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By *ancs married couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Silverdale

Hi all! Any advice for a first time swap? Weve had ffm before but mrs hasn't played with another man yet. We are excited but nervous x

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

Discuss your rules and boundaries beforehand.

Go with the flow.

Enjoy.

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

Yep make sure you are both comfy with the boundaries and the couple are aware too so no one over steps. For us, we said to have a check point during our first meeting just so we could either reset boundaries or confirm where we were at was ok as sometimes fantasy can be different to reality. Dont feel pushed into anything. It's all about fun at the end of the day. Enjoy x

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

Yes, all above as to boundaries, avoiding pressure & 'break outs' but get the most out of the anticipation phase, it's all part of the pleasure, talking between you as you make love, turning each other on and all the good 'what if's'.

Above it's fun!

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We had our first full swap last week. Spend time chatting to the couple and you'll just know if it feels right.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

Like everyone else has said really, make sure you all equally into it. If not then it doesnt happen.

You both need to feel relaxed and comfortable and have no risks of 'taking one for the team'. If at any point it stops being fun then say so. You dont want to risk a great relationship for a cheap thrill.

If you want to chat about things some more, feel free to get in touch.

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Make sure you social first to see if you get on and if they are a couple you could let guide you on your journey?

Most talk about a click which is right if you don’t feel comfy with them just say so and move on to find someone you do ?

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By *ancs married couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Silverdale

Great advice, thanks everyone! X

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Some great advice here, first thing to check if you (female) want to do this and make sure both of you agree.

When you find your right couple, it will just happen, ensure you involve each other as much as you can, we typically end up swapping a few times so everyone stays involved.

With certain positions you need to make sure safe sex is being followed and have a secret signal with your partner, so if there is something you (female) do not like, you can subtly inform him rather than feeling obliged to carry on because you do not want to be spoilt sport.

You will have a great time we are sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 2 guys should make the lady or ladies as comfy as possible , even leave her in charge and go at her own pace

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

For the guys it should be all about their partners safety and happiness so make sure boundaries are agreed before starting and take things slowly enjoying everything knowing that all parties are happy and getting real enjoyment

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Let the ladies lead

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By *omDecMan
over a year ago

morpeth

BOTH need to be secure & everyone should feel no pressure to swap unless either a or more social public safe meets have been enjoyed to see if the chemistry is present,limits & boundries should be AGREED & RESPECTED at ALL times should ALL decided to swap,ALL must chat for rules to confirmed,DO NOT PLAY if ANYONE feels unsafe or simply going along to please a partner,all have fun with other people on a few nights out,coffee,lunch or meals out as 4 or more...and most importantly of all....Enjoy the company as relaxed as possible as we all only have 1 shot at living x ,happy fabbing & enjoy(if you both choose to)

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