FabSwingers.com forum: Profile review please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Honest opinions please, literally getting no attention at all I’m sad hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a bit confusing. You say you want specifically a woman slim but the go in to say you want someone slim-curvy?

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe

Sorry but your content is way too child like for me… like pussy pleaser and saying you will be hard… I want a slim fit woman, then you say curvy..

How about

I like to please a lady, I like to think I have great stamina and I love ladies of all shapes and sizes

You know, write it like you are trying to sell yourself and your skills rather than a cheap porn mag exert

Again, some women may like this type of talk… but I’m screwing my face up as I read it saying ohh nooo!!

I’m trying to be constructive here so please don’t be offended by my directness… others may have totally the opposite in terms of input… good luck my friend x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry but your content is way too child like for me… like pussy pleaser and saying you will be hard… I want a slim fit woman, then you say curvy..

How about

I like to please a lady, I like to think I have great stamina and I love ladies of all shapes and sizes

You know, write it like you are trying to sell yourself and your skills rather than a cheap porn mag exert

Again, some women may like this type of talk… but I’m screwing my face up as I read it saying ohh nooo!!

I’m trying to be constructive here so please don’t be offended by my directness… others may have totally the opposite in terms of input… good luck my friend x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No offence taken! Thank you so much for being honest, I shall take everything into consideration!

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By *exy Black JenWoman
over a year ago

London/Eastbourne weekends

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By *exy Black JenWoman
over a year ago

London/Eastbourne weekends

"Sorry but your content is way too child like for me… like pussy pleaser and saying you will be hard… I want a slim fit woman, then you say curvy..

How about

I like to please a lady, I like to think I have great stamina and I love ladies of all shapes and sizes

You know, write it like you are trying to sell yourself and your skills rather than a cheap porn mag exert

Again, some women may like this type of talk… but I’m screwing my face up as I read it saying ohh nooo!!

I’m trying to be constructive here so please don’t be offended by my directness… others may have totally the opposite in terms of input… good luck my friend x

this"

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I think you've joined expecting instant results. Quite a few join fab expecting it to be an easy lay version of T1nder and it's nothing like that.

You've got to be more patient and allow more than just two weeks as guys probably out number women by 100-1.

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"Honest opinions please, literally getting no attention at all I’m sad hahaha"

My honest opinion is that your current profile comes across as if you want to order double glazing, listing what it needs to be - and I doubt that this would be very popular because few women want to be reduced to their body parts or told how to groom themselves, there is plenty of such nonsence coming at us from every quarter, hardly many of us would wish to deal with more of that in an intimate situation.

I would advise to either make it more human and put some real effort or else to simply pay for professional services. Human interactions do not work like it is a supermarket where you come in and choose a product - but without paying for it, if you wish to treat sex and companionship like a capitalist transaction then you will have to pay for it.

If you do want to generate interest then think about it from a woman's perspective - what does she get out of interactions with you? How can you make it easy for a woman to become interested and to stay interested?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

To me comes across ad all about you and that a big cock should get instashag results.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I quite like it. It shows openly what you're after. I'd just add a back/bum pic.

But as the trail of comments above shows, everyone likes different things and you'll never appeal to all

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

It tells me everything I need to know.

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"To me comes across ad all about you and that a big cock should get instashag results."

This is just about right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient OP.

Read profiles you're interested in and respect what they want, before you message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be patient OP.

Read profiles you're interested in and respect what they want, before you message!

I know you want profile advice, but it could be your content of message, that puts people off.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

I wasn't struck by it..bigging yourself up to much..and again..its better of you say that you love all women not a specific type if that's what you mean

I read that like..I would like someone slim..but if I can't have that then curvy will do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You profile suggests your successful / experienced in club meets but your not meet verified either by a known swinging club staff or via those you have played with in clubs. That is a red flag to us.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’m not a fan of your pics. Sometimes tasteful pics in clothes can be more appealing.

Maybe refer to oral skills rather than ‘eating pussy’. Unless you’re looking for a sub, I wouldn’t mention that you’re a Dom.

Two weeks is hardly any time to be on here. Try and get verified from the club that you go to. Most hosts will provide a verification.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Amazing feedback people! I’m not brand new to the site, was a member a few years back just noticing a few changes. Thank you all very much!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You may have taken things out of it, as presently it just states your name. It will not be enough generally, as it will need to sell you.

Create realistic expectations first, so you don't get disappointed.

Rather than a detailed specification of who you want, consider it has to be the opposite - the details that others will need so that they can decide if you are right for them. There is a huge range of single men to pick from here, so people skip to the next 1, if unsure.

Your username suggests a 10 inch of something - that may deter some. If it's important, you could mention it.

Your photos are better than many guys. A face pic that's smiling is typically more inviting - perhaps get someone to take a few of you. Overall, very clear pics are the best, especially if we can truly understand how you would be, if we were with you.

Good luck!

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

Take "not looking for single guys" off.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

No idea what it was like before, but almost anything is better than the single line of text you currently have.

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

"No idea what it was like before, but almost anything is better than the single line of text you currently have. "

I was just thinking the exact same...reading the rest of the post it looks like the advice was to re write the entire thing.

I think my best piece of advice for him would be to be patient. Too many single guys on fab think that women and couples must be on fab because we're horny devils therefore would go for absolutely anyone. Everyone still has tastes and preferences whether they're looking for a one night thing or a long term relationship.

Also, your name ends in 10in but from the dick pic you have it doesn't look like that's entirely truthful so maybe think about either your photography skills or your name choosing...

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

Also, your name ends in 10in but from the dick pic you have it doesn't look like that's entirely truthful so maybe think about either your photography skills or your name choosing..."

Newbie mistake! back to the drawing board it seems.

You'll get there mate.

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