FabSwingers.com forum: When the Buzz wears off…..

By *ightdelights OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Central Edinburgh/Central Manchester

Am I getting too old or am I just getting bored?

I’ve been using Fabswingers since 2012 & since then right up until 2019 atleast I would regularly cam in the chatrooms & enjoyed guys watching me and also loved making guys cum…I rarely want to cam anymore… Similarly I used to meet several guys each month but now I am happy chatting but the sex drive seems to have heavily reduced…. So has the buzz worn off because I’m just getting older or just getting bored hmmmm

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By *omerset tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

Maybe just give yourself a break.for couple months and see how you feel then . Its really difficult at mo as people are reluctanct to meet unless its a club etc I have friends who go dogging and they are really busy in evenings but its not everybodys cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hide profile and take a break ...no one is ever too old for fun

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I know what you mean, it’s Probably a bit of both. As time goes over priorities change , things start to feel bit samey. Probably worth taking a break.

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By *isionofdignityWoman
over a year ago

reading

Totally agree with all that’s been said .

The energy doesn’t seem to be there for me either . I can go on cam and laugh joke maybe once a month but the ‘thrill’ has gone .

I would love to meet a local male as a fwb but I’ve met quite a few people but none fitted the bill .

I think maybe it’s a combination of covid , negativity and how we are at the moment . Good luck x

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By *ueenieHWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I'm feeling the exact same way, I've lost my sex drive and haven't gone to clubs recently, I'm going to take a few months out and see what happens

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

I know the feeling. I wouldn't say I've completely lost my sex drive. It's just that I don't seem to really fancy anyone.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

This is not a you problem OP. It is a country wide problem. With all the anxieties with covid brexit, pay, health and safety. Everyone is feeling the pressure and the last thing on most folks mind is sexual pleasure.

If anything it is time for a sexual reboot. To look to oneself and re explore what makes one smile.....

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I call this 'fabtigue'! I go through phases of it.

Hiding my profile for a while and logging out for a month or so usually does the trick x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a break too when it gets too much..

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Am I getting too old or am I just getting bored?

I might bounce around never use the cam but finding a variety of people also helps to bounce between whether just on here or away from the site if the trust and chemistry is their.doing more or less the same thing all the time can become boring for anyone unless their is great chemistry.i wouldn't say as people get older had anything to do with this but something to think about x

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It's quite normal for people to take a step back now and then. At the end of the day if its no longer bringing you joy, stop and concentrate on some else that does bring you joy. You can always come back should you find the urge to.

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