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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all, this is my first proper forum post! I have never settled with my profile as I’ve struggled to know what to add or remove to improve my profile. Anybody with any advice would be greatly appreciated. I’m a genuine guy, love good fun and trying new things. I want to try and get that across so I can enjoy more meets. Many thanks in advance all and happy fabbing! X

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It's OK...

Not terrible and not enticing, it lacks personality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's OK...

Not terrible and not enticing, it lacks personality. "

Thank you for that! I’ll try to put that across!

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe

Profile content is ok, but your pictures are boring… so you do have a great body, but you lack variety in what you present… hopefully that makes sense… It’s a bit like looking at 30 pictures of the same Willy… yep… it’s your chest… from the left, from the right… yawn…

Mix it up a bit… make it look desirable… put a shirt on… unbutton it… make the picture black and white…. You catch my drift?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s very helpful I get what you mean! Thank you!

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By *uicypeaches77Couple
over a year ago

Torquay

I've just updated my pics ..as the previous poster says ...try a bit of suggestive evocative...stuff there are some very good ones on here ...

Harry

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe


"That’s very helpful I get what you mean! Thank you! "

Welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've just updated my pics ..as the previous poster says ...try a bit of suggestive evocative...stuff there are some very good ones on here ...

Harry "

Adding some bits as we speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much wrong with your profile, I like it anyway. Can you live up to the bold claims you make in your bio though haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just updated my pics ..as the previous poster says ...try a bit of suggestive evocative...stuff there are some very good ones on here ...

Harry "

Your pics are amazing, you both look incredibly sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many don't read the profile text so I wouldn't worry about it op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not much wrong with your profile, I like it anyway. Can you live up to the bold claims you make in your bio though haha"

Thank you! I’d say I can!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So many don't read the profile text so I wouldn't worry about it op "

Thank you!

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We'd say drop where you say "professional" as there is no such thing as a "professional" swinger.

It's just self proclaimed pretentious nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'd say drop where you say "professional" as there is no such thing as a "professional" swinger.

It's just self proclaimed pretentious nonsense.

"

I don’t think he means he’s a professional swinger, it means he works and his job is an office based job.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"We'd say drop where you say "professional" as there is no such thing as a "professional" swinger.

It's just self proclaimed pretentious nonsense.

I don’t think he means he’s a professional swinger, it means he works and his job is an office based job. "

Not sure of it reads that way,

but isn't everyone "professional" in terms of their work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'd say drop where you say "professional" as there is no such thing as a "professional" swinger.

It's just self proclaimed pretentious nonsense.

I don’t think he means he’s a professional swinger, it means he works and his job is an office based job.

Not sure of it reads that way,

but isn't everyone "professional" in terms of their work?

"

Yeah, I know what you mean and I’ve always thought it’s a weird term as it’s so vague. I’m not sure exactly what it means to be honest but I think it means that his job is an office based one rather than a manual one. Like an accountant could describe himself as being professional but a landscape gardener couldn’t, I may be wrong though. It’s not a term I’ve ever used, even though my job is office based so I probably am professional haha

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

That’s a good profile, nice bit of detail. We’ll set out. Pictures are great.

Hope it works for you!

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By *andSCouple
over a year ago

Old London Town

I’d like to ask about the bi-curious element of your profile. You don’t say anything else about it in your profile. What would you like to experience and are you happy to be straight when with a couple that has a straight male, like me?

We don’t look for single males, but we know of some couples that do and all some of them want is more attention for their lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'd say drop where you say "professional" as there is no such thing as a "professional" swinger.

It's just self proclaimed pretentious nonsense.

I don’t think he means he’s a professional swinger, it means he works and his job is an office based job.

Not sure of it reads that way,

but isn't everyone "professional" in terms of their work?

Yeah, I know what you mean and I’ve always thought it’s a weird term as it’s so vague. I’m not sure exactly what it means to be honest but I think it means that his job is an office based one rather than a manual one. Like an accountant could describe himself as being professional but a landscape gardener couldn’t, I may be wrong though. It’s not a term I’ve ever used, even though my job is office based so I probably am professional haha"

Think professional means university educated not an office worker

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Think professional means university educated not an office worker"

Not specifically university educated, but works in a job that's governed buy a professional body. Architects, doctors, solicitors, etc, all have to abide by the rules of a governing body. Shop workers, delivery drivers, etc, don't.

Quite often, the terms of their membership of the body (and use of letters after their name) include not bringing the profession into disrespect. There was the case years back of a young accountant who got barred from the ACCA because he was photographed peeing on a war memorial in London.

(Bry)

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Hey all, this is my first proper forum post! I have never settled with my profile as I’ve struggled to know what to add or remove to improve my profile. Anybody with any advice would be greatly appreciated. I’m a genuine guy, love good fun and trying new things. I want to try and get that across so I can enjoy more meets. Many thanks in advance all and happy fabbing! X "

Pictures better than most, though we'd say to have ONE classy dick pic, just we we can tell that it's not hideous or deformed

Profile text - nothing original in there. Just the same lines that so many other guys write. Having said that, profile text is of little importance compared to your photos, status updates and introductory message.

(Bry)

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

You have a fairly decent selection of photos

The text seems a bit bland, there's nothing that really stands out. Others disagree but I feel the text is important. It's a chance to express your personality as well as your desires and what qualities you seek in people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a funny profile but you hardly see any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think professional means university educated not an office worker

Not specifically university educated, but works in a job that's governed buy a professional body. Architects, doctors, solicitors, etc, all have to abide by the rules of a governing body. Shop workers, delivery drivers, etc, don't.

Quite often, the terms of their membership of the body (and use of letters after their name) include not bringing the profession into disrespect. There was the case years back of a young accountant who got barred from the ACCA because he was photographed peeing on a war memorial in London.

(Bry)"

Thanks for that, amazing how after 41 years that’s the first time anyone’s ever explained to me what it means. I’ve read it and heard people say it loads of times and just thought it was a way of saying ‘I have a good job’, which I guess it is basically haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your help and discussion! Some useful tips!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your January and May pics are a duplicate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many don't read the profile text so I wouldn't worry about it op "

Yes what you say is often true and it’s often quite difficult to make It snappy and interesting to give a good indication of what your like and what your into.

Your profile is very good Sassy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sometimes less is more when it comes to the photos. Photos 4 - 9 are basically all the same - neck down photos of your torso.

I personally think one would be enough

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think sometimes less is more when it comes to the photos. Photos 4 - 9 are basically all the same - neck down photos of your torso.

I personally think one would be enough "

I agree - despite it being an exceptionally attractive torso !

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Oh, wow.

Don’t know if you’ve already tweaked your profile since you first posted, but you’re definitely my cup of tea, haha. Love the photos!

Will go and read the profile text now haha x

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