FabSwingers.com forum: First time with other couple

By *urvyD-and-J2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leighton Buzzard

So me and the wife have bin playing for some time now mainly mmf and mmmf bur affrer talking we want to try meeting a couple any tips on getting started what as couples do you look for in other couples we are laid back and easy to talk not pushy any tips would be grate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same way you've found men.

They are still people.

We go looking for people we want to meet. Chat a while, a social maybe to see if we get on. I always offer a phone call with the woman so that she knows I'm real and happy to meet. (Some couple profiles are fake and men only)

Good luck.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Finding a couple online can be pretty tricky. All four of you generally need to click to make it work. A club visit would probably be easiest.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

In our experience, couples have all fallen into one of three camps:

Over 50 (which we know isn't old, but it's outside Char's preference on females)

Too straight, so the female half needs both guys to join in, and I don't play with other women.

But the most popular category by far is the one where everything seems great until suddenly she's working away, developed a skin condition, got a full time fwb, or some other reason why suddenly it's just the guy that's available to meet right now.

We've met one couple in two years, and we class them as friends now. But we met them at Swingathon, not on here.

(Bry)

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill

The couples you seek out must appeal to both of you, and in turn you both must appeal to them! Then your interests must align and most obviously have an attraction / connection with each other. Sounds complicated but it’s straight forward. You may find a club a much easier way to meet.

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

Everyone is different and wants different things so the hardest bit we found is finding a couple that ticked our boxes and visa versa as you are adding another personality into the equation. However, there are a lot of lovely people on here. Just takes some messages and chatting to get things going, probably like a single person.

Personally, we exchange messages and pics, if we click, maybe WhatsApp and a social and then more.

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By *urvyD-and-J2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leighton Buzzard

Thank you every one I (hubby) have found finding males to join us easy and we have had lots of fun at clubs but couples is new ground as wife has only just brought up adding a female to the fun

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

just be clear who it’s for, meet so many couples where either the guy won’t join in, or the woman just wants another woman , or the guy just wants his woman to have another woman.

In my experience in couples, full swap separate room is least drama and hassle - everyone knows what they want - to swing properly

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I agree with poster who said try clubs, I'm half a couple and getting 4 way attraction isnt easy. Then add in the availability of 5 people and it can become harder.

Pre covid, me and my partner would look at clubs if we wanted to meet together.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

We have met some absolutely brilliant couples through fab x we've been so lucky and have met our bestest friends in the world on here x

it is harder as you all have to click and find each other attractive, I wouldn't "take one for the team" and I wouldn't expect him to as that's not fair on all parties x

It's the same process as when you find guys tho, not really much difference. Women can be harder as in general (don't attack me) women are more emotional and can see things in a more emotive way than men do. (not always!!!)

I always make sure I pay her more attention than the guys and boundaries are a solid given.

We met our best friends at home and another couple at a club so either or really x put the feelers out and enjoy x prepare for multiple calendar clashes especially if kids are involved as you've all gotta get babysitters lol x

Have fun and make sure you're on the same page as your Mrs as once she sees you fuck someone else you can't take that back....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have met some absolutely brilliant couples through fab x we've been so lucky and have met our bestest friends in the world on here x

it is harder as you all have to click and find each other attractive, I wouldn't "take one for the team" and I wouldn't expect him to as that's not fair on all parties x

I always make sure I pay her more attention than the guys and boundaries are a solid given.

Have fun and make sure you're on the same page as your Mrs as once she sees you fuck someone else you can't take that back....

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So we've been lucky and met lovely couples on here and we’ve had horrors! Our tip is to talk

Over video chats together etc.

Ive learnt not to take one for us both anymore And I wouldn't expect him too. Both of you need to be comfortable.

Have fun and make sure you're on the same page as your Mrs as once she sees you fuck someone else you can't take that back....

can’t reiterate this enough

I hated seeing my other half kissing and appearing to be enjoying himself hence the jealousy but I overcame it (slightly, I’m a very self conscious person) and yet it turned into a great night us ending together next to the other couple and was a best sex ever moment.

Have fun

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