FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies? Or anyone with an opinion

By *anny369 OP Man
over a year ago

bolton

After reading through forums I always have the same question in mind, what do women look for/ want from a man on here? I get this isn't a dating site but most of the profiles I see seem like they're looking for something more than a meet.

I'm not trying to run through the site either just figuring where I fall in to it all

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Guys that don't double post maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally not having a wife or a significant other and do not consider accommodating in there car as being able to accommodate, a nice pick of a face, with a polite or funny message rather than a dick with a can of lynx for scale is usually a good start

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Generally not having a wife or a significant other and do not consider accommodating in there car as being able to accommodate, a nice pick of a face, with a polite or funny message rather than a dick with a can of lynx for scale is usually a good start "

That is some very low hanging fruit.

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

There's always a lot of good advice about profiles and pics on threads like this but the reality is women receive so many messages they don't need to search through profiles, and where most men let themselves down is in the way they message.

Most messages are either way too familiar or explicit or just plain dull. Getting 'hey' then 'how's u bbe' then ' what u up to' fifty times a day makes me not even bother looking at those profiles.

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By *anny369 OP Man
over a year ago

bolton

That sounds like an experience rather than advice, I'll definitely follow it though haha

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By *anny369 OP Man
over a year ago

bolton

"There's always a lot of good advice about profiles and pics on threads like this but the reality is women receive so many messages they don't need to search through profiles, and where most men let themselves down is in the way they message.

Most messages are either way too familiar or explicit or just plain dull. Getting 'hey' then 'how's u bbe' then ' what u up to' fifty times a day makes me not even bother looking at those profiles."

Would be interesting to see how much men outnumber women on here and I feel like the header to a message can be make or brake sometimes

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I don't get these questions at all. Stop trying to be what women want and find someone who wants what you are/have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get these questions at all. Stop trying to be what women want and find someone who wants what you are/have. "

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By *ad_Bod_ToddMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Just be yourself. People will either be attracted to you or not. Explain what you can (genuinely!) offer and not what you want.

Oh, and develop a thick skin like really quickly. You'll get a lot of rejection unless you are Chris Hemsworth.

Good luck and best wishes.

PS: If you are Chris Hemsworth can you please stop using my photos on your profile. Everyone knows that's not you. It's embarrassing for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

R.E.S.P.E.C.T.

Sing it if it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most messages are either way too familiar or explicit or just plain dull. Getting 'hey' then 'how's u bbe' then ' what u up to' fifty times a day makes me not even bother looking at those profiles."

100% agree and that's why I filter out men, problem is I get it from couples and women too!!

Why dont people make more effort when getting in contact? Drab introductions aren't going to lead to meets.

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

What one woman is looking for can be the exact opposite to what another woman may be looking for.

Read people's profiles, be genuine and honest in yours and if there's a match or connection with someone it will happen for you.

Alternatively, instead of trying to mould yourself in to what you think people want why not go to some social events and get talking to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After reading through forums I always have the same question in mind, what do women look for/ want from a man on here? I get this isn't a dating site but most of the profiles I see seem like they're looking for something more than a meet.

I'm not trying to run through the site either just figuring where I fall in to it all "

Reading the profile would be a great start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ll drive yourself mad trying to figure out what women on here want because every woman is different with unique wants and desires, the same applies to men on here. That’s pretty obvious from the wide variety of profiles and all the differing points of view and opinions in the forum.

You should just be yourself and not try to change into what you think women want you to be, because I can tell you one thing they don’t want and that’s someone who’s false and lacks the confidence to be themselves.

If what you have to offer isn’t what a woman is looking for then you aren’t a match and have no future together, accept it, move on and find someone you do match with.

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"I don't get these questions at all. Stop trying to be what women want and find someone who wants what you are/have. "

The problem arises when you don't really have anything but inexperience to offer.

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