FabSwingers.com forum: Joining a Club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all I'm looking to join a local club (Clubf) But I'm new to this and very nervous about it

Can anyone experienced offer any advice for first timers?

I'm 32

Single

Thanks

By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Look at the membership section on the club website, it will tell you all you need to know.

By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Text the club phone, arrange a time for your first visit. You’ll get a tour, ask all the questions, do what they tell you,

Use your words and smiles. Say hello to the people next to you at the bar. Pop outside to the smoking area for a bit of banter. Everyone’s pretty friendly and easy to get on with, in my experience.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a club in mayo area new to this need advice

By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The evening starts out socially - use it. Talk with everyone. I find the bar a bit loud for that, but the smoking area and hot tub are good social spaces.

Be friendly, don't be pushy. If your first words to someone are "can I join you?", the answer will usually be "no".

It's all about people. I'd suggest not even thinking about sex for at least the first three hours. Just get to know people and (the important bit) let them get to know you. Have fun being around a bunch of interesting people that you'd never normally get to meet.

No means no. It should never need to be said twice.