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Whats wrong with my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wonder how and what I can do to improve my profile. Is there something I'm doing wrong?

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Would you really sleep with a 99 year old?

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

When will fab realise the default 99'is an oxymoron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folk on here will tear your profile apart, or give tips about more quality photos and no dick pics, don't make it all about you...blah blah.

But the plain truth is, you're one guy on a site awash with guys. The chances for you are slim. Even less so if you can't accommodate. The fems on here hold all the cards, and if you have a fragile ego, they will tear you to shreds.

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater


"Just wonder how and what I can do to improve my profile. Is there something I'm doing wrong? "
the one picture you have is a bit naff , and would you really try anything and everything ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However, you list yourself as Bi. So you won't have too much of a problem in that area. Males are very thirsty on here.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"Just wonder how and what I can do to improve my profile. Is there something I'm doing wrong? "

You're a young single guy on a site full of single guys competing for relatively few women/couples. Of the proportionof these who are close enough to make meeting practical and are prepared to accommodate you, how many do you think want someone of your age? In reality it's a very small number and there are plenty of other guys chasing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"However, you list yourself as Bi. So you won't have too much of a problem in that area. Males are very thirsty on here. "

This.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Just wonder how and what I can do to improve my profile. Is there something I'm doing wrong? "

Are you going to come back and read and act on suggestions here? The vast majority of guys asking for profile advice never show their face in here again....

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see that I've changed that as your right 99 is ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess it's also because of my age and the fact I don't accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wonder how and what I can do to improve my profile. Is there something I'm doing wrong?

Are you going to come back and read and act on suggestions here? The vast majority of guys asking for profile advice never show their face in here again....

(Bry)"

I've changed thing taken things out and want to learn and make my profile better. So yer I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to write more, check your spelling and sell yourself a bit. Then have patience, lots of patience.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"I've changed thing taken things out and want to learn and make my profile better. So yer I will"

Top man.

Definitely get your pics sorted. The one you have doesn't say anything about you. Understand if you don't want a face on there, but partial profiles, full length, clothed and tasteful unclothed all show more about what you look like. Although a lot will say no duck pics, we like to see one tasteful pic that shows you have a dick and that it's not deformed or anything. But not a closeup of an erection

Guessing not being able to accommodate is due to only being 25 and either at home or house sharing. But, rightly or wrongly, people will assume you're married/attached. You shouldn't have to, but consider mentioning why you can't accommodate.

Lastly....dont expect people to message you first from your profile. Most women and couples get way more offers than they need via their inbox so don't need to go looking. Think more about making sure you contact the right people, that you've read and match their profile and write tailored messaged referencing their profile.

And if most are like us, we need just 1% of the guys that message us.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wonder how and what I can do to improve my profile. Is there something I'm doing wrong? "

We can't see you private messages to people....

Can you give us an idea?

Why do you think it's only your profile that's the issue?

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

The problem many men have in terms of lack of success isn't so much in their profile, its the lack of reading of other people's profiles and in the messages they send.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ll get tonnes of offers from men, I’m sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've changed thing taken things out and want to learn and make my profile better. So yer I will

Top man.

Definitely get your pics sorted. The one you have doesn't say anything about you. Understand if you don't want a face on there, but partial profiles, full length, clothed and tasteful unclothed all show more about what you look like. Although a lot will say no duck pics, we like to see one tasteful pic that shows you have a dick and that it's not deformed or anything. But not a closeup of an erection

Guessing not being able to accommodate is due to only being 25 and either at home or house sharing. But, rightly or wrongly, people will assume you're married/attached. You shouldn't have to, but consider mentioning why you can't accommodate.

Lastly....dont expect people to message you first from your profile. Most women and couples get way more offers than they need via their inbox so don't need to go looking. Think more about making sure you contact the right people, that you've read and match their profile and write tailored messaged referencing their profile.

And if most are like us, we need just 1% of the guys that message us.

(Bry)"

Cheers mate I really appreciate the advice im gunna look at getting some more pics and changing things up a little and metion why I can't accommodate

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"When will fab realise the default 99'is an oxymoron"

there is no oxymoron which will ever beat

"Fucking wanker".

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By *ad_Bod_ToddMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

@_harandbry have given very sensible suggestions.

Make sure that you clearly specify what you can offer, and not just what you want.

Being a single guy can be hard, you have to try and stand out as a tiny fleck of gold in the tsunami of crap that constantly fills every womans' inbox.

It takes time, effort, patience and resilience to get the results that you seek.

Lots of guys have posted 'help with my profile' type messages. Searching for those and reading the comments will give you a few more pointers.

Good luck OP.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I've changed thing taken things out and want to learn and make my profile better. So yer I will

Top man.

Definitely get your pics sorted. The one you have doesn't say anything about you. Understand if you don't want a face on there, but partial profiles, full length, clothed and tasteful unclothed all show more about what you look like. Although a lot will say no duck pics, we like to see one tasteful pic that shows you have a dick and that it's not deformed or anything. But not a closeup of an erection

Guessing not being able to accommodate is due to only being 25 and either at home or house sharing. But, rightly or wrongly, people will assume you're married/attached. You shouldn't have to, but consider mentioning why you can't accommodate.

Lastly....dont expect people to message you first from your profile. Most women and couples get way more offers than they need via their inbox so don't need to go looking. Think more about making sure you contact the right people, that you've read and match their profile and write tailored messaged referencing their profile.

And if most are like us, we need just 1% of the guys that message us.

(Bry)"

Awesome advice. Seen you post a few replies lately that have been genuine and helpful. So nice to see!!! X x I reckon you have a few stories to tell...

But yes op take on the advice and grow a thick skin is all I can say as not everyone is kind and empathetic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a fair amount of comments, so I'm not sure what advice I can add. I would say for starters your bio has lots of typos, spelling mistakes. Also have a few more torso photos as well as photos in suits perhaps. And just state what you like, what you're looking for. Basically look at your profile and be honest with yourself and ask yourself this one question " if you were into guys, would you want to fuck this person"

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

The play rough comment is a turn off

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Only thing wrong

Their is plenty of advice from past users whom have asked similar questions as yourself my suggestion search this and hopefully your able to guide yourself on a path to assist you.

Good luck

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