FabSwingers.com forum: Would love to be taken to a club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Never know where or how to really go to a club alone, would appreciate someone willing to take a newbie

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Put your big boy pants on and go on your own? Not many people are willing to risk their club membership on a newbie as they can't know how that person is going to behave in a club setting. Alternatively, try and arrange to meet someone in the club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never know where or how to really go to a club alone, would appreciate someone willing to take a newbie"

Go on your own, what’s the worst that could happen?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Never know where or how to really go to a club alone, would appreciate someone willing to take a newbie"

Think of it like any other bar or club and treat everyone with respect they'll make you feel comfortable...

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Never know where or how to really go to a club alone, would appreciate someone willing to take a newbie"

Can't your mum take you, she could hold your hand outside the door, she could stay with you till you settle in and make friends.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

You've got a few clubs nearby. Read the reviews, look at their web sites, and pick one that looks like it might suit you. Then choose a suitable night, contact the club to get on the guest list if there is one, and go.

Dress decently, be friendly and sociable, and it can be a good night out.

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By *utchyjackMan
over a year ago

Newquay

Would love a female partner to take to Secrets, they don't allow single guy's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never know where or how to really go to a club alone, would appreciate someone willing to take a newbie"

Its always hard.. and we recently took someone with us for the first time and it was just about having the support to walk through the door with someone. I do agree whoever would take you you would need some former relationship with first. So try building that up or maybe try a social and meet people that way and work up to a club.

The alternative is going on your own and while it may seem intimidating you will soon wonder what you were worried about.

Good luck!

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Honestly just brave it and go, you’ll never look back, and have nothing to lose. Just think of it as a liberated pub

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Once in and socialising yes not a problem but saying its like a pub, not many people go to a pub alone with the intention of meeting new friends etc

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Once in and socialising yes not a problem but saying its like a pub, not many people go to a pub alone with the intention of meeting new friends etc "
really... I pretty much always go alone

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I go alone sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once in and socialising yes not a problem but saying its like a pub, not many people go to a pub alone with the intention of meeting new friends etc "

Would you say it's more the expense of an entry fee that's putting you off? If so, I totally understand and I would be more sympathetic to that than not having any bottle. I've always thought getting over the threshold was the easy bit.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

"Once in and socialising yes not a problem but saying its like a pub, not many people go to a pub alone with the intention of meeting new friends etc "

Well, where DO you go when you want to meet new friends? This is life. You walk into your first day of a new job alone, evening classes, football teams, whatever you do for fun. Swinging is no different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never know where or how to really go to a club alone, would appreciate someone willing to take a newbie

Go on your own, what’s the worst that could happen? "

I agree, first time I went to somewhere like that back home, I went by myself. Still have to try it in the UK, but I will soon enough

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