FabSwingers.com forum: Would you Verify me?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello wonderful souls,

I made this profile a while back but never engaged with it.

I am looking to change that and would love to get started with a verification.

Is anyone happy to verify me via cam or arrange a social?

Cheers x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Hello wonderful souls,

I made this profile a while back but never engaged with it.

I am looking to change that and would love to get started with a verification.

Is anyone happy to verify me via cam or arrange a social?

Cheers x"
Not many people take any notice of cam veries I'm afraid so the best way to go about getting verified is definitely by a social or club meet .

Good luck

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

"Not many people take any notice of cam veries I'm afraid so the best way to go about getting verified is definitely by a social or club meet .

Good luck

Exactly this.

We always assume people with only cam veris never meet - and we've try to be proved wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cam veris mean nothing prove nothing

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"cam veris mean nothing prove nothing"

True.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"Hello wonderful souls,

I made this profile a while back but never engaged with it.

I am looking to change that and would love to get started with a verification.

Is anyone happy to verify me via cam or arrange a social?

Cheers x"

Cam verifications can be worse than no verifications.

Tend to say

I stay at home every night wanking in front of my screen.

Another Pot Noodle and Porn night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it proves they are male or female and tbh not everyone "has" to meet to be part of the community

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

"Surely it proves they are male or female and tbh not everyone "has" to meet to be part of the community"

True, but if a person is ONLY going to "play" on cam, why care about being verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello wonderful souls,

I made this profile a while back but never engaged with it.

I am looking to change that and would love to get started with a verification.

Is anyone happy to verify me via cam or arrange a social?

Cheers x

Cam verifications can be worse than no verifications.

Tend to say

I stay at home every night wanking in front of my screen.

Another Pot Noodle and Porn night.

That's how we view cam only veris as well.

We would consider replying to an account without veris over an account with only cam veris. Experience had shown that a lot of the long term dreamers and fantasists are cam only verified.

Much better to be verified in person by a club or established fab member. Even if they are social meet veris its says you have the confidence to meet people in real life and your here for more than just dirty chats, telephone calls and on screen fantasies / wanking.

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge

Think he was asking to be cam verified to prove he exists so he can get to a real life meet onto to meet verification.

Surely we all took the first steps somewhere and all being well, he is genuine and will get to meet someone who will then be able to verify him as a decent human being..

I have met others who are only cam verified and not had any problems.

Good luck and hand around the chat room, I am sure someone will do so after you've chatted..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for your insights and and point of views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Helps to bypass that veri filter, so people can contact. Totally get that, but wish the site would separate the filter flag/tick!

OP, as a lovely person in the chatrooms to veri your face matches your pics. It's been done that way plenty of times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it proves they are male or female and tbh not everyone "has" to meet to be part of the community"

Interesting that insight

But swinging is all about meeting. Can't be looked upon as anything else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry think I was a bit slow to see you already have a flag veri... apologies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry think I was a bit slow to see you already have a flag veri... apologies

Thank you very much though X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it proves they are male or female and tbh not everyone "has" to meet to be part of the community

Interesting that insight

But swinging is all about meeting. Can't be looked upon as anything else!"

Well for many swinging is not about meeting but chatting to like minded individuals.

Also don't forget not every swinger is using fab, I could swing with 20 people who choose not to be on fab, doesn't make me a non swinger because I'm not verified on fab.

Just food for thought

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I'll verify anyone and everyone if they turn up for a quick coffee/drink, doesn't mean much to most people and in my years here I've met many unverified men as I rely on my own judgement, not that of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cam verifications can be worse than no verifications.

Tend to say

I stay at home every night wanking in front of my screen.

Another Pot Noodle and Porn night.

You didn't mention which flavour pot noodle. C&M or B&T.

I think I may be missing the point of this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it proves they are male or female and tbh not everyone "has" to meet to be part of the community

Interesting that insight

But swinging is all about meeting. Can't be looked upon as anything else!

Well for many swinging is not about meeting but chatting to like minded individuals.

Also don't forget not every swinger is using fab, I could swing with 20 people who choose not to be on fab, doesn't make me a non swinger because I'm not verified on fab.

Just food for thought

How can anyone call themselves a swinger if they don’t meet????

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Surely it proves they are male or female and tbh not everyone "has" to meet to be part of the community

Interesting that insight

But swinging is all about meeting. Can't be looked upon as anything else!

