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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone my partner is new to swinging ,I have done swinging before and loved it,was on this site on my own ,we are on here now as a couple as he wants to try it out.The thing is he doesnt know how he will feel about me seeing other men to play with,am fine with him seeing women on his own as well as us together,he said hes not jealous at all and doesnt mind me flirting with men ,to him it will feel like I am being dominated,would like your opinions on this please,thanks for yer advice Debbie xxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is only one way to find out. Just make sure you do it as a couple, make it clear that if hes not happy all play will stop and make sure he knows no matter what, hes the man you want to go home with

Good luck and have fun, im sure he will love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication, communication, communication I would of thought is key but then again what the hell do I know ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try soft swing together first, see if its for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do couples swaps rather than meeting people as two singles. That way you are both meeting someone and sharing the experience.

If you meet as two singles and for arguements sake, he's not having any luck where you are (because of the male/female ratio) then he may feel needlessly cuckolded which could be detrimental.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all so much for your advice ,much appreciated .will let you know how we get on ,thanks again guys xxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As already mentioned start with soft swap, or a club.

Make your rules, see how you both get on with them before changing them.

We were the opposite, I was swinging as a single male and in previous couple before I met my princess. Although she had been to Xtasia with her ex.

We started off soft swap but it soon changed to full swap, funny thing was it took me 6/7 meets for me to do full swap. I had a mental block! Whilst i was happy for her to enjoy full swap.

Reckon it was because I was more experienced in swinging and I did not want to push her into it.

We don't regret it one bit, We have made some fab friends along the way, we love the social side of it.

One of the best things about swinging is watching your partner enjoying themselves with someone else

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over a year ago

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