence signing up to fab. However what you have to remember is that this IS a swingers site, so couples who swing as opposed to single men will always enjoy the benefits of the site more than you or I,

Hang in there and just be genuine in your messages.

Good luck with your journey

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

You need some public photos

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Ask yourself why are you here, what you want from the site/expectations.

Then have a load of patients....

It's hard work for those who've been here ages and dabbled in the swinging world (clubs, parties etc)

All the best sweet

Would that make him a Dr?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pictures as the other have said. I also find your bio childish and it lacks punctuation.

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By *magine all the peopleCouple
over a year ago

Perth

You can't accommodate, which gives people the idea you're cheating.

You're not a site supporter, which kind of gives the impression you're either not serious.. or cheating.

No photos... Which is just pointless, but DON'T post cock pics . Something classy

You're moaning about the site, which makes you seem entitled.

It's a fabswinging site, not fabshaggers.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Meh....

... Next!!!

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Downham Market

Posted seven hours ago. Replies six hours ago. Last online five hours ago.

If you don't have the decency to acknowledge those that have tried to help, then why should anyone offer any advice?

(Bry)

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

What were your expectations when you joined OP?

I suspect maybe that’s the issue here. There is very little on your profile that is going to entice anyone. You have no public pics and a limited bio. It’s doesn’t matter how polite you are in your initial messages, the first thing people will do is look at your profile, if it doesn’t grab them ghfk they’ll move on to their next message.

Your profile needs a lot of work and you’ll need to adjust your expectation of how easy it’ll be to get a meet. Without an exceptional profile and pictures you’ll find it hard.

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham

"What were your expectations when you joined OP?

Your profile needs a lot of work and you’ll need to adjust your expectation of how easy it’ll be to get a meet. Without an exceptional profile and pictures you’ll find it hard. "

Errrrr your profile doesn't exist??

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

"You can't accommodate, which gives people the idea you're cheating.

You're not a site supporter, which kind of gives the impression you're either not serious.. or cheating.

No photos... Which is just pointless, but DON'T post cock pics . Something classy

You're moaning about the site, which makes you seem entitled.

It's a fabswinging site, not fabshaggers. "

Your first 2 points are one of the problems I see with this site, far too many people judge that people are cheating based on an assumption. Not being able to accommodate could just mean the OP lives with parents still. Not being a site supporter might be because he doesn't see the need to pay for a site that markets itself as a free site. Reading your comment shows you've assumed and judged him before finding out the facts.

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Your a bloke . So chances are no meets. Go to a club . So many time wasters on here

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"What were your expectations when you joined OP?

Your profile needs a lot of work and you’ll need to adjust your expectation of how easy it’ll be to get a meet. Without an exceptional profile and pictures you’ll find it hard.

Errrrr your profile doesn't exist?? "

Yeah it does, it’s just hidden.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"Your a bloke . So chances are no meets. Go to a club . So many time wasters on here"

That's not necessarily true. I've had quite a few meets from here and it's how Miss and I got together over 6 years ago. You get out what you put in. But yes clubs are a good way to go to.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Downham Market

"Your a bloke . So chances are no meets. Go to a club . So many time wasters on here"

In two years I think we've met over twenty guys from here. So being a bloke doesn't mean the end of Fab-life.

(Bry)

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By *magine all the peopleCouple
over a year ago

Perth

"You can't accommodate, which gives people the idea you're cheating.

You're not a site supporter, which kind of gives the impression you're either not serious.. or cheating.

No photos... Which is just pointless, but DON'T post cock pics . Something classy

You're moaning about the site, which makes you seem entitled.

It's a fabswinging site, not fabshaggers.

Correct.

Why would anyone ask?

Which is the point we're making.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"You can't accommodate, which gives people the idea you're cheating.

You're not a site supporter, which kind of gives the impression you're either not serious.. or cheating.

No photos... Which is just pointless, but DON'T post cock pics . Something classy

You're moaning about the site, which makes you seem entitled.

It's a fabswinging site, not fabshaggers.

Correct.

Why would anyone ask?

Which is the point we're making."

Agreed. If there's nothing absolutely stand out to interest you enough to ask the question why, you walk on by without giving a second thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile picture would be a good start. When we get messages or winks from someone that has a profile but has no profile photo and friends only pictures. We take it no further and don't even open the message. Its nice to at least have some idea of who the person is (and it is generally single guys who are guilty of doing this)

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Yeah that usually is the case. When it's couples or women without pictures, 99 times out of 100 they will be unverified and you know what that means!

Also it's funny when they switch pictures to bypass the filter thinking you wouldn't notice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask yourself why are you here, what you want from the site/expectations.

Then have a load of patients....

It's hard work for those who've been here ages and dabbled in the swinging world (clubs, parties etc)

All the best sweet

Would that make him a Dr?

Oh wow that's twice I've spelt it that way on a thread.....

I hope that's not trying to tell me something

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Posted seven hours ago. Replies six hours ago. Last online five hours ago.

If you don't have the decency to acknowledge those that have tried to help, then why should anyone offer any advice?

(Bry)"

Top bit of observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a cock picture to every woman you message as a first attempt at making contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your a bloke . So chances are no meets. Go to a club . So many time wasters on here

In two years I think we've met over twenty guys from here. So being a bloke doesn't mean the end of Fab-life.

(Bry)"

If you definitely want to get laid, go pay for a brass.

If you want to maybe get laid, go to a club and engage in conversation with people….. if you’re charming enough, you might maybe get laid.

If you’re 100 percent sure that you want to sit at home wanking your balls dry…. Set up a fabswingers profile and don’t have any photos or anything written on your bio.

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