Well for many swinging is not about meeting but chatting to like minded individuals.

Also don't forget not every swinger is using fab, I could swing with 20 people who choose not to be on fab, doesn't make me a non swinger because I'm not verified on fab.

Just food for thought

How can anyone call themselves a swinger if they don’t meet????

Have a wee think about it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it proves they are male or female and tbh not everyone "has" to meet to be part of the community

Interesting that insight

But swinging is all about meeting. Can't be looked upon as anything else!

Well for many swinging is not about meeting but chatting to like minded individuals.

Also don't forget not every swinger is using fab, I could swing with 20 people who choose not to be on fab, doesn't make me a non swinger because I'm not verified on fab.

Just food for thought

You've just switched tched the goal posts there haha. I'm answering your first sentence and how it reads...

Maybe give it a bit more thought then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can anyone call themselves a swinger if they don’t meet????

Have a wee think about it..."

Just sounds like a fantasist to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking about swinging without the sex .....

Just sounds like exchanging wanking material to me!

Enjoy!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Talking about swinging without the sex .....

Just sounds like exchanging wanking material to me!

Enjoy!"

Not at all.

I don't meet.

Doesn't mean I didn't used to and can't give advice or support to those that do.

Just because you may retire one part of your life doesn't render what you did duting that time irrelevant or invaluable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talking about swinging without the sex .....

Just sounds like exchanging wanking material to me!

Enjoy!

Not at all.

I don't meet.

Doesn't mean I didn't used to and can't give advice or support to those that do.

Just because you may retire one part of your life doesn't render what you did duting that time irrelevant or invaluable "

I would say that’s more of an ex swinger personally. A person who doesn’t meet anyone really isn’t a swinger.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Talking about swinging without the sex .....

Just sounds like exchanging wanking material to me!

Enjoy!

Not at all.

I don't meet.

Doesn't mean I didn't used to and can't give advice or support to those that do.

Just because you may retire one part of your life doesn't render what you did duting that time irrelevant or invaluable

I would say that’s more of an ex swinger personally. A person who doesn’t meet anyone really isn’t a swinger. "

I was answering the comment about exchanging wanking material and it came across that's pretty much the only use for someone who doesn't meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talking about swinging without the sex .....

Just sounds like exchanging wanking material to me!

Enjoy!

Not at all.

I don't meet.

Doesn't mean I didn't used to and can't give advice or support to those that do.

Just because you may retire one part of your life doesn't render what you did duting that time irrelevant or invaluable

I would say that’s more of an ex swinger personally. A person who doesn’t meet anyone really isn’t a swinger.

I was answering the comment about exchanging wanking material and it came across that's pretty much the only use for someone who doesn't meet. "

Well it's one of the reasons. I could mention many others, but I kept it brief and given my experience through my DMs how it's been for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it proves they are male or female and tbh not everyone "has" to meet to be part of the community

Interesting that insight

But swinging is all about meeting. Can't be looked upon as anything else!"

I stand by this comment I made too

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Surely it proves they are male or female and tbh not everyone "has" to meet to be part of the community

Interesting that insight

But swinging is all about meeting. Can't be looked upon as anything else!

I stand by this comment I made too"

So I shouldn't be here then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it proves they are male or female and tbh not everyone "has" to meet to be part of the community

Interesting that insight

But swinging is all about meeting. Can't be looked upon as anything else!

I stand by this comment I made too

So I shouldn't be here then? "

I didn't say that.... I'm not currently swinging myself. It's something I want to get back into. Talking about swinging and doing just that is two different things.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Surely it proves they are male or female and tbh not everyone "has" to meet to be part of the community

Interesting that insight

But swinging is all about meeting. Can't be looked upon as anything else!

I stand by this comment I made too

So I shouldn't be here then?

I didn't say that.... I'm not currently swinging myself. It's something I want to get back into. Talking about swinging and doing just that is two different things. "

So let's say...a golfer who hasn't played for a year, can they no longer get call themselves a golfer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't call myself a swinger if at this moment in time, I'm not swinging.

The majority of guys (that's how my filters are set up) want to chat about swinging, certain scenario's etc. In my mind (if folk agree with it or not) those messages come across as only wanting to wank over the idea. I can only give you my experience and how it's been for me.

A high percentage haven't swung or been to adult parties, group play or swingers clubs. At that point they aren't swingers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to chat about golf, thanks very much. It's about as boring as cricket.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I don't need to chat about golf, thanks very much. It's about as boring as cricket."

