FabSwingers.com forum: Hotwife/cuckold

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

With this dynamic, is it wrong to say the ball is in the man's court. For example it only happening if the partner receives pictures and videos. Kinda classing it as cheating if this isn't what happens because its not what was agreed. Or am I being stupid haha.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

It very much depends on the dynamic of the couple, my wife is totally in control as to who she plays with and when, my cuckold duties depend on if I’m there when she plays, but ultimately she’s always in control

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It very much depends on the dynamic of the couple, my wife is totally in control as to who she plays with and when, my cuckold duties depend on if I’m there when she plays, but ultimately she’s always in control"

Thankyou for this im just confused how I felt about it haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With this dynamic, is it wrong to say the ball is in the man's court. For example it only happening if the partner receives pictures and videos. Kinda classing it as cheating if this isn't what happens because its not what was agreed. Or am I being stupid haha.

There's not going to be a one size fits all in either of these situations.

If you've put rules in place to say this can happen but you'd like pictures to feel part of it and she hasn't followed through on that then you've a right to be upset. I wouldn't necessarily class it as cheating but she has cleared crossed a line that you've both put in place.

Really it sounds like you both need to sit down and have a conversation again about what the expectations are surrounding your dynamic. If boundaries are still being crossed after that then maybe this dynamic isn't something that is going to work for you.

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By *ate_joe_ukxCouple
over a year ago

mansfield

I dont think one rule fits all, there are so many different levels and dynamics it is all about the couples choice along with how the guy feels who joins them x

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes agree the cuckold dynamic is different for every cuckold couple and it’s so different to Hotwife/stag/vixen

Please see our profile and chat if you like

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

HotWifing really isn't anything to do with Cuckolding - very different things.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the one thing they have in common is that it often seems to be the guy in the couple who's calling the shots over who his wife has sex with

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I’m a hotwife that plays solo, I pick the guy’s too. Hubby’s only involvement is when I get home and tell him how naughty I was

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I think the one thing they have in common is that it often seems to be the guy in the couple who's calling the shots over who his wife has sex with "

Which is EXACTLY the opposite of cuckolding. That's Stag/Vixen if the guy is doing the deciding.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the one thing they have in common is that it often seems to be the guy in the couple who's calling the shots over who his wife has sex with

Which is EXACTLY the opposite of cuckolding. That's Stag/Vixen if the guy is doing the deciding.

(Bry)"

I still find it quite odd

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