Oh I agree but they are still golfers, despite not playing for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see you're talking about swinging an iron golf club

Got it!

Back to the OP and his lost verification thread

If I met him for coffee, I'd veri him for that!

Not many want to meet even for that basic idea ....

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I see you're talking about swinging an iron golf club

Got it!

Back to the OP and his lost verification thread

If I met him for coffee, I'd veri him for that!

Not many want to meet even for that basic idea ...."

I posted the exact same thing on this thread, I'm happy to verify anyone who turns up for a coffee and have done for over 10 years, I also run socials for people to come to to meet others and get verified.

I don't meet though but I may do in the future.

I am a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single person meeting for a coffee to chat about swinging face to face. I'll be able to see if he wanks while I divulge my past swinging stories.

I'm not a swinger, haven't been so since covid.

I'm now a single person looking for another single person. Like the majority on this site.

Real swingers still swinging is rare as on here, they're definitely in the minority.

I see it from a different angle to you....sorry you can't persuade me to think your way. I'm not trying to with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see you're talking about swinging an iron golf club

Got it!

Back to the OP and his lost verification thread

If I met him for coffee, I'd veri him for that!

Not many want to meet even for that basic idea ....

I don't meet though but I may do in the future.

I am a swinger."

Nope you’re a serial socialiser. Haha

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"Hello wonderful souls,

I made this profile a while back but never engaged with it.

I am looking to change that and would love to get started with a verification.

Is anyone happy to verify me via cam or arrange a social?

Cheers x

Cam verifications can be worse than no verifications.

Tend to say

I stay at home every night wanking in front of my screen.

Another Pot Noodle and Porn night.

That's how we view cam only veris as well.

We would consider replying to an account without veris over an account with only cam veris. Experience had shown that a lot of the long term dreamers and fantasists are cam only verified.

KJ"

That's about it.

Go meet some people, how hard can that be, loads of socials and clubs.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"Surely it proves they are male or female and tbh not everyone "has" to meet to be part of the community

Interesting that insight

But swinging is all about meeting. Can't be looked upon as anything else!

Well for many swinging is not about meeting but chatting to like minded individuals.

Also don't forget not every swinger is using fab, I could swing with 20 people who choose not to be on fab, doesn't make me a non swinger because I'm not verified on fab.

Just food for thought

How can anyone call themselves a swinger if they don’t meet????

Have a wee think about it..."

I've just had a wee and then a think.

Think I only want to meet people who turn up in the real world, not in the virtual world or for just to chat.

Chat is fine as long as it's to my face and then when we are naked. ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it proves they are male or female and tbh not everyone "has" to meet to be part of the community

Interesting that insight

But swinging is all about meeting. Can't be looked upon as anything else!

Well for many swinging is not about meeting but chatting to like minded individuals.

Also don't forget not every swinger is using fab, I could swing with 20 people who choose not to be on fab, doesn't make me a non swinger because I'm not verified on fab.

Just food for thought

How can anyone call themselves a swinger if they don’t meet????

Have a wee think about it...

I've just had a wee and then a think.

Think I only want to meet people who turn up in the real world, not in the virtual world or for just to chat.

Chat is fine as long as it's to my face and then when we are naked. ????"

Otherwise we may as well join a knitting and natter circle.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"I don't need to chat about golf, thanks very much. It's about as boring as cricket.

Oh I agree but they are still golfers, despite not playing for a while.

How about have fab split into those that wish to meet and those that don't want to meet (for whatever reason)alongside those that want to chat.

I have nothing against those that don't want to meet in person or just want to chat but we only have an interest in those that do meet.

Don't care what you call yourself or the reasons you don't meet.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"I see you're talking about swinging an iron golf club

Got it!

Back to the OP and his lost verification thread

If I met him for coffee, I'd veri him for that!

Not many want to meet even for that basic idea ....

I don't meet though but I may do in the future.

I am a swinger."

Do you just meet people for coffee, socials and chat.

Do you ever meet up for sex.

If not, I wouldn't class you as a swinger.

Wouldn't bother us either way as long as folks are up front.

We love all types of meets.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Hello wonderful souls,

I made this profile a while back but never engaged with it.

I am looking to change that and would love to get started with a verification.

Is anyone happy to verify me via cam or arrange a social?

Cheers x"

You might be better off on a WhatsApp video call rather than cams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone verify me on cam please